Relationship Infidelity

The pain of betrayal from a once-trusted partner is severe enough to be classed as a type of PTSD, with similar symptoms of hypervigilance, flashbacks, nightmares, avoidance of people and places, depression and anxiety.

After infidelity, relationships can become strained as both partners lose trust and faith in each other. Author Tammy Nelson helps couples regain trust, romance, and intimacy after infidelity by redefining the monogamy contract. The new monogamy contract is an explicit relationship agreement created after the affair that allows each partner to safely share their desires, expectations, and limitations. After an affair, it's impossible to go back to the way the relationship was before, but this book offers the chance for a new beginning.

Infidelity hits a marriage like a devastating tsunami, leaving its three primary victims—the unfaithful spouse, the betrayed spouse, and the “other” man or woman—feeling anguished, unmoored, and wondering if they will ever be able to put their lives back together again. Each also finds themselves facing a whole host of critically important questions about who they are, what they did, why they did it, and what they should do about it now. How could I have done this to my spouse? How do I best cope with what has happened? Why would I choose to love someone who is not free to be in a ...

Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful hits you like an earthquake. Long after the first jolt, emotional aftershocks can make it difficult to be there for your family, manage your daily life, and think clearly about your options. Whether you want to end the relationship or piece things back together, Getting Past the Affair guides you through the initial trauma so you can understand what happened and why before deciding how to move forward.

Imagine the pain and devastation of discovering your partner has had an affair. The betrayal, the hurt, and the feeling of being torn apart from the person you once loved. You may feel like your world has been turned upside down, leaving you wondering if your relationship can ever be healed. But what if there was a way to mend the wounds and rebuild trust? This groundbreaking book reveals the secrets to healing your spouse after an affair, from understanding their perspective to providing the necessary support.

What if the life you built wasn’t the life you chose—and the truth was locked inside your own forgotten memories? 💔 It Wasn’t Supposed to Be Like This A novel about betrayal, memory, motherhood—and the love we fight for even when we no longer recognize it. Amelia Rai had everything she was supposed to want. A husband. A son. A home filled with laughter. But when a car accident steals her memory, she wakes up to a life she doesn’t recognize—and a man she no longer trusts. Jason was once her everything. Now he’s just a stranger who flinches when she asks about the past. As ...

Cheating is a topic therapist Lauren LaRusso knows all too well, as both a professional who helps clients grappling with the realization of a partner’s affair AND as a wife whose own marriage ended due to infidelity. Desperate for answers, LaRusso set to work learning every last thing she could about rebuilding her life and helping others do the same. Shocked by cheating’s prevalence, she wondered: if millions of people are having affairs, why aren’t we openly speaking about it?

Infidelity: The Best Worst Thing That Could Happen to Your Marriage was written to help couples navigate their way to healing after experiencing the devastating impact of physical and emotional affairs. Listening to this book will allow you the opportunity to process the affair, assess the damage, and make an informed choice about the future of your relationship.

New, updated edition 2024. Therapist and Certified Relationship Coach Dr. Lyn Kelley tells you how to rate men on the “lying/cheating scale.” She explains why men lie and cheat, how to know if he’s lying or cheating, how to know if he can change and how to respond to it. She will help you understand antisocial personality, why it’s so hard to leave a cheater, how to know if you should leave him, and how to know if he can change. Here’s what you’ll get: • Why women get hooked on lying, cheating men • Top 10 ways to know if he’s cheating • Tactics men use to “con” you ...

Unlock the secrets to healing after infidelity. Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to truly rebuild trust and find peace after the devastating experience of being cheated on?Are you reeling from the pain of betrayal? Discover a path to healing and reclaim your life with our exclusive bonus guide. Infidelity can shatter your world, leaving you engulfed in confusion, anger, and heartache. The whirlwind of emotions may make it feel impossible to envision a future free from pain. But you’re not alone—many have walked this path and emerged stronger, more self-aware, and ready to ...

