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Nick Duffell
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At the dawn of the 21st century, British society is still shaped by a private education system devised to gentrify the Victorian middle classes and produce gentlemen to run the Empire. Yet it is not on the political agenda. It is rarely the subject of public debate, and we remain blind to its psychological implications. Can we afford to go on ignoring this issue? Will we continue to sacrifice the welfare of our children to satisfy our antiquated social aspirations?
Why do the British still send their children away to boarding school? What are the attitudes underpinning this practice which mystifies foreigners? What does it mean for a child to be sent away from home and immediately have to survive in an unfamiliar custom-ridden world, without love, family life, or privacy? Will it be "the making of him", or will it be a trauma from which he may never recover?
No theory of child development supports the British habit of boarding. Unsurprisingly, it consequently turns out products marked by their ability to function confidently in outer social contexts, as well as their extreme fear of intimacy - in fact, any circumstance that would excite the vulnerability that had to be disowned in childhood along with their parental attachments. Ex-boarders therefore find family life, intimate relationships quite a challenge. Equally, those ex-boarders in positions of power struggle to comprehend those who are economically vulnerable and have a pathological fear of belonging.
This groundbreaking and widely acclaimed book outlines the history of the boarding project and explains "Boarding School Syndrome" and the building of the "Strategic Survival Personality". It is as useful for survivors of the system as for parents, partners, therapists, and educators, and ought to be required for legislators and those interested in the particular character of British society.
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- The Lingering Effects of Hurtful Parenting
- De: Alice Miller
- Narrado por: Sara Clinton
- Duración: 5 h y 36 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 464
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 378
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 377
Never before has world-renowned psychoanalyst Alice Miller examined so persuasively the long-range consequences of childhood abuse on the body. Using the experiences of her patients along with the biographical stories of literary giants such as Virginia Woolf, Franz Kafka, and Marcel Proust, Miller shows how a child's humiliation, impotence, and bottled rage will manifest itself as adult illness - be it cancer, stroke, or other debilitating diseases.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Remarkably Enlightened
- De Amazon Customer en 08-24-16
De: Alice Miller
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The Wonder of Boys
- De: Michael Gurian
- Narrado por: Michael Gurian
- Duración: 3 h y 18 m
- Versión resumida
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General4 out of 5 stars 204
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 150
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What can parents, mentors, and educators do to shape boys into exceptional men? Michael Gurian, a respected therapist, storyteller, and recognized expert in family systems, explains the basic needs of every boy: a primary and extended family, a relationship with mother, father, and mentors, and support from his community.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Great Book for Mothers and Fathers
- De Janine en 05-20-09
De: Michael Gurian
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Controlling People
- How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You
- De: Patricia Evans
- Narrado por: Xe Sands
- Duración: 6 h y 34 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 350
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 284
In Controlling People, best-selling author Patricia Evans tackles the "controlling personality" and reveals how and why these people try to run other people's lives. She also explains the compulsion that makes them continue this behavior - even as they alienate others and often lose those they love. Should you ever find yourself in the thrall of someone close to you, Controlling People is here to give you the wisdom, power, and comfort you need to be a stronger, happier, and more independent person.
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5 out of 5 stars
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EXTRAORDINARY
- De Rob en 02-27-14
De: Patricia Evans
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Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart
- 30 True Things You Need to Know Now
- De: Gordon Livingston
- Narrado por: James Jenner
- Duración: 4 h y 35 m
- Versión completa
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General4 out of 5 stars 530
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Full of things we may know but have not articulated to ourselves, Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart is a gentle and generous alternative to the trial-and-error learning that makes wisdom such an expensive commodity. For everyone who feels a sense of urgency that the clock ticks and still we aren't the person we'd like to be, it offers solace, guidance, and hope.
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4 out of 5 stars
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This guy is a straight shooter
- De Julia en 11-13-05
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Building Confidence in Your Child
- De: James Dobson
- Narrado por: Jon Gauger
- Duración: 6 h y 21 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 123
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 105
Proven ways to improve your child's self-esteem. A solid sense of self-worth helps your child make good choices, develop healthy relationships, and work to achieve his or her dreams. But what's the best way to instill self-confidence while still teaching your child to value and care about others? Based on a biblical understanding of human worth, Building Confidence in Your Child teaches you how to parent positively and help your child grow into a secure adult who is poised for success in life.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Outdated Terms/Assumptions- I'm disappointed
- De Bobye M Ruddell en 02-17-20
De: James Dobson
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Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life
- How to Finally, Really Grow Up
- De: James Hollis PhD
- Narrado por: Gary Galone
- Duración: 8 h y 41 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 356
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Narración:4 out of 5 stars 301
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What does it really mean to be a grown-up in today's world? We assume that once we "get it together" with the right job, marry the right person, have children, and buy a home, all is settled and well. But adulthood presents varying levels of growth and is rarely the respite of stability we expected. Turbulent emotional shifts can take place anywhere between the ages of 35 and 70 when we question the choices we've made, realize our limitations, and feel stuck - commonly known as the "midlife crisis".
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1 out of 5 stars
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The great bait and switch.
- De real. en 12-14-19
De: James Hollis PhD
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Trapped in the Mirror
- Adult Children of Narcissists in Their Struggle for Self
- De: Elan Golomb
- Narrado por: Angela Brazil
- Duración: 11 h y 1 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 139
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The difficulties experienced by adult children of narcissists can manifest themselves in many ways - for example, physical self-loathing that takes the form of overeating, anorexia, or bulimia; a self-destructive streak that causes poor job performance and rocky personal relationships; or a struggle with the self that is perpetuated in the adult's interaction with his or her own children. These dilemmas are both common and correctable, Elan Golomb tells us.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Convoluted
- De Caligirl en 08-25-17
De: Elan Golomb
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The Undervalued Self
- De: Elaine N. Aron
- Narrado por: Marguerite Gavin
- Duración: 7 h y 54 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 160
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 119
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 118
Elaine Aron follows up her best sellers on the highly sensitive person with a groundbreaking new book on the undervalued self. She explains that self-esteem results from having a healthy balance of love and power in our lives. Readers will learn to incorporate love into situations that seem to require power and deal with power struggles that mask themselves as issues of love.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Life Changing!
