This week, Vee and Elle sit down with Tash Doherty — a British-Irish-American writer, creator of Miseducated (the blog and podcast helping the world become shamelessly sexy), and author of These Perfectly Careless Things, her spicy coming-of-age debut novel. She is a bold, candid, and deeply reflective sexuality writer who holds nothing back. We discuss Tash’s latest project, The Intimacy Journal, which invites readers into deeper erotic self-reflection through writing.

They also wander into taboo territory like:

• vibrators in one-night stands
• the shame around “needing” toys
• fatphobia, feeder porn, and being praised for the parts of you you’ve been taught to hate
• being “born-again monogamous” versus non-monogamous and craving freedom
• whether shameless sexuality is about saying yes more, saying no more, or adding nuance instead of binary answers

By the end, this episode feels like a permission slip: to write about your sex life, to admit your kinks (even the ones you’d never act out), to take up space in your pleasure, and to use tools like The Intimacy Journal to get better at sex.

Chapters

Meet Tash Doherty: From Rule-Following Schoolgirl To Shameless Sex Writer (00:00)

“Unattached Sex” (5:15)

What It Is Mean To You To Have Sex With One Person For The Rest Of Your Life? (09:12)

The Importance Of Having One Night Stands: The Human Desire Buffet And Freedom Vs. Restriction

Why Journal? Does It Create A Better Sex Life? (18:11)

Taking Up Space: Café Tables, Crosswalks & Orgasm Gaps Vs. Equality (20:56)

What Is Shameless Sexy? Is It Saying Yes More, No More Honestly… Or Something Else? Curiosity? Boundaries? (25:51)

Vibrators Into One Night Stands or Fear of BringingToys Into The Bedroom? (33:39)

First Time, Worst Time, Most Alive: Journaling Prompts IRL (40:33))

Feeder Porn / Weight Gain Kink, Fatphobia, Erotic Reclamation & Control (59:55)

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🔥 Guest Info:
Substack: Miseducated https://miseducated.substack.com
Website: https://tashdoherty.com
(Articles, book info, the Intimacy Journal updates)

The Intimacy Journal
A guided, sensual self-reflection journal blending poetry, erotic memory, desire-mapping, and introspective prompts to deepen your relationship with your sexuality. The journal also includes a QR code linking to a community space where readers can anonymously share their stories.

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Have you been naughty or nice? Either way, Vee and Elle are serving up the ultimate sexy gift guide to help you heat up your season.

We’re sharing the toys, experiences, and books we actually love… and several come with special discount codes just for GGD listeners. Happy HOlidays, naughty snowballs!

Vee is bedridden from a sex injury, and Elle has pelvic girdle pain.

