Seeing the Next Level Changes Everything

In Part 2 of this conversation, Ian and Jonathan dig deeper into exposure, access, and perspective in youth sports.

Jonathan explains why seeing the next level in person — middle school, college, or professional — can motivate kids without pressure, while also giving parents a clearer understanding of what elite performance actually looks like. They unpack the financial realities of club sports, travel, and training, and why “free” programs still come with hidden costs that many families can’t afford.

The episode closes with powerful reflections on the coaches and mentors who shaped Jonathan’s life — reminders that long-term impact rarely comes from wins, rankings, or trophies.

🧠 Key Talking Points

Why seeing the next level up motivates kids naturally

The importance of watching sports live — not just on TV

How context changes our perception of talent

The physical and mental gap between youth and college athletes

Financial barriers that limit access to elite pathways

Why “free” youth sports still aren’t truly free

How geography impacts opportunity in the U.S.

The hidden costs of national leagues and travel

Why winning isn’t a fair measure of development

The lifelong influence of coaches who invest beyond results

💬 Quotes from Jonathan Corone

“Until we see it up close, we don’t realize how big the gap really is.”

“Context changes everything.”

“Even if club fees are free, someone still has to get the kid there.”

“Is winning really a fair way to judge success?”

“Opportunity depends more on access than talent.”

“There are more good people in sports than toxic ones — they’re just quieter.”

“Gratitude is the thing I’ve learned the most from great leaders.”

“The people who show up matter more than the results.”

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In Part 1 of this conversation, Ian sits down with Jonathan Corone, creator of Healthy Sports Parents, to unpack the emotional, cultural, and behavioral challenges parents face in youth sports.

Jonathan shares how his own daughter’s experience — and a moment on the sidelines watching a parent lose control — sparked a platform focused on helping parents do better without shame or blame. Together, they explore why parents react the way they do, how outcome obsession sneaks in early, and why most kids don’t need more pressure — they need perspective.

This episode is for parents, coaches, and anyone trying to protect joy, growth, and long-term development in youth sports.

🧠 Key Talking Points

Why most parents don’t intend to become “that parent” on the sidelines

How outcome obsession sneaks into youth sports early

The emotional fatigue parents carry into games

Why growth matters more than wins at young ages

The difference between reacting and responding as a parent

How kids mirror adult behavior on the field

Why intrinsic motivation matters more than talent

The dangers of projecting adult goals onto children

How environment and resources shape development

What kids actually remember long after the games end

💬 Quotes from Jonathan Corone

“Most parents want to do better — they just haven’t been taught how.”

“Youth sports are not about winning. They’re about teaching kids tools for life.”

“If you’re having to motivate your kid, they’re probably not going to make it.”

“Methods change. Principles don’t.”

“Kids don’t fall out of love with sports overnight — they drift.”

“Growth is what matters, not the scoreboard.”

“Parents are reacting from exhaustion, not intention.”

“You can’t make your kid want it — they have to want it themselves.”

🔗 Connect with Jonathan Corone

🌐 Website: healthysportsparents.com

🎙️ Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/1dpgJQoownxZfnliaiqIJv

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Soccer Innovations: Award-Winning Soccer Equipment & Accessories

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In this solo episode of Chat By The Pitch, Ian Babcock reflects on years of learning as a soccer parent, coach, and constant student of the game. This episode challenges the obsession with early results and reframes success around development, environment, communication, and joy.

Ian explores what youth soccer is getting right, where it’s falling short, and what parents, coaches, and clubs can do—starting today—to create healthier, more sustainable experiences for young athletes. This conversation is for families who care about long-term growth, not just the scoreboard.

Key Talking Points

1. Why development matters more than early wins

2. The danger of overscheduling and athlete burnout

3. Creating safe environments for learning and failure

4. Why kids need space to be kids—not mini professionals

5. The importance of emotional connection between coaches and players

6. How communication breakdowns damage player development

7. Culture as the foundation of healthy teams and clubs

8. The realities and consequences of pay-to-play youth sports

9. How sideline behavior shapes athlete confidence and creativity

10. Redefining success as lifelong love of the game, not outcomes

Quotes from Ian Babcock

1. “Our job isn’t to push kids toward greatness. It’s to walk beside them so they can define what greatness means for themselves.”

2. “Winning early doesn’t create better players. It usually creates burned-out ones.”

3. “Kids don’t fall out of love with sports all at once. They drift—from joy to obligation, from play to performance.”

4. “If a child feels safe enough to fail, they’ll be brave enough to grow.”

5. “We’re raising humans first. Athletes second. When we get that order right, everything else gets easier.”

6. “Development isn’t about today’s score. It’s about who the athlete becomes over time.”

7. “Overscheduling doesn’t build commitment—it slowly erodes joy.”

8. “Culture isn’t about winning at all costs. It’s about creating an environment kids want to stay in.”

9. “When parents, players, and coaches aren’t aligned, development breaks down fast.”

10. “If a kid still loves the game at 25—or 80—we’ve done our job.”

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TeamPlayr: Find and join the perfect youth
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Soccer Innovations: Award-Winning Soccer Equipment & Accessories

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Reeplayer: Greater access to footage gives every young athlete the opportunity to develop and be seen. Reeplayer is committed to making footage accessible to teams, families, and athletes of all backgrounds.

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