Paul Oakley Stovall shares his personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a gay man. He recounts incidents from his childhood, including dressing up as his mother for Halloween and being brutally attacked for it. He also discusses his experiences in sports and the impact of the AIDS epidemic on his perception of being gay. Despite facing adversity, Stovall emphasizes the importance of radical self-love, forgiveness, and finding beauty in the gay community. He reflects on his resilience and the practical mindset that helped him navigate through challenging times. In this conversation, Paul Oakley Stovall and David discuss resilience, self-acceptance, and the journey of being gay. They explore the importance of letting go of external validation and judgments, and embracing one's true self. They also touch on the power of forgiveness and the ability to release resentment. The conversation concludes with a discussion on being in the flow of life and embracing the beauty and wonder of the world.

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Please note that this discussion around religious rejection, internalized homophobia, and shame may be triggering for some individuals. The intention is to share personal experiences and not generalize to the entire gay community.

This conversation explores the journey of being gay and turning 65, focusing on themes of self-acceptance, spirituality, and body image. The speakers discuss the challenges faced by gay men in terms of embracing vulnerability, overcoming internalized homophobia, and finding self-love. They also touch on the impact of religion and societal expectations on the gay experience. The conversation highlights the importance of authenticity and self-expression, as well as the need for greater acceptance of diverse body types within the gay community. The speakers share personal stories and insights, offering support and inspiration to listeners of all ages. The conversation explores the themes of self-expression, shame, and healing in the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts discuss the significance of wearing a caftan as a symbol of personal identity and otherness. They also reflect on their own experiences of shame and the journey towards self-acceptance. The conversation highlights the importance of embracing and loving oneself, as well as the power of storytelling and sharing personal experiences.

Born and raised in St. Louis, MO, Scott Lundius began his career as a professional dancer. He soon moved his home base to New York City where he joined the Jose Limon Dance Company with whom he toured internationally as an ensemble member and soloist. Since retiring as a performer, Scott has worked in the arts and culture sector with organizations in New York including Pentacle and the Prospect Park Alliance; in New Mexico with Taos Center for the Arts and Taos Talking Pictures; and in Illinois with Chicago Dancemakers Forum, Marwen, Old Town School of Folk Music, the National Public Housing Museum and, most recently, as the executive director of the Morrison-Shearer Foundation.

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Summary

David shares his personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a gay man. He discusses his early struggles with finding meaning and purpose in life, his experience of an existential crisis, and his quest for self-acceptance. David explores the masks he developed to survive as a child and the impact of internalized homophobia. He emphasizes the importance of telling our stories, embracing vulnerability, and living authentically as gay individuals. David believes that being gay is a gift and a strength, and he encourages others to embrace their true selves.

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Introducing Gay on Purpose Podcast where we explore the unique challenges of gay life that are often the catalyst for powerful gifts. My name is David DeVore, I am a former psychotherapist turned mindset coach for gay men, I will be sharing my story and insights about being a modern gay man, and interviewing gay men from all over the world about their experiences. Join me the Sunday, June 30 at 10;00 am central when I drop episode one.

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