Episodios

  • Why You’re Crushing It in Business but Feeling Flat in Bed
    Oct 27 2025

    Does your marriage feel more like a business partnership or roommate situation than a love story?

    If conversations are only about bills, kids, and logistics—and intimacy feels performative or distant—it’s not just about chores or sex. It’s about worthiness and your ability to receive.

    In this episode, I dive into how intimacy, self-worth, money, and support are all deeply connected—and why learning to receive is the bridge from “roommates” to true partners.

    What I’m talking about:

    ✔️ The hidden cost of obligatory, performative intimacy
    ✔️ How “crumbs” in your marriage lead to resentment and disconnection
    ✔️ Why your ability to receive in the bedroom affects your ability to receive in business, money, and life
    ✔️ The “refrigerator hum” of unspoken resentment—and how to clear it
    ✔️ The exact mindset shift that turns a household manager into a fully supported partner

    This conversation will challenge you to stop tolerating scraps and start expecting the joy, intimacy, and partnership you’re already worthy of.

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    13 m
  • What You Believe About Yourself Is What You Tolerate (The Worthiness Episode)
    Oct 20 2025

    Do you ever catch yourself brushing off your feelings, settling for crumbs, or convincing yourself you’re “asking too much”?

    Here’s the truth: your relationship will never rise higher than what you believe about yourself.

    If you believe you’re “too much,” you’ll shrink. If you believe you’re “not enough,” you’ll settle. But if you know you’re worthy—you’ll stop tolerating breadcrumbs and start creating the love you crave.

    In this episode, I'm sharing hard-earned lessons from 18+ years of marriage about how self-worth shapes every interaction at home.

    What you’ll hear inside:
    ✔️ Why “keeping the peace” is actually damaging your relationship
    ✔️ The emotional labor gap—and how women are conditioned to fill it
    ✔️ How brushing off your needs slowly erodes intimacy and trust
    ✔️ Why your worth sets the standard for your kids’ future relationships
    ✔️ A powerful question to ask yourself: what am I tolerating that my highest self would never accept?

    This conversation is raw, honest, and packed with perspective shifts you can start living today.

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    24 m
  • 7 Shifts You Need to Make in Your Relationship if You Want It to Be Amazing
    Oct 13 2025

    What if the reason your marriage feels "fine" is because you've been settling for crumbs instead of speaking your truth?

    For years, I kept quiet to avoid conflict. I told myself I was keeping the peace, but really—I was disappearing. Into motherhood. Into resentment. Into "fine."

    The truth? Fine ends in dead marriages. And you deserve amazing.

    In this episode, I share the seven shifts that saved my marriage and can transform yours too:

    ✔️ Why "keeping the peace" actually kills connection
    ✔️ How to stop doing it all and start sharing the load
    ✔️ The confidence hack that helps you start asking for support
    ✔️ Why saying yes when you mean no erodes intimacy
    ✔️ The key to setting boundaries without guilt
    ✔️ How to stop disappearing into motherhood and start showing up as you
    ✔️ Why settling for "fine" is the fastest path to resentment

    If you've been longing for a relationship that feels alive again, this one is for you.

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    32 m
  • How We Really Divide the Labor (and Why It Matters More Than You Think)
    Oct 6 2025

    Ever feel like you're running a 98-hour work week inside your own home—managing meals, laundry, appointments, and every last detail—while your partner just "helps out" here and there?

    You're not alone. For years, I believed I had to carry it all: kids' schedules, housework, even my husband's appointments. I thought that was just "mom life." But it left me resentful, exhausted, and disconnected in my own marriage.

    Here's the truth: You don't have to do it all. And asking for support isn't asking too much.

    In this episode, I'm breaking down:

    ✔️ The invisible contracts couples carry into marriage (and how they set us up for imbalance)
    ✔️ Why resentment builds when we don't let our partners step up
    ✔️ How we now divide labor in our home so everyone—kids included—shares the load
    ✔️ The nervous-system side of asking for help (and why it feels so hard)
    ✔️ Practical steps you can take to create a home where support is the standard, not the exception

    If you've ever felt like a roommate instead of a partner, this conversation will give you both hope and real-life strategies to change it.

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    22 m
  • I Removed Intimacy From My Marriage + Here's What Happened
    Sep 29 2025

    Have you ever felt like your marriage looked "fine" from the outside… but deep down, you were lonely, felt like you couldn't fully be yourself in your home, and holding it together with a smile on your face?

