Are there scenarios in which a potential love or sex interest could be a platonic friend? Mayyyyyyyyyybe, but unlikely. In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia look at this question from many angles, and we want our listeners to chime in! Do you agree that it is nearly impossible? Have you had experiences of successful platonic relationships that have remained uncomplicated with exes, friends of the opposite sex if you are straight or bi, and friends of the same sex if you are gay or bi? We discuss sexuality, attraction, communication, and a fascinating research study of the American Scientific Journal. Tune in!

00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer

02:39 Can You Have Platonic Relationships with Attraction?

15:39 Differences in Perception Between Men and Women

20:12 The Impact of Socialization and Stereotypes

28:01 Debating the Feasibility of Platonic Relationships

34:33 Navigating Platonic Relationships with Attraction

39:46 The Challenges of Maintaining Platonic Relationships

45:58 Conclusion and Call to Action

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In this classic Mailbag Episode Dr Talia and Doug tackle two tough but relatable relationship issues. In the first, Amy gives Jake an ultimatum; either he quits his dangerous air courier job in Alaska after he lost two of his best friends doing the same dangerous job, or she leaves. But this career is his soul filling passion. What to do? And in the second mailbag Jess messed up with her serious long distance boyfriend of 6 months when she started up a “platonic” in-person friendship with her ex lover. She has been incredibly transparent and has done everything to honor her boyfriend’s feelings short of ending the friendship. Dan says he has had enough. What to do? Can these couples be saved? Tune in to find out!

00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer

01:20 Recap of Previous Episode and Live Event

10:19 Introduction to Mailbag Episode

11:43 Jake's Dilemma: Convincing Girlfriend About Job Safety

18:12 Navigating the Balance Between Passion and Relationship

23:42 Understanding Different Tolerances for Risk in Relationships

25:55 Addressing Anxiety and Fear of Abandonment in Relationships

26:51 The Importance of Open Communication and Compromise

28:17 Accepting the Inherent Risks in Certain Professions

31:59 The Importance of Transparency and Trust in Relationships

34:19 Learning from Past Mistakes

37:26 Navigating Long-Distance Relationships

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In this LIVE recorded episode, Doug and Dr Talia have a conversation with Kim Harms, DDS about her journey through multiple catastrophic losses in her life; the resilience and grace with which she came out of the darkest grief pit, as well as the incredible wisdom and advice she gives to other survivors of painful losses of loved ones. She lost both her mother and her 19 year old son to suicide, and her husband from what she is certain was a broken heart. This episode will give you such compassion for yourself and empathy for others in similar painful circumstances. We also hope you will be inspired to fight your way back to yourself, as Dr Kim says, and fight your way back to your remaining loved ones.

Website: drkimberlyharms.com

Book #1: Naomi & the Widows Club https://a.co/d/7QZdDuo and the workbook is just coming out!

Book #2: Are You Ready? How to Build a Legacy to Die For also coming out now, more information on her website!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

03:18 The Importance of Finding Joy in the Present Moment

06:40 Dr. Harms' Personal Experience with Suicide and Mental Illness

09:26 The Tragic Loss of Dr. Harms' Son

12:20 Finding Meaning and Beliefs About the Afterlife

17:01 Family History of Suicidal Depression

19:50 The Loss of Dr. Harms' Husband

23:03 Navigating Loss and Making Alternative Plans

25:20 The Power of Revenge and Fighting the Grief Pit

27:17 Understanding the Phases of Grief

30:07 Navigating the Stages of Grief and Healing

32:03 Finding a Safe Place and Conquering Fear and Loneliness

33:02 Updating Identity and Finding Purpose and Joy

35:20 Navigating Relationships and Love After Loss

39:34 Overcoming Obstacles to Healing

45:00 Planning for the End of Life

01:00:00 Conversations about Death and Downsizing

01:01:28 Planning Ahead and Choosing Where to Go

01:03:12 The Challenge of Downsizing and Feeling Clean

01:05:05 Leaving a Positive Legacy

01:08:50 Finding Purpose Within and Living a Joyful Life

01:09:46 Seeking Professional Help and Fighting for Well-being

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