Elle had her baby! In this episode, she shares all the intimate details about how she and her husband, M, used natural sexual tactics to induce labor, and how they got back to being sexual after six weeks of healing.

How to induce labor with sex: nipple play, penetrative sex, nipple clamps, orgasms and Braxton Hicks. (3:07)

What is labor pain like? Comparing contractions to DVP, speculum spreading, fisting, anal discomfort: breathing through discomfort, and thinking of words as spells. (11:04)

Post-baby vagina: "the husband stitch", and does it look different? Is it loose? (17:31)

Postpartum sex: how long does it take to get back to sex after having a baby? Getting over the fear of having an orgasm. How to get comfortable with penetration again. The first orgasm after six weeks of vaginal healing. (20:43)

Scheduling sex when you have a newborn. (28:09)

Breast milk play: Breastfeeding and nipple play. Tasting breast milk and squirting it during blow jobs. (28:41)

Being in the open lifestyle and parenthood: confidence issues with postpartum body. Diving back into sex parties and ENM (ethical non-monogamy) after having a child. (35:40)

Maintaining your sex life with a baby around. How having a short timeline can be hot! (38:34)

Major takeaways from giving birth and getting back to sex: Prioritizing sex to reignite sexuality in your relationship postpartum. Falling in love with your partner again. (42:01)

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In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.

Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)

Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life. Uneven labia. (11:09)

Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy. The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)

Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)

DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)

Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)

Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)

Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)

Links:

Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzz
Find Physics on Fetlife: Physics

Websites:

CuddlesByBee.com
The Temple

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In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia) to play the game Whoreible Life.

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!

There are many many ways to play, so in this episode they play it two ways: “Would You Rather” and “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank You” -

1 Done it — share the story!

2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!

3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.

Have you ever had sex in your parents’ bed? How “the talk” and your parents’ approach to sex can affect your early relationship with sexuality. (3:13)

Different approaches to talking about sex with your kids. (8:48)

Have you ever role played in a rape fantasy or “Consensual Non Consent” (CNC) scene? Describing examples of CNC scenes, role playing, safe words and what needs to be discussed and agreed beforehand. (13:30)

Lowering our standards while dating during the Covid pandemic and putting ourselves in potentially unsafe situations. (22:52)

Catharsis in acting out fears through sexual fantasies like rape scenes and consensual non-consent. (30:34)

Would you rather use a double ended dildo or make a girl squirt? Being surprised by a squirter. Glass vs silicone double ended dildos, and the first time orgasming with a double ended dildo - what position works best. (38:27)

Double ended dildo vs. Feeldo. (42:50)

Would you rather practice tantric sex or role play as submissive? Masturbating and focusing on the breath; breath orgasms without physical touch. (45:40)

Workout orgasms and Elle’s experience orgasming with an ab roller. (48:02)

Would you rather watch VR porn or be dominated to lose the right to orgasm? Orgasm denial, being a brat, and Reddit porn communities. (50:45)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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