Its ok to be clear & decisive with yourself, to know its time to go, this relationship/situation is not fulfilling, nurturing, loving or fun-in fact its a negative drain on my sense of self & personal value. It’s equally ok to know when to ‘stay’ & immerse yourself in the love, joy, growth & positively of a relationship..yes you do deserve this..this is in alignment with your true self. Then theres the in between, the uncertainty, the ‘wait out’ maybe it will be ok? Maybe they will cop on, grow & come good..be patient & loving with yourself at these times..yes watch their behaviour, attitude & relational style..but also pay close attention to your somatic responses..particularly your heart & gut..

Podcast Editor - Ger Kellett

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References -------------------------------------

The Clash from Combat Rock (1982)

‘Buttercup’ Brad from Shame (1993)

‘Backbone’ John Mellencamp from Orpheus descending (2023)

‘Risk it all’ (from the original motion picture Colour purple)Usher & H.E.R. From Coming Home (2023)

‘Close to me’ The Cure from Head on the door (1985)

‘Dont come around here no more’ Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers from Southern Accents (1985)

‘Feel like makin love’ Bad Company from Straight shooter (1975)

‘You make lovin fun’ Fleetwood Mac from Rumours (1977)

‘Romeo & Juliette’ (knophler) Indigo girls from Rights of passage (1992)

‘Promises’ Eric Clapton from Backless (1978)