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  • What Is Beyond Your Default? "Everyone keeps telling me I should be happy, but I'm not." “I feel stuck.” “I have a calling, but where do I start?" Right now, you have a choice. You can continue living within your default norms, playing it safe, clocking in and out every day, and scraping by to achieve what's supposed to make you happy hopefully. Or you can choose to accept the challenge of living beyond your default. Stop wishing to live your "best life” and start living your best life. Success leaves clues. And they're waiting for you to discover them.
    2023
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  • Honesty Part II: Integrity and Honesty Without [Episode 44]

    Honesty Part II: Integrity and Honesty Without [Episode 44]
    Jul 1 2024
    1 h y 3 m
  • Honesty, Part I: Self-Deception + Dishonesty Within [Episode 43]

    Honesty, Part I: Self-Deception + Dishonesty Within [Episode 43]
    Jun 24 2024
    On this week's episode, George and I dive into the topic of honesty — one of the 10 pillars of the Superhuman Framework — specifically self-deception and dishonesty that manifests from within. We explore how self-deception can wreak havoc in our lives and the different ways it can manifest, such as negative self-talk and an inflated ego. We also emphasize the importance of self-awareness and the need to be honest with ourselves in order to learn and grow.🌶️ Spice up your inbox: Subscribe to the Beyond Your Default newsletterThe conversation unpacks with unflinching candor the themes of self-deception and honesty. I talk about the experience of finding inspiration for writing and realizing the role of confusion in enabling self-deception. And George went there by discussing his struggle with weight and the lies he told himself.We both talk about the importance of self-reflection and being honest with ourselves. Practicing radical honesty with oneself can boost personal integrity, enhance emotional resilience, and improve decision-making. It promotes a sense of calm and stability, leading to overall well-being and a happier, more fulfilling life.By being honest with ourselves, we align our actions with our true values and beliefs, leading to a greater sense of self-respect. It also helps us confront uncomfortable truths and reduce internal conflicts. Practicing radical honesty allows us to make sustainable positive changes in our lives and live in alignment with our true selves.Topics We Coverhonesty, self-deception, self-awareness, negative self-talk, inflated ego, personal growth, self-deception, honesty, self-reflection, confusion, weight, lies, radical honesty, personal integrity, emotional resilience, decision-making, well-being, self-respect, uncomfortable truths, internal conflicts, positive changes, alignmentTakeaways + HighlightsSelf-deception can manifest in negative self-talk and an inflated ego, both of which can hinder personal growth.Being self-aware allows us to learn from our mistakes and avoid falling into the trap of self-deception.Honesty with ourselves is crucial for personal growth and maintaining a balanced perspective.Self-deception can lead to a distorted self-perception and prevent us from recognizing our weaknesses.It's important to avoid extremes of self-deception and strive for a more balanced and honest view of ourselves. Self-deception can manifest in negative self-talk, stories we tell ourselves, and beliefs that shape our thoughts and actions.Confusion can be a result of setting conditions that enable it and waiting for answers instead of seeking them.Self-reflection and regular time set aside for introspection are crucial for gaining a clear and honest understanding of oneself.Fear can lead to self-sabotage and staying small in life, but confronting fears and choosing clarity over comfort can lead to growth.Being honest with oneself and others is essential for building healthy relationships and addressing issues.Identifying and challenging the lies we tell ourselves can help break free from self-deception and live authentically. Practicing radical honesty boosts personal integrity and self-respect.Being honest with oneself enhances emotional resilience and reduces internal conflicts.Radical honesty improves decision-making and promotes a sense of calm and stability. It allows for sustainable positive changes and living in alignment with one's true self.Quotes About Honesty + Self-Deception"Self-deception is nature; hypocrisy is art." - Mason Cooley"We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more from imagination than from reality." - Seneca"The easiest person to deceive is one's own self." - Edward Bulwer-Lytton"The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool." - Richard Feynman"Self-deception is a pessimistic definition of optimism." - Theodor Reik"There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth; not going all the way, and not starting." - Buddha"Lying to ourselves is more deeply ingrained than lying to others." - Fyodor Dostoevsky"We are not deceiving anyone, but we are often deceiving ourselves." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe"Nothing is easier than self-deceit. For what each man wishes, that he also believes to be true." - Demosthenes"The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself." - Thales"Self-awareness doesn’t stop you from making mistakes, it allows you to learn from them." - Peter ShepherdRelated BYD EpisodesRedefining Hustle in a Culture That Celebrates Destructive Levels of Busy-nessGenuine Positivity vs. Toxic Positivity and the Movement to Criminalize EmotionsAdopting an Owner's Mentality in Your Own LifeFact vs. Fiction: What Is a Growth Mindset, Really?Victim vs. Victor Mentality: Knowing + Living the DifferenceHow to Set Healthy Expectations that Cultivate Growth, Confidence, + Self-TrustThe Power of Language: Choosing Your Words to Shape Your Destiny
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  • Laying Your Beyond Your Default Foundation with the Superhuman Framework [Episode 42]

    Laying Your Beyond Your Default Foundation with the Superhuman Framework [Episode 42]
    Jun 17 2024
    1 h y 9 m
Éxito Personal Espiritualidad
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