- De Salon Finished Dawn en 09-20-15
De: Elaine N. Aron
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Living an Examined Life
- De: James Hollis PhD
- Narrado por: Kevin M. Connolly
- Duración: 4 h y 19 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 200
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 153
How do you define “growing up?” Does it mean you achieve certain cultural benchmarks - a steady income, paying taxes, marriage, and children? Or does it mean leaving behind the expectations of others and growing into the person you were meant to be? Here acclaimed author James Hollis guides you through 21 areas for self-inquiry and growth - such as how to exorcise the ghosts of your past, when to choose meaning over happiness, how to construct a mature spirituality, and how to seize permission to be who you really are.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Extraordinary compilation of Dr. Hollis' works
- De Joseph en 02-17-18
De: James Hollis PhD
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Bonds That Make Us Free
- Healing Our Relationships, Coming to Ourselves
- De: C. Terry Warner
- Narrado por: C. Terry Warner
- Duración: 10 h y 5 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 327
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Bonds That Make Us Free is a groundbreaking book that suggests the remedy for our troubling emotions by addressing their root causes. You'll learn how, in ways we scarcely suspect, we are responsible for feelings like anger, envy, and insecurity that we have blamed on others. Even though we fear to admit this, it is good news. If we produce these emotions, it falls within our power to stop them. But we have to understand our part in them far better than we do, and that is what this remarkable book teaches.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Helped save our marriage.
- De Kevin Gray en 02-15-19
De: C. Terry Warner
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How to Raise a Boy
- The Power of Connection to Build Good Men
- De: Michael C. Reichert
- Narrado por: Adam Grupper
- Duración: 11 h y 18 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 89
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Michael C. Reichert draws on his 30 years of experience researching the process by which boys become men to provide a road map for parents and educators who hope to help the boys they love and care about grow into strong, emotionally intelligent, and compassionate men.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Good overall information, but a but lacking how-to
- De Dima en 01-12-21
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Toxic Parents
- Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life
- De: Craig Buck, Susan Forward
- Narrado por: Jo Anna Perrin
- Duración: 10 h y 32 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 768
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In this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your relationship with your parents---and discover a new world of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Its worth a listen.
- De Amanda en 08-20-12
De: Craig Buck, y otros
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How to Love
- De: Gordon Livingston
- Narrado por: James Jenner
- Duración: 5 h y 34 m
- Versión completa
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General4 out of 5 stars 39
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The internationally best-selling author of Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart, Dr. Gordon Livingston here helps readers discover fulfilling happiness. By recognizing and understanding particular character traits in ourselves and others, we can all learn who best to love - and who best to avoid.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Honest and right to the point
- De Elisabeth en 02-10-10
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The Feminine Mystique
- De: Betty Friedan
- Narrado por: Parker Posey
- Duración: 15 h y 41 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 1,059
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 910
The book that changed the consciousness of a country - and the world. Landmark, groundbreaking, classic - these adjectives barely describe the earthshaking and long-lasting effects of Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique. This is the book that defined "the problem that has no name", that launched the Second Wave of the feminist movement, and has been awakening women and men with its insights into social relations, which still remain fresh, ever since.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A landmark book of its time and relevant now
- De Anthony en 01-23-15
De: Betty Friedan
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Why Does He Do That?
- Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
- De: Lundy Bancroft
- Narrado por: Peter Berkrot
- Duración: 13 h y 32 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 2,192
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 1,849
He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You've asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men---and to change your life. In this groundbreaking book, a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men shows you how to improve, survive, or leave an abusive relationship.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I needed this.
- De james p weiss en 09-07-17
De: Lundy Bancroft
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When Dad Hurts Mom
- Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse
- De: Lundy Bancroft
- Narrado por: Randye Kaye
- Duración: 10 h y 52 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 67
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 57
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 58
Can my partner abuse me and still be a good parent? Should I stay with my partner for my children's sake? How should I talk to my children about the abuse and help them heal? Am I a bad mother? Mothers in physically or emotionally abusive relationships ask themselves these questions every day. Whether it's physical or "just" emotional abuse, whether it's aimed at them or you, whether they see or hear it, your kids need you.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Great information. Not the best narrator.
- De RT en 06-28-19
De: Lundy Bancroft
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Relationship Breakthrough
- How to Create Outstanding Relationships in Every Area of Your Life
- De: Cloe Madanes, Anthony Robbins
- Narrado por: Aimee Jolson
- Duración: 6 h y 32 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 402
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 342
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Everyone faces the challenges of making relationships work. Whether with spouses, family members, friends, lovers, or colleagues, relationships have the power to make one feel happy, frustrated, or miserable. In Relationship Breakthrough, Cloe Madanes - an expert in creating healing, empowering relationships - gives listeners vital tools to transform their relationships and their lives. Madanes's cutting-edge methods produce real results and create rewarding, sustainable relationships.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Disappointed
- De Dee en 01-10-16
De: Cloe Madanes, y otros
Lo que los oyentes dicen sobre The Making of Them: The British Attitude to Children and the Boarding School System
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- 03-03-16
I enjoy academic writing, but not this
this was surprisingly devoid of actual stories. I don't mean case reviews, those hollow things were offered regularly. What we didn't have was narratives, the details necessaty to put ourselves on the shoes of these guys.
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