Episodes

  • No Fighting in the Life Boat with James Sweasy (#190)

    No Fighting in the Life Boat with James Sweasy (#190)
    May 2 2024
    Sober Steve is joined by James Sweasy to share his experience, strength, and hope on navigating sobriety while helping others through their own journeys.

    **Episode Highlights Include**
    - **Identify, Don't Compare:** How focusing on our similarities rather than our differences helps keep us connected and sober!
    - **Finding Value in Sobriety:** You need to value your sobriety to recovery as a whole person and keep an open mind!
    - **Finding Value in Yourself:** James shares just how much he went through and how he came out the other side believing in his own value.
    - **And Much More! **

    **Where to Find Us:**
    - James Sweasy's Website
    - James on Facebook
    - James on IG 🟢
    - gAy A on IG 🟢
    - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️

    Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober!



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    34 mins
  • Working with Your Partner Sober ft. Joey B (#189)

    Working with Your Partner Sober ft. Joey B (#189)
    Apr 25 2024
    Sober Steve is joined by Joey Bachrach from Rainbow Hill Recovery to peel back the curtain and discuss what it’s like working in recovery with his husband, Andrew Fox.

    **Episode Highlights Include**
    - **The Role of Community in Recovery:** Insights from my visit to Rainbow Hill Recovery and how my sober community helped me get through my insecurities in Los Angeles. 🤲
    - **Building Professional Fulfillment:** Joey discusses the growth and success of Rainbow Hill now being DHCS certified and their dedication to making recovery accessible to EVERYONE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
    - **Joey’s Sober Heroes:** Honoring individuals like Manny Rodriguez, whose authenticity helped pave the way for Joey and others in the recovery community. 🦸‍♂️
    - **Navigating Relationships At Work and At Home:** Exploring the delicate dynamics of relationships after addiction, emphasizing routine, communication, and mutual growth.🏣🏡
    - **And Much More! **

    **Where to Find Us:**
    - Rainbow Hill Recovery 🏣
    - Rainbow Hill Sober Living 🏡
    - Totally Sober 🔴
    - Joey’s IG 🟢
    - gAy A on IG 🟢
    - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️

    Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober!



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    28 mins
  • Grief & ADHD Sober ft. Andy (#188)

    Grief & ADHD Sober ft. Andy (#188)
    Apr 17 2024
    In this episode, Sober Steve chats with our special guest, Andy, who bravely opens up about his journey to sobriety through grief and ADHD. Andy shares his struggles with alcohol, how he found his place within the queer community, and built a network of sober friends. Andy shares his challenges of traveling while sober, and the positive shifts in lifestyle that come with sobriety. You don't want to miss Andy's inspiring story and the valuable insights shared in this episode.

    Steve then dives into the correlation between ADHD and addiction with some facts and stats that may surprise you! Do you have an ADHD diagnosis already? Or might you have ADHD and have not been diagnosed yet? If you are in recovery, your chances of this affecting you are higher than you might think!

    Connect with Andy on IG @andyalsop

    Connect with Steve everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve@SoberSteve.com

    Until next time, stay sober friends!

    Source for ADHD Mentions: https://www.addictions.com/blog/adhd-in-addiction-recovery-and-how-it-affects-people/

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    34 mins
  • Trans Figured in Sobriety ft. Brian B

    Trans Figured in Sobriety ft. Brian B
    Apr 11 2024
    Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we delve into the inspiring story of Brian Belovitch, author of Transfigured. He is a resilient individual who has navigated through societal pressures, personal struggles, and the challenges of identity and sobriety. Brian also has the unique experience of transitioning from male to female in his youth, and then a transition back to male in sobriety.

    Join host Steve as he sits down with Brian to explore his transformation, his experiences and insights on sobriety, and his mission to carry a powerful message within the queer community. Together, they discuss navigating the complexities of reclaiming one's identity, the importance of asking for help, and the significance of embracing change. Get ready for a raw and empowering conversation you won't want to miss!

    Check out Brian's book, Trans Figured: My Journey from Boy to Girl to Woman to Man, here: https://a.co/d/dEB7DrC

    Connect with Brian online: https://www.facebook.com/brian.belovitch1

    Connect with Steve and the podcast online everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve at steve@sobersteve.com

    Want more content? Head over to Patreon for bonus episodes and early releases at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast

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    37 mins
  • Success in Sobriety ft. Christopher V

    Success in Sobriety ft. Christopher V
    Apr 4 2024

    Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we dive into the inspiring journey of our guest, Christopher, a fragrance and skin care developer and fashion designer. He shares his experiences with sobriety, the challenges he faced, and the resilience he developed. From creating his own line of fragrances to navigating personal struggles, Christopher's story is one of strength and determination.

