Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed
Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role
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Family scapegoating is an insidious form of "invisible" abuse that is difficult to recognize. It is therefore critical that adult survivors of dysfunctional or narcissistic family systems understand what type of abuse they are trying to recover from. In Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed, licensed psychotherapist and family systems expert Rebecca C. Mandeville uses her research findings on what she named "Family Scapegoating Abuse" (FSA) to help survivors recognize and release the damaging "scapegoat" narrative associated with the family "identified patient" role. This second revision includes additional recovery suggestions, and updated resources.
In this book you'll discover:
● How to recognize and identify family scapegoating abuse (FSA) signs and symptoms
● Why scapegoated individuals have difficulty recognizing they are being abused
● How complex trauma (C-PTSD), betrayal trauma, and toxic shame impede FSA recovery
● Strategies to reduce fawn/submit behaviors and realign with your "true self"
● Recommended resources and therapy modalities for FSA recovery
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Do you have a toxic family member? Do you feel like cutting ties with this person—even as painful and scary as that may sound—would dramatically increase your well-being and improve your life? You're not alone. In Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, psychologist and toxic family survivor Sherrie Campbell offers effective strategies for setting strong boundaries after ending contact with a toxic family member, and provides powerful tools to help you heal from shame, self-doubt, and stigma. You'll find the validation you need to embrace your decision with pride.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Taking my power back
- De INDIGENOUSLY EDS en 04-13-24
De: Sherrie Campbell PhD, y otros
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Trauma and Recovery
- The Aftermath of Violence - from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror
- De: Judith Lewis Herman MD
- Narrado por: Alison Mathews, Xe Sands
- Duración: 12 h y 30 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 336
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 285
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 280
Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Answers to many "why" questions.
- De Bruja en 06-21-22
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
- De: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrado por: Marguerite Gavin
- Duración: 6 h y 50 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 7,839
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 6,663
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 6,593
In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents' emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you'll learn how to create positive new relationships so you can build a better life.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Astonishing information.
- De K J Sunflower en 07-20-16
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Rules of Estrangement
- Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict
- De: Joshua Coleman
- Narrado por: Fred Sanders
- Duración: 9 h y 41 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 325
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 273
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 267
Labeled a silent epidemic by a growing number of therapists and researchers, estrangement is one of the most disorienting and painful experiences of a parent's life. Popular opinion typically tells a one-sided story of parents who got what they deserved or overly entitled adult children who wrongly blame their parents. However, the reasons for estrangement are far more complex and varied.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Excellent book for the parent's perspective
- De Anand en 06-11-21
De: Joshua Coleman
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Make Money Easy
- Create Financial Freedom and Live a Richer Life
- De: Lewis Howes
- Narrado por: Lewis Howes
- Duración: 7 h y 19 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 13
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 13
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 13
Your relationship with money begins with having the right mindset. Until you learn how to shift your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors around money, you’ll keep doing what you’ve always done. And get the same results.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Know your worth
- De brynkiewicz en 03-28-25
De: Lewis Howes
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ADHD Is Awesome
- A Guide to (Mostly) Thriving with ADHD
- De: Penn Holderness, Kim Holderness, Edward Hallowell - foreword
- Narrado por: Penn Holderness, Kim Holderness, Nathan Rosborough, y otros
- Duración: 8 h y 50 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 655
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 611
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 611
You live in a world that wasn't designed for you. A world where you're expected to sit still, stay quiet, and focus. Because of the way your brain is wired, you can feel like you’re failing at life. But you are not failing. You are awesome. Award-winning content creators Kim and Penn Holderness are on a mission to reboot how we think about the unfortunately named "attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder." As always, they are doing it by looking in the mirror, because they don't just study ADHD; they live it.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Couldn't take constant jokes and narrative style
- De Lisan en 05-15-24
De: Penn Holderness, y otros
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Take Control of Your Life
- How to Silence Fear and Win the Mental Game
- De: Mel Robbins
- Narrado por: Mel Robbins
- Duración: 10 h y 3 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 19,171
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 16,533
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 16,393
Mel Robbins is back! The international bestselling phenomenon and creator of The Five Second Rule and Kick Ass with Mel Robbins returns to help you tackle the single biggest obstacle you face: fear. This life-changing Audible Original features a powerful mix of one-on-one life-coaching sessions and a personal narrative with vital take-aways that you can start using immediately.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Stop living in fear
- De Nike7 en 02-08-19
De: Mel Robbins
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How to Love Better
- The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, Kindness, and Compassion
- De: Yung Pueblo
- Narrado por: Yung Pueblo
- Duración: 7 h y 33 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 15
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 15
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 15
Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and growth, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Title says it all
- De Francis Rodrigues en 03-30-25
De: Yung Pueblo
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The Power of Discipline
- How to Use Self Control and Mental Toughness to Achieve Your Goals
- De: Daniel Walter
- Narrado por: Russell Newton
- Duración: 3 h y 14 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 1,271
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 1,119
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 1,119
Before you can achieve anything in life, you need a solid foundation of self-discipline. Talent, intelligence, and skill are only a part of the equation. Positive thinking, affirmations, and vision boards are only a part of the equation. If you want to turn your dreams into reality, you need self-discipline. Self-discipline is what will keep you focused when all hell is breaking loose, and it looks like you are one step away from failure.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Nothing new here.
- De Amazon Customer en 01-18-21
De: Daniel Walter
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What Happened to You?
- Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
- De: Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry
- Narrado por: Bruce D. Perry, Oprah Winfrey
- Duración: 8 h y 27 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 22,075
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 19,211
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 19,042
Have you ever wondered "Why did I do that?" or "Why can't I just control my behavior?" Others may judge our reactions and think, "What's wrong with that person?" When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves; holding ourselves and those around us to an impossible standard. It's time we started asking a different question. Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”
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5 out of 5 stars
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I waited more than 30 years for this book.
- De Gary S. en 04-28-21
De: Oprah Winfrey, y otros
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It Didn't Start with You
- How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle
- De: Mark Wolynn
- Narrado por: Mark Wolynn
- Duración: 8 h y 16 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 2,650
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 2,195
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 2,174
As a pioneer in the field of inherited family trauma, Mark Wolynn has worked with individuals and groups on a therapeutic level for over 20 years. It Didn't Start with You offers a pragmatic and prescriptive guide to his method, the Core Language Approach. Diagnostic self-inventories provide a way to uncover the fears and anxieties conveyed through everyday words, behaviors, and physical symptoms.
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2 out of 5 stars
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It Didn't Start With You
- De Deborah J. en 10-14-18
De: Mark Wolynn
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It's Not You
- Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
- De: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Narrado por: Ramani Durvasula PhD, Maria Shriver
- Duración: 11 h y 31 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 1,183
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 1,127
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 1,127
It’s not always easy to tell when you’re dealing with a narcissist. One day they draw you in with their confidence and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-confidence, and leave you wondering, What could I have done differently? As Dr. Ramani Durvasula reveals in It's Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing. Just as a tiger can’t change its stripes, a narcissist won’t stop manipulating and invalidating you. To heal in the aftermath of their abuse and protect yourself from future harm, you first have to accept that you are not to blame.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I needed this
- De Austin E. Jonas Jr. en 03-02-24