Episodios

  • 自慢する人は扱いやすい? ― 営業マンが見た承認欲求と褒めの技術
    Dec 10 2025

    Why do people boast? And why does bragging sometimes annoy us, yet other times bring us closer? In this episode, I look back on my years working in sales across Southeast Asia and share what I learned about bragging, ego, and the deep human need for recognition. I talk about customers who loved to show off, why compliments worked like magic, and how “praise with curiosity” builds trust better than flattery. Self-praise can connect or divide — it depends on how we handle it. Let’s explore the psychology behind it and how to use praise wisely in real communication.

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    9 m
  • 自虐風自慢の心理学――弱さのふりをした承認欲求|The Hidden Ego Behind Humble Bragging
    Dec 9 2025

    In this episode, we talk about the curious style of “humble bragging” — when someone pretends to put themselves down, but the story somehow ends as a self-praise. Why does it make us uncomfortable? Why does it feel cunning rather than charming? We explore examples, the psychology behind it, and how it differs from true self-deprecating humor, which carries honesty, risk, and even warmth. In an age of social media and growing desire for approval, weakness is often hidden behind a mask of modest pride. Can we laugh at ourselves without fear? Let’s think about what real humility means.

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    8 m
  • 社長の前では自由を見せてはいけない|Freedom, Loyalty, and Why Companies Fear the Truly Independent Worker
    Dec 8 2025

    In this episode, I discuss the tension between free-spirited individuals and traditional corporate culture in Japan. Companies value loyalty, sacrifice, and obedience more than personal freedom — especially when it comes to overseas assignments. A worker may enjoy a luxurious expat life, yet must hide it, perform seriousness, and show dedication to avoid jealousy or increased pressure. Freedom becomes something carried quietly, not displayed. Through personal stories and workplace observations, I explore why organizations struggle to trust independent minds, and how wise employees learn to “translate freedom” into the language of responsibility, humility, and results.

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    9 m
  • クイズ王みたいな雑学は、これからの時代いらなくなる|Small Talk, Knowledge, and Why Comfort Matters More Than Impressing Others
    Dec 7 2025

    In this episode, I talk about small talk in business and why it often feels difficult. Many of us try to sound smart, avoid mistakes, or impress others with knowledge — yet conversations built only on information can feel heavy and boring. Knowledge alone no longer has special value in a world where answers are easily found online. What truly matters is comfort, warmth, and a natural rhythm between people. Rather than worrying about how we are seen, we can focus on whether the conversation feels good for both sides. When we relax, communication becomes lighter, easier, and more human.

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    8 m
  • 生意気は若者の特権|Why Boldness Belongs to the Young — and What Maturity Should Look Like
    Dec 6 2025

    In this episode, I talk about why bold and sometimes arrogant behavior can feel acceptable, even charming, when it comes from young people. Their confidence contains room to grow — mistakes become learning, and rough edges can be shaped by time. But when the same attitude appears in older adults, it often feels painful rather than fresh. True aging is not about adding years, but about turning experience into meaning, depth, and calm wisdom. I explore how we can grow old with grace: by reflecting, updating values, listening to the young, and speaking with humor instead of pride.

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    8 m
  • 旅の聖域は失われた——修行としての放浪と逃避としての旅
    Dec 5 2025

    In this episode, I reflect on how travel has changed over time. Once, leaving Japan meant risk, uncertainty, and the possibility of never returning. Travel was a kind of spiritual training — long buses, lonely dorms, missed connections, silence, and growth. Today, cheap flights and smartphones have made travel easier and lighter. We plan, book, upload, and move on. Yet something deeper remains: the urge to escape, to breathe, to search. Even if we do not “find ourselves,” the act of seeking has meaning. Travel may have lost its weight, but the journey inside the heart is still long and real.

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    11 m
  • 量産型日本人サラリーマンの思考様式 〜 “最適解”に縛られる生き方とは〜
    Dec 4 2025

    In this episode, I explore the mindset of the “mass-produced Japanese salaryman,” shaped by an education system that teaches there is only one correct answer. But in real life, there is no single truth—only choices. Instead of embracing freedom, many workers shift from seeking the “right answer” to chasing the “optimal answer,” a safe response that avoids conflict and preserves harmony. Convenient, yes—but costly. By choosing safety over expression, they stop developing their own worldview and eventually lose the ability to speak in their own words. True freedom begins when we think, decide, and narrate life for ourselves.

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    10 m
  • 円安が続く理由と、タイバーツ高の背景、そして未来予想
    Dec 3 2025

    In this episode, I explain why the Japanese yen continues to weaken and why the Thai baht remains strong. Without using difficult financial terms, I break down the key reasons behind Japan’s low interest rates, structural changes in Japanese companies, and the growing trend of overseas investment among young people. I also explore Thailand’s rising economic stability, strong tourism-driven foreign currency inflows, and trusted monetary policy. These long-term shifts reveal how Asia’s economic balance is changing. Whether you live in Japan or abroad, this episode helps you understand how currency trends affect everyday life and future decisions.

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    8 m