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  • XYBM Clips: A lot of Black men feel invisible

    XYBM Clips: A lot of Black men feel invisible
    Nov 12 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" — it was released on November 3, 2025.

    In XYBM 143, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part one of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on the emotional landscape of Black men, exploring why so many feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. We unpack the “deficit model” that defines Black men by what they lack, the male loneliness epidemic, and how patriarchy harms everyone — especially those it claims to empower.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

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    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

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    Guest: @professor.odi (https://www.instagram.com/professor.odi/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    13 m
  • XYBM Clips: Nobody talks about why so many Black men are angry

    XYBM Clips: Nobody talks about why so many Black men are angry
    Nov 11 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" — it was released on November 3, 2025.

    In XYBM 143, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part one of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on the emotional landscape of Black men, exploring why so many feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. We unpack the “deficit model” that defines Black men by what they lack, the male loneliness epidemic, and how patriarchy harms everyone — especially those it claims to empower.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
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    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @professor.odi (https://www.instagram.com/professor.odi/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    14 m
  • BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 143 with Odi

    BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 143 with Odi
    Nov 10 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" — it was released on November 3, 2025.

    In XYBM 143, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part one of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on the emotional landscape of Black men, exploring why so many feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. We unpack the “deficit model” that defines Black men by what they lack, the male loneliness epidemic, and how patriarchy harms everyone — especially those it claims to empower.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
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    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @professor.odi (https://www.instagram.com/professor.odi/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    8 m
  • Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi

    Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi
    Nov 3 2025

    In XYBM 143, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part one of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on the emotional landscape of Black men, exploring why so many feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. We unpack the “deficit model” that defines Black men by what they lack, the male loneliness epidemic, and how patriarchy harms everyone — especially those it claims to empower.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @professor.odi (https://www.instagram.com/professor.odi/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    1 h y 56 m
  • XYBM Clips: You can’t have success without pain

    XYBM Clips: You can’t have success without pain
    Oct 30 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Connie" — it was released on October 20, 2025.

    In XYBM 142, I sit down with Elliott Connie — a psychotherapist, author, and podcaster helping people heal through solution-focused brief therapy. We have a honest conversation about the lasting effects of childhood trauma and abuse, the power of self-love, and the challenges Black men face in advocating for their mental well-being.

    Elliott also opens up about his own story — growing up with an abusive father and how setting one boundary changed the entire fabric of their relationship for years.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:
    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
    (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @elliottspeaks (https://www.instagram.com/elliottspeaks/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
    Más Menos
    9 m
  • XYBM Clips: Stop feeling guilty for outgrowing people

    XYBM Clips: Stop feeling guilty for outgrowing people
    Oct 29 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Connie" — it was released on October 20, 2025.

    In XYBM 142, I sit down with Elliott Connie — a psychotherapist, author, and podcaster helping people heal through solution-focused brief therapy. We have a honest conversation about the lasting effects of childhood trauma and abuse, the power of self-love, and the challenges Black men face in advocating for their mental well-being.

    Elliott also opens up about his own story — growing up with an abusive father and how setting one boundary changed the entire fabric of their relationship for years.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:
    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
    (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @elliottspeaks (https://www.instagram.com/elliottspeaks/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
    Más Menos
    11 m
  • XYBM Clips: Don’t punish your kids for doing this

    XYBM Clips: Don’t punish your kids for doing this
    Oct 28 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Connie" — it was released on October 20, 2025.

    In XYBM 142, I sit down with Elliott Connie — a psychotherapist, author, and podcaster helping people heal through solution-focused brief therapy. We have a honest conversation about the lasting effects of childhood trauma and abuse, the power of self-love, and the challenges Black men face in advocating for their mental well-being.

    Elliott also opens up about his own story — growing up with an abusive father and how setting one boundary changed the entire fabric of their relationship for years.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:
    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
    (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @elliottspeaks (https://www.instagram.com/elliottspeaks/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    12 m
  • BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 142 with Elliott Connie

    BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 142 with Elliott Connie
    Oct 27 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Connie" — it was released on October 20, 2025.

    In XYBM 142, I sit down with Elliott Connie — a psychotherapist, author, and podcaster helping people heal through solution-focused brief therapy. We have a honest conversation about the lasting effects of childhood trauma and abuse, the power of self-love, and the challenges Black men face in advocating for their mental well-being.

    Elliott also opens up about his own story — growing up with an abusive father and how setting one boundary changed the entire fabric of their relationship for years.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:
    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
    (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @elliottspeaks (https://www.instagram.com/elliottspeaks/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
    Más Menos
    17 m