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  • XYBM Clips: This Black man shares what would say to his dad that passed away

    XYBM Clips: This Black man shares what would say to his dad that passed away
    Jun 26 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor” — it was released on: June 16, 2025.

    In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the significance of community. We explore his personal journey, including his deep bond with his late father, growing up in a Haitian household, and the lessons he's learned through life transitions. We dive into the complexities of relationships, dating with intention, fatherhood, and the power of emotional vulnerability for Black men.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

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    8 m
  • XYBM Clips: Black man, listen to this if you are struggling right now

    XYBM Clips: Black man, listen to this if you are struggling right now
    Jun 25 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor” — it was released on: June 16, 2025.

    In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the significance of community. We explore his personal journey, including his deep bond with his late father, growing up in a Haitian household, and the lessons he's learned through life transitions. We dive into the complexities of relationships, dating with intention, fatherhood, and the power of emotional vulnerability for Black men.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


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    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

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    3 m
  • XYBM Clips: A Black man opens up about grieving the loss of his father

    XYBM Clips: A Black man opens up about grieving the loss of his father
    Jun 24 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor” — it was released on: June 16, 2025.

    In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the significance of community. We explore his personal journey, including his deep bond with his late father, growing up in a Haitian household, and the lessons he's learned through life transitions. We dive into the complexities of relationships, dating with intention, fatherhood, and the power of emotional vulnerability for Black men.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivq

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
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    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @mrcommunitynyc (https://www.instagram.com/mrcommunitynyc/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    9 m
  • BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 133 with Jeff Lindor

    BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 133 with Jeff Lindor
    Jun 23 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor” — it was released on: June 16, 2025.

    In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the significance of community. We explore his personal journey, including his deep bond with his late father, growing up in a Haitian household, and the lessons he's learned through life transitions. We dive into the complexities of relationships, dating with intention, fatherhood, and the power of emotional vulnerability for Black men.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivq

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @mrcommunitynyc (https://www.instagram.com/mrcommunitynyc/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    11 m
  • Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor

    Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor
    Jun 16 2025
    In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the significance of community. We explore his personal journey, including his deep bond with his late father, growing up in a Haitian household, and the lessons he's learned through life transitions. We dive into the complexities of relationships, dating with intention, fatherhood, and the power of emotional vulnerability for Black men.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivq

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
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    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:
    Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @mrcommunitynyc (https://www.instagram.com/mrcommunitynyc/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    1 h y 55 m
  • XYBM Clips: Stop underestimating your kids

    XYBM Clips: Stop underestimating your kids
    Jun 12 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 132) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose with J.R” — it was released on: June 2, 2025.In XYBM 132, I sit down with JR Rivera, a dynamic leader, author, educator, and former professional athlete, to discuss navigating fatherhood, faith, and purpose. We explore his transition from teaching to becoming a full-time content creator, his strategies for intentional parenting, and the profound impact of faith and resilience in his journey. JR also shares valuable insights on the importance of being present for your children and how to instill delayed gratification to help them become strong, successful people. This episode is a parenting masterclass, offering practical wisdom for anyone considering having children or raising kids of their own. Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:————————————We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivqAll webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:————————————Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-dealsSAFE HAVEN:————————————Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-havenSUPPORT THE PLATFORM:————————————Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-havenMonthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEEMerchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com FOLLOW US: ————————————TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)Guest: @_jrrivera (https://www.instagram.com/_jrrivera/)YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackManFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    13 m
  • XYBM Clips: Kids don’t need too many choices, they need guidance

    XYBM Clips: Kids don’t need too many choices, they need guidance
    Jun 11 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 132) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose with J.R” — it was released on: June 2, 2025.In XYBM 132, I sit down with JR Rivera, a dynamic leader, author, educator, and former professional athlete, to discuss navigating fatherhood, faith, and purpose. We explore his transition from teaching to becoming a full-time content creator, his strategies for intentional parenting, and the profound impact of faith and resilience in his journey. JR also shares valuable insights on the importance of being present for your children and how to instill delayed gratification to help them become strong, successful people. This episode is a parenting masterclass, offering practical wisdom for anyone considering having children or raising kids of their own. Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:————————————We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivqAll webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:————————————Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-dealsSAFE HAVEN:————————————Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-havenSUPPORT THE PLATFORM:————————————Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-havenMonthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEEMerchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com FOLLOW US: ————————————TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)Guest: @_jrrivera (https://www.instagram.com/_jrrivera/)YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackManFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    13 m
  • XYBM Clips: Every adult around your child is either building or breaking them

    XYBM Clips: Every adult around your child is either building or breaking them
    Jun 10 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 132) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose with J.R” — it was released on: June 2, 2025.In XYBM 132, I sit down with JR Rivera, a dynamic leader, author, educator, and former professional athlete, to discuss navigating fatherhood, faith, and purpose. We explore his transition from teaching to becoming a full-time content creator, his strategies for intentional parenting, and the profound impact of faith and resilience in his journey. JR also shares valuable insights on the importance of being present for your children and how to instill delayed gratification to help them become strong, successful people. This episode is a parenting masterclass, offering practical wisdom for anyone considering having children or raising kids of their own. Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:————————————We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivqAll webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:————————————Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-dealsSAFE HAVEN:————————————Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-havenSUPPORT THE PLATFORM:————————————Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-havenMonthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEEMerchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com FOLLOW US: ————————————TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)Guest: @_jrrivera (https://www.instagram.com/_jrrivera/)YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackManFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    10 m