    Our host, Steve, also discusses his own sobriety journey and the impact of joining a kickball league on his perception of team sports. Plus, we'll explore the importance of community support and the evolving perspectives on sobriety.

    Check out Bloke NYC at www.blokenyc.com and find Christopher at https://www.facebook.com/chris.valiante

    Engage with Steve on the socials @gayapodcast, email him at steve@sobersteve.com or add him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/steven.bennet.90/

    Enjoy exclusive content and early access at over at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast

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    47 mins
  • Creativity in Sobriety: Leo S on Being a Creative Sober and Uncomfortable Work

    Creativity in Sobriety: Leo S on Being a Creative Sober and Uncomfortable Work
    Mar 28 2024
    Welcome back to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, where we celebrate sobriety, resilience, and creativity.

    In today's episode, our host, Sober Steve, shares his personal journey of sobriety, reflecting on 1026 days of continuous sobriety and the approval of his workshop on overcoming shame and trauma in the context of sex and recovery for the Florida roundup.

    We then dive into a captivating interview with the talented Leo S., who shares his 35-year sobriety journey intertwined with a successful music career and struggles with alcohol dependency and anxiety. Leo's story explores the themes of personal growth, artistic perseverance, and the power of giving back to the community.

    From navigating uncomfortable conversations about race in creative work to the challenges of forgiveness and compassion in sobriety, Leo's wisdom and experience provide invaluable insights.

    So sit back and get ready for an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Leo S. on gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show.

    Want to connect with Leo? Visit https://leoschwartz.com/ or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/leo.schwartz.1

    Connect with Steve and the podcast everywhere @gayapodcast or by email at steve@sobersteve.com

    Want more gAy A content? Join our Patreon community and unlock bonus episodes and early access! www.patreon.com/gayapodcast

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    41 mins
  • Skating, Self Love, ADHD, and Making Music in Sobriety ft. Chad and J9

    Skating, Self Love, ADHD, and Making Music in Sobriety ft. Chad and J9
    Mar 21 2024

    Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today we have two stories that both touch on unique experiences, but share receiving an ADHD diagnosis in sobriety.

    We're joined by Chad C from Vancouver, who shares his 23-year journey through sobriety, competitive figure skating, and the unexpected challenges life throws our way. His story, filled with gratitude for life's gifts including marriage and travel, offers a raw and inspiring look at overcoming obstacles and the importance of supportive networks.

    The conversation takes a deeper look at the intersection of recovery and maintaining physical fitness, an often-overlooked aspect of the sober life. Through my own struggles and triumphs, we address the complexities of eating disorders, particularly in the high-pressure world of competitive sports, and how these experiences shape our paths toward healthy living. We also touch on the intricacies of recovery, which demand more than just exercise and nutrition, reminding us that self-compassion and accountability are crucial for sustained sobriety. Moreover, the episode underscores the broader impact of personal recovery on relationships and responsibilities, urging us to stay alert to the dangers of an all-or-nothing approach in our ongoing quest for growth.

    Wrapping up, we celebrate the milestones of our guest J9, who shares the latest twists in their life's journey, including a fresh single, Pleasure and Pain, amidst the backdrop of sobriety and an ADHD diagnosis. Unpacking the nuances of emotional regulation and daily management of ADHD, we offer insights and strategies that resonate with many who navigate similar challenges.

    Thanks for listening!

    Find Chad Online: Chad Conley on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/chadlconley and Instagram @chad_c78

    Find J9's New Song, Pleasure and Pain Streaming: bit.ly/PleasureAndPain-stream
    Follow J9 on all the socials @J9grooves

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    52 mins
  • Finding My Way Back to God ft. Steve

    Finding My Way Back to God ft. Steve
    Mar 17 2024

    In this bonus episode of gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, host Sober Steve shares his powerful and personal story told at his church's storyteller Sunday. From his childhood in Erie, Pennsylvania to his struggles with sobriety and finding his way back to God, Steve takes us on a raw and emotional journey. He talks about the impact of being "othered" and how it affected his sense of self-worth, his faith journey, and ultimately led to his battle with alcohol. Steve discusses his path to sobriety, the inception of his podcast, and his evolution into a life coach. His story is a testament to the power of community, self-discovery, and redefining happiness. Join us as we delve into Steve's journey of healing, rediscovery, and finding spiritual connection in unexpected places.

    What did you think? Let me know at steve@sobersteve.com or on social media @gayapodcast

    Stay sober, my friends!

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    16 mins