Do you feel like you work way too hard to make things work with the wrong people? Maybe you self-sacrifice thinking if you just love your partner enough, you’ll get what you need. Or do you cling to how things could be because it feels better than believing the truth of your incompatibility?

But what if you could find a way to shut that shit down before it starts? What if you could see your self-sabotaging behaviors asap?

Today I’ll be reposting a recent podcast interview with guest host Jaime Messina from her podcast The Stories We Tell. I’ll be sharing the story of how getting dumped in Disneyworld helped me find the motivation to finally come out of the closet. You’re going to hear all about my personal experience of learning the hard way that I played a huge role in my own dating struggles.

I’ll be sharing some of my favorite mindful dating tips, including how to stay in the truth of the moment instead of spiraling into a toxic fantasy future, how to let all parts of you exist, and how to build worthiness by consistently choosing yourself for a change. 

By the end of this episode, you will feel more confident that if you do end up with a match that isn’t 100% doing it for you, you’ll be able to notice it asap and escape the normal attachment and unworthiness drama that creates unnecessary suffering in your dating life.

 🎤🎬🏳️‍🌈 Queer Love & Dating On-Demand Summit

Catch my guest host Jaime Messina talk about the "3 Secrets to Attract Your Ideal Partner: Concrete Strategies to Help You Increase Dating Confidence and Magnetize Your Person Into Your Life."

Go from single and stressing to happily partnered with this on-demand virtual event! Attract your person faster with a little help from some expert coaches and speakers from the Queer Community! Sign up for access to over 8 hours of trainings and bonus downloadable valued over $700!  Register now: https://www.mettadatestudio.com/queer-love-dating

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💃 About Your Host 

Lauren is a speaker, author of "The Mindful Dating Journal: Find a Healthy Love that Lasts," and creator of the free MettaDate Journal mobile app. She combines her personal success dating story with her professional mindfulness training to help singles ditch the dating struggle and claim the loving relationship they deeply deserve.