• Becoming the One

  • Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself
  • By: Sheleana Aiyana
  • Narrated by: Sheleana Aiyana
  • Length: 7 hrs and 14 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (437 ratings)

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Publisher's summary

Spiritual writer and founder of Rising Woman, Sheleana Aiyana takes you on a transformational inner-work journey to heal lifelong relationship patterns and reclaim power over your life.

Romantic relationships have the ability to infuse our lives with the magic of intimacy and connection. But for many of us, that magic is fleeting—over and over, our relationships don't last, or if they do, they fail to make us happy. We find ourselves chasing unavailable love, sublimating our needs in service to others, or trying to save our partners from themselves, all the while abandoning the one who needs us most—ourselves.

If you find yourself struggling to let go after a relationship ends, or you keep hitting the same wall in dating and relationships with emotionally unavailable people, this is not a sign that you are broken. It is a sign that somewhere along the way, you learned to sacrifice yourself in order to be loved. In Becoming the One, spiritual leader and visionary founder of the Rising Woman community Sheleana Aiyana offers a road map for transforming your relationship patterns to end the cycle of self-abandonment and move into the light of self-discovery. You'll learn to:

Build a secure, loving relationship with yourself.

Connect with your inner child.

Challenge your core beliefs about love.

Set self-affirming boundaries.

Discover and celebrate your true desires.

Recognize red and green flags.

Sheleana's revolutionary lessons, based on wisdom from the traumas of her past and years of guiding thousands of women around the world in her internationally acclaimed "Becoming the One" program of spiritual and therapeutic healing practices, teach you to embody the qualities you are seeking in others so that you can become "the one" for yourself. You'll learn how to trust your body, make peace with your past, and clear the path for healthy, conscious love—one that returns the authority to you to choose how to live and whom to love.

The desire for love is wired into the very fibers of our being, but before you can create rewarding bonds with others, first you must stand wholeheartedly in self-acceptance. Becoming the One is an invitation to find your way home to yourself.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2022 Sheleana Aiyana (P)2022 Chronicle Prism

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I kept finding myself dropping my jaw or actually pausing what I was doing as I listened because I couldn’t believe the insights I was hearing.

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Heartfelt gratitude

I am very grateful for your most loving, kind, & humble work. My youngest daughter gave me the book to read & I also rented the audio so I could go about my days while I listened. Your voice is very nonjudgmental & calming like an angel. I will go back & read the book with a better understanding & I will listen to the audiobook again as well. I was married for 25 years & sadly divorced for 20 years. I’ve been in love several times & always dreamed of a beautiful future but their behaviors felt like they would break my spirit & take my smile away. So here I am at 65 still unattached so I feel this book is a blessing to me. There are so many people I now want to share this book with also. You are a blessing to the world, my daughter & to myself
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So healing

Soo healing. Highly recommend this book to anyone going through any kind of trauma (break up, a loss, etc). Love yourself first. Going to relisten again and again.

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Insightful

I have been following rising woman on instagram for some time now and decided to get her book. It was a very brief but informative guide for becoming your one. Thee one.

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Deepen The Connection With Yourself!

I've *long* been a fan of Rising Woman, following on Instagram, and I've done her Becoming The One course multiple times over the years and each time gotten a new, deeper level of understanding, acceptance, peace, and self-love out of it.

This book is phenomenal to those who have and haven't yet done the course. This is a beautifully written and organized book that covers topics such as: healing your inner child, your abandonment wound, attachment style, forgiveness and self-forgiveness, changing relationship patterns that no longer serve you, and more.

The narration is SO perfect. Her voice really soothes and resonates with me while gently exploring these healing topics. It was easy for me to listen to and get absorbed in, almost a meditation in and of itself. There are beautiful meditations, altar suggestions, letter prompts to help you release the trauma and emotions trapped in your body, and lots of other practical solutions to resonate with many who are on their healing journey.

It's also filled with personal stories in a light-memoir style that helps you connect with the author, her soul journey, and how important and life-changing truly healing and doing the work can be. To many, it may come as a surprise that this work does not have to feel stressful, sad, and difficult, and instead it can be a beautiful release that is freeing and you quickly find yourself living the life you've always wanted to.

I was so in love with this book that I bought it as a gift for my mother, my sister, and a handful of friends! This is absolutely a must-read and one I am sure I will return to time and time again. If I could give more than five stars, I would!

Join the Rising Woman community today and step into the light of the healing process offered by connecting with yourself, meeting and healing your inner child, understanding your wounds, and feeling supported, loved, and validated by the most important person in your life - yourself!

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Learning a higher consciousness

I Definitely recommend this book for a being that is trying to achieve their higher self and consciousness. Great for healing and understanding yourself at a deeper level. Beautiful book will definitely be reading it again because I feel like there is so much more to learn about myself after this.

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One of the best books

Thank you for sharing your story. I can relate to it all. I loved it

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Amazing!

So powerful! Will be rereading and really allowing her words to set in my heart and soul.

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Best Book Ever!

This is the best book I've ever read/listened to! It covers many different perspectives of healing, all of which I love! Highly recommend! This will be one I listen to over and over again!

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Breakthroughs and light

Tapping into childhood wounds I didn’t know existed and and explaining conscious relationships. This booked help me reframe what I subconsciously do to hurt my relationships and show me what I want and how I become the one ❤️

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