We Don't Deserve Men

By: Kayla Yoder
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  • We Don't Deserve Men is a show dedicated to shifting the dynamic between men and women from competition to cooperation.
    2024
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  • 11. Male Feminist vs Men’s Rights Activist - A Crazy Story of Being Arrested, Publicly Shamed & Labelled a "Creep" with Ghasan Alesayi

    11. Male Feminist vs Men’s Rights Activist - A Crazy Story of Being Arrested, Publicly Shamed & Labelled a "Creep" with Ghasan Alesayi
    Aug 14 2024
    In this compelling episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host speaks with Ghasan Alesayi (or, as he's known in the film industry, Sam Al Esai, about his arrest and subsequent public shaming post a dating coach session on August 8th, 2023. The discussion spans the impact of allegations and media fallout on Ghassan's life, alongside his struggle to reclaim his identity. They further analyze the fast-paced nature of social media judgments and the pressures of modern masculinity, advocating for empathy, vulnerability, and better communication between genders. This episode offers a thoughtful exploration of dating, societal misconceptions, and the necessity for personal integrity and reflection in a crisis of modern relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:18 Ghassan's Arrest and Public Shaming 04:37 The Aftermath and Support System 09:23 Reevaluating Relationships and Self 11:47 Deciding to Work with a Dating Coach 14:33 Therapy and Social Experiments 18:09 Fears and Realizations 36:13 The Arrest Incident 48:28 The Power of Acceptance and Transformation 49:42 Mindset Shifts and Personal Growth 50:17 Exploring Masculinity and Power Dynamics 54:22 Navigating Empathy and Vulnerability 56:59 Support Systems and Social Reactions 01:05:17 Documentary Goals and Cancel Culture 01:13:27 The Dating Crisis and Societal Pressures 01:37:13 Misconceptions and Gender Dynamics 01:42:28 Final Reflections and Takeaways Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 hr and 43 mins
  • 10. Chivalry and Traditional Values Aren't Dead! Here's How They Can Help a Woman Soften... A Conversation about Who Pays on a Date, Men's Groups, The 'Nothing' Box, and More with Michael Franco

    10. Chivalry and Traditional Values Aren't Dead! Here's How They Can Help a Woman Soften... A Conversation about Who Pays on a Date, Men's Groups, The 'Nothing' Box, and More with Michael Franco
    Aug 7 2024

    In this episode, we explore the intersection of traditional values, modern dating, and the emotional landscape of masculinity. The discussion touches on chivalry, the dynamics of paying for dates, and the vulnerability in giving and receiving help. We delve into male emotional expression, the significance of men's groups, and the support partners can offer by respecting each other's emotional needs. Additionally, we reflect on the positive aspects of being a man, the importance of male friendships, and the emotional freedom often seen in women, providing profound insights into the modern male experience.

    00:00 Growing Up with Traditional Values

    00:30 Navigating Modern Dating Etiquette

    02:25 Chivalry in Everyday Actions

    03:53 The Emotional Impact of Rejection

    05:56 Franco's Fiancé's Transformation

    07:50 The Vulnerability of Receiving

    10:46 The Masculine and Feminine Dynamics

    16:02 Providing and Protecting in Relationships

    31:26 The Challenges of Emotional Support

    36:58 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships

    38:16 Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Expression

    40:38 The Importance of Active Listening

    42:46 Processing Emotions: Men vs. Women

    47:47 The Role of Men's Groups in Emotional Support

    53:45 Understanding the 'Nothing Box' Concept

    01:00:24 Transition Time and Emotional Efficiency

    01:05:18 The Need for More Men's Groups

    01:08:11 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man

    01:10:39 Final Thoughts and Reflections

    Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • 09. Men and Women Process Emotions and Communicate Differently - A Conversation on How to Better Support Yourself and Your Partner with Michael Fleischner

    09. Men and Women Process Emotions and Communicate Differently - A Conversation on How to Better Support Yourself and Your Partner with Michael Fleischner
    Jul 31 2024
    In this enlightening episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder welcomes dynamic entrepreneur Michael Fleschner for a deep dive into emotions, communication, and gender dynamics in relationships. Michael shares insights from his 30-year marriage, discussing the importance of emotional responsibility, processing emotions healthily, and the distinct ways men and women handle their feelings. The conversation covers the value of presence, the need for men to have male bonding activities, and the importance of creating safety and support within partnerships. Listeners will gain valuable perspectives on fostering stronger, more understanding relationships between men and women. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:09 Diving into Emotions and Communication 02:50 Processing Emotions: Men's Perspective 07:11 The Role of Physical Activity in Emotional Release 08:52 Men and Women: Different Emotional Processing 15:11 The Importance of Presence and Support 20:23 Understanding Safety in Relationships 33:06 The Dynamics of Partnership 34:53 The Importance of Male Bonding 36:51 Different Social Needs of Men and Women 38:55 Inherent Competitiveness in Men 41:49 The Value of Complementary Roles 46:35 Keys to a Successful Long-Term Marriage 57:09 Challenges and Joys of Being a Man 01:00:22 Final Thoughts and Reflections Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 hr and 1 min
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