    That was me.

    In this episode, I share the story of removing intimacy from my marriage—not as punishment, but as a boundary that changed everything.

    From hunting trips that left me feeling invisible, to a separation that forced us both to look inward, and the decision that I was no longer available for the way things were—this is the real, messy truth about breaking patterns and finding your voice.

    Here's what you'll hear:

    ✔️ Why "keeping the peace" cost me more than conflict ever would
    ✔️ The moment I stopped abandoning myself—and how it shifted my marriage
    ✔️ What removing intimacy taught me about my own worth (and why it made us closer)
    ✔️ Why boundaries aren't easy—but they create ease on the other side
    ✔️ How your kids feel the ripple effects of the relationship you model (even when you think it's "fine")

    Pretending everything is fine is like icing a cake that's still gooey in the middle.

    And if you've been 'icing the cake' in your relationship instead of facing what's real—you are not alone. This conversation is for you.

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    23 m
  • Raising Kids To Believe Their Voices Matter
    Sep 22 2025

    Were you raised to "be seen and not heard"? To shrink yourself, keep the peace + stuff emotion down so that you weren't too much?

    If so, it's no wonder motherhood feels like a constant tug-of-war between honoring your kids' voices and holding the boundaries you didn't learn growing up.

    In this episode, I'm sharing the real, messy, and freeing journey of raising kids who know their opinions matter—without losing yourself in the process.

    You'll walk away with:

    ✔️ How to raise kids who feel safe speaking up without confusing boundaries for "bad behavior"
    ✔️ Why breaking cycles of silence and self-abandonment starts with you
    ✔️ What to do when your child's "big personality" activates you.
    ✔️ The power of repair (it's never too late to shift how you parent)
    ✔️ How modeling boundaries teaches your kids confidence, safety, and leadership

    If you've ever worried about "screwing up" your kids — this episode will remind you: You don't have to be perfect. They need presence.

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    15 m
  • What "Keeping the Peace" is Costing You in Your Relationship
    Sep 15 2025

    Ever find yourself keeping the peace in your relationship—only to realize you're actually at war with yourself?

    For years, I stayed quiet. I carried the weight of invisible contracts I never signed, silenced my needs, and believed it was just "easier" not to rock the boat. But silence wasn't peace—it was resentment, exhaustion, and self-abandonment.

    This episode is for the woman who's ready to stop settling, stop silencing herself, and finally create the relationship she desires.

    Inside, we'll talk about:
    ✔️ Why "keeping the peace" creates inner chaos that erodes your relationship
    ✔️ How childhood patterns + invisible contracts shape your marriage roles today
    ✔️ The nervous system's role in why boundaries feel so terrifying at first
    ✔️ The surprising shifts that happen when you start voicing your needs unapologetically
    ✔️ Why self-worth—not self-sacrifice—is the foundation of true partnership

    If you've ever wondered whether you're "asking too much"… this is your reminder: you're worthy of it all.

    ✨ Come join me inside my upcoming group coaching program (launching this October!) where we'll dive deeper into motherhood, boundaries, relationships, and becoming the woman who has it all.

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    21 m
  • How a $400 Cleaning Deposit Changed My Self-Worth
    Sep 8 2025

    Have you ever felt your body screaming "No, this isn't right"—but the old you would've folded just to keep the peace?

    That's exactly what happened to me in what I now call the landlord story. On the surface, it was about a $400 cleaning deposit. But underneath? It was about decades of conditioning that told me to be quiet, agreeable, and "easy."

    In this episode, I share the messy, emotional, full-body experience of standing my ground—rewiring my nervous system—and what it taught me about self-worth, boundaries, and the little parts of us still running the show.

    Here's what you'll take away:

    ✔️ How to notice the "old you" survival patterns that keep you small
    ✔️ What happens when your body screams "don't fold"—and you listen
    ✔️ Why advocacy for yourself feels terrifying but is life-changing
    ✔️ How perfectionism, people-pleasing, and self-worth are all connected
    ✔️ Real steps to rewire your nervous system so you stop abandoning yourself

    This isn't just a story about a landlord—it's about no longer being available to be taken advantage of, in life, in motherhood, in business.

    📍 Find me here:
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    ✨ Boundary Mastery Course: Join Here
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    29 m