• 15: Money Part 2 - Narthex Con 2024
    Jul 2 2024

    "We were doing Dave Ramsey before Dave Ramsey was doing Dave Ramsey."

    Welcome to We're Both Right, where James and Jen share their experiences and insights on life, marriage, and money. In this episode, they discuss their different views on money and how they learned to manage it as a couple.

    Learning to Manage Money Together

    James and Jen share their experiences of learning to manage money as a couple. They talk about their different backgrounds and how they had to combine their views on money to create a solid financial foundation for their future.

    Different Perspectives on Money

    James talks about his upbringing, where spending money was the norm and saving was not a priority. Jen, on the other hand, grew up in a household where saving money and being financially responsible were the main focus.

    • James: Spent money as soon as he had it, without much thought for the future
    • Jen: Saved money and prioritized financial stability

    Combining Financial Views

    As they started planning for their future together, James and Jen had to find a way to combine their different perspectives on money. They had to come to terms with their individual approaches and find a middle ground that worked for both of them.

    Setting Financial Goals

    They talk about setting financial goals and creating a plan that allowed them to save, pay bills, and still have some spending money for fun activities.

    • James: Initially struggled with the idea of saving and budgeting
    • Jen: Prioritized saving and creating an emergency fund

    Financial Independence and Freedom from Debt

    James and Jen discuss the importance of financial independence and the freedom that comes with being debt-free. They share their experiences of living with no debt and having an emergency fund in place.

    Learning from Others

    They also talk about how they were influenced by older married couples who were in debt despite having material possessions. This experience motivated them to prioritize financial stability and avoid falling into the same trap.

    • James: Realized the importance of financial freedom from observing others' financial struggles
    • Jen: Prioritized financial stability and avoiding debt

    Living Beneath Their Means

    In this new chunk of the transcript, James and Jen share how they made a conscious decision to live beneath their means. They talk about their early struggles, starting with a small apartment and furnishing it with affordable items. They emphasize the importance of not overspending and avoiding debt.

    • Started with nothing and lived in an affordable apartment
    • Made a decision to always live beneath their means
    • Furnished their apartment with affordable items from garage sales and saved money
    • Bought a mattress and a box spring and saved up to buy a bedroom suite
    • Emphasize the importance of living beneath their means to avoid financial stress

    Join James and Jen as they share more insights and experiences on life, marriage, and money in future episodes of We're Both Right.

    Stay tuned for more valuable insights and discussions on managing money as a couple. Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast for more tips and advice on navigating life and finances together.

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    Transcript available on website.

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    47 mins
  • 14: Young Money
    Jun 19 2024

    In this episode, Jennifer and James reflect on their experiences with how money was managed their families during the 1980s. They delve into how these early financial lessons shaped their personal self-imposed rules and vows made that guided them into their young adult lives.

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    50 mins
  • 13: Getting Old
    Jun 11 2024

    James and Jennifer are getting old. Examples of how they know they are aging. Is aging as bad as they thought it would be? How long will they live? Will they make it to 50 years married? What kind of things do they want to do in the mean time? Let's see who's right this week.

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    40 mins
  • 12: Bucket Lists
    Jun 5 2024

    Jenn and James share, and playfully argue and disagree about their bucket list items.

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    43 mins
  • 11: Deep Questions
    May 28 2024

    This episode James and Jennifer tackle some deep questions about married relationships. Are open relationships healthy or right? Should you have access to your spouse's phone and social media? All this and more.

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    35 mins
  • 10: The Best Things
    May 22 2024

    Jenn and James share their opinions on what is the best. Example: What is the best movie universe between Star Wars and Harry Potter.

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    48 mins
  • 9: The Dogs
    May 14 2024

    Jenn loves the dogs. James hates one and dislikes the other.

    Are the dogs a waste of skin or are they the loyal companions Jennifer believes them to be?

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    46 mins
  • 8: Work
    May 7 2024

    We're both getting new jobs. James is contrary. Jenn is put into emergency mode by her stupid husband. We talk about our first jobs, chat makes a good boss, a good coworker, and what we're planning for retirement. Enjoy!

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    1 hr and 3 mins