Betrayal has many faces, including anger, abuse, deceit, and infidelity. These feel like betrayal because they violate the implicit promise of emotional bonds, that your loved one will care about your well-being and never intentionally hurt you. If you've recently left a relationship where you felt betrayed by your partner, you may have difficulty moving on. In fact, it can seem impossible to view the world without the shadow of past betrayal hovering over you. As a result, you may struggle to create meaning in your life and to build new, loving relationships.

The news of his wife’s affair had crushed him. He slumped in his chair and sobbed bitterly. The thought of losing the woman he loved was unbearable. Her admission shook him deeply, and he wondered if he would ever recover or experience happiness again. In Your Marriage Can Survive Infidelity, Dr. Cody J. Perry, Ph.D., shares the story of betrayal, anguish, and uncertainty after his wife’s affair. For many couples, adultery is an automatic death sentence. However, for Cody and his wife, it meant the beginning of a stronger, more fulfilling marriage. An Old Testament story and Paul’s ...

It is always difficult to deal with problems that occur constantly in our relationships, and people find it hard to overcome these problems in order to rebuild their relations with their partners. It is even harder when these problems arise because your partner cheats on you. This is one of the situations where it seems as if it is virtually impossible for you both to get back to how you were before. Many of these stories end with broken-hearted and angry breakups or divorces.

Are we truly destined to live in one happy relationship, till death do us part? Many believe that somewhere out there is our one and only soulmate, and that our love cannot be given to more than one person at a time. This is what we have been taught, but is it true? The Freedom to Choose is a brave book that broaches questions every person, and certainly every couple, should ask themselves. Masha Halevi (PhD), a couples' mediator, counselor and an expert on alternative relationships has decided to take a different path. Following 15 monogamous years with her husband, she is still happily ...

The causes of affairs illuminate the path of recovery and prevention. Affairs don’t happen in a vacuum. The decision to cheat is not a simple impulse. Most of the time, the decision represents the cumulative effects of many factors that have been either hidden or ignored. Our lack of knowledge about the causes of affairs is the leading cause of our failure to recover from them. This book offers the listener an in-depth understating of the individual, relationship, and environmental causes of infidelity.

Over the past ten years the numbers of wives who have affairs has grown dramatically. Recent surveys suggest by as much as 50 percent. Yet, in all the acres of space devoted to male infidelity, so far this has been a largely untouched subject. In this guide, Carol Botwin - advice columnist, therapist and author - rushes to help rather than to condemn. Drawing from 600 interviews and case histories - with both husbands and wives - Botwin examines causes, initial attractions, affairs in progress, endings and aftermaths.

In the day & age of social media the fear of infidelity takes on new sharpness. It is truly painful when your partner unjustly accuses you of infidelity. It is difficult to talk about, clarify, and end the accusations in a way that nurtures the relationship rather than tears it apart. These accusations can impact mental health, create codependency issues, decrease sex drive, and lead to divorce. But there is a book that answers your burning questions about why the accusations happen and what can be done to help resolve them. Accused of Cheating & You’re Not! will show you how to ...

They say love is blind. Abandoned when her mother chose the streets over motherhood, Aniqa’ is a young woman who’s had enough of no love. She loved her first love, Je’Marcus, past his flaws; even stayed loyal each time he failed to put her first. Giving her all to love him past his pain, Aniqa allows Je’Marcus to become her lifeline-her everything. But when the smoke clears and those blinders come off, Aniqa finds herself living a heart-breaking nightmare. Hoping to give her baby girl, Essence, the world, Aniqa is faced with a tough decision: move on from Je’Marcus’ abusive love...

Rebuild Trust and Restore Intimacy: Your Path to a Thriving Relationship.

An affair: It can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so, too, the prohibition against it - in fact it has a tenacity that marriage can only envy. Iconic couples' therapist and best-selling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a groundbreaking and provocative look at infidelity, arguing for a more nuanced and less judgmental conversation about our transgressions.