On this episode we are hot boxing in Santa Clara!!...sorry I mean Santa Rosa

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We are visiting our college friend Imani and continued the conversation around work, needing to performing to feel whole or sane, and doing what you love!

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But you see what had happened was....... a shiny red fire truck came and we got side tracked....

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This is also a really good view on how the ADHD brain works as we have a discussion with 2 high neurodivergents....as we talk about things that just kind of pop into our heads!

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Have fun trying to make sense of this one as we try making sense of our everyday lives

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#damitatravels

#dissosociated

#sosonationcreations

"I've been drinking more alcohol for the past five days

Did you check on me?

Now, did you look for me?

I walked in the room, eyes are red and I don't smoke banga

Did you check on me? (Did you check on me?)

Now, did you notice me?"

-Libianca Fonji

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On this marvelous adventurous episode of Dis |so.so| Ciated Thoughts....

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We are coming to you from a car once again but this time in a rental car parked alongside the top of Santa Monica MOUNTAIN, overlooking San Bernadino Valley in SoCal!!

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We had an amazing guest, Yusuph!! We meet freshmen year of UC Davis and have been close ever since! We both started pre-med and both our stories have drastically changed! Medicine is still in our future but we are choosing something different for now, choosing love, on our journey towards it!

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It seems like its not just though, we are all going through this internal conflict. Do we stick with our childhood dreams and goals or do we give ourselves the grace, patience, and flexibility, the same as a child, to fail at something new and keep trying?

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With the world in the state that its in, I know everybody can feel it because we are having a global awakening!! The world we live in or that we used to live in is dying and changing VERY QUICKLY!! Do we keep pushing the same dreams we had pre-covid or do change with the world around us?

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Then again the question comes: ARE YOU DOING IT FOR THE MONEY OR THE LOVE!?!? If the world were to end tomorrow would you still be working a 9 to 5 or would you be working your dreams and making fantasies realities?!?

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ITS THAT TIME!

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Of course...with our quarter century life crisis...comes the hardest question for us to ask: To Build A Family or To Wait to Our 30s or Beyond? Do We Want a Family??

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Thanks to @thehoodhealer, I've come to overstand that I am in the World not of it!! But there are a lot of people lost in the sauce of EGO and MONEY. There are also a lot of hurt people who refuse to do the work necessary to live a happy and fulfilling life! Do you sacrifice yourself to society or to your dreams?!?

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Its time to bring back the love for all people not just your partner! Love your friends, tell them that, show them that, the same energy you give to your lover! The same to a stranger! Its internally liberating in a society that breeds hate and fear

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*Just a little disclaimer*

We had meet up earlier at Venice Beach and he was to give me a tour of LA. Being that both of us are water signs being by the water brings up all the feels, so we had already been conversating on a deep level...plus I'm just that person lol. He had NO IDEA, I had my equipment and this was completely impromptu!!

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#providinglifeservices

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Dis |So.So| Creations @so.so.nation

On this amazing podcast me and my bestie are back at it! This time we are talking about romantic partnership!!!

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She had some relationship questions for me and Eye had some single (when she was single) questions for her

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Are you over your ex? Have you been a heaux in these streets? Have you learned how to love?...So are you ready to love or naaahhh?!?

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*Seek peak: Eye really didn't think a man could love me because eye knew eye would be on the road a lot in different cities, states, and countries. Eye truly didn't believe there were men who would hold me down through all of that.....so eye stopped thinking or planning for a family

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IG: @damita_jc

#damitatravels

#sosonation

We are back!! Welcome back! Me and Jaz here to finish what we started!

We get waaaay deeper on this side of the cassette. Lots of gems were dropped and a lot of growth was shown. We ain't little kids anymore momma.

Come vibe with our continued convo on friendship!!

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IG: @damita_jc

#damitatravels 

My BFF, Ace boon, Right hand, Jaz agreed to my random demand to do a podcast late one night lol....really the next day after eye recorded my 1st episode....eye was feeling inspired and she agreed to accompany me on my late night antics!!

After we ate and partook in some herbal blessings, we talked about friendship. What is looks like? How to keep it together for so long? and When its time to let it go! (Pardon the low voices, rambling, and off topicness...the herbs plus the night was an interesting mix)

This is part 1 to the 2 part series on friendship with my bestie!....figured eye'd keep under an hour so here's 2 45min episodes lol.

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IG: @Damita_jc

#damitatravels

Living with this growing, nagging feeling of brunt out forced me to do some deep diving into self and trying to bring back the drive and love for life.

Through guided healing, eye have been looking and questioning my innerchild to try and heal this burn out. Asking her what does she love to do/what brings me joy? Eye also questioned why society and how my childhood, friends, and family has shaped and limited my vision of self! Eye encourage and warn everyone to stop just moving/pushing forward without having some checkpoint along the way to help refocus and ensure that the path you're on still resonates and serves you! It's extremely hard to revision yourself when you've held onto this vision of who you are/ to become...your whole life.

What if what you think is serving you is really just a trauma response or a survival mechanism? Constantly question the world around you, as well as yourself!

IG: @damita_jc

#damitatravels

**This my 1st podcast so please forgive me for the everything.....eye went unscripted and went with the flow...with some herbal influence so eye went off track a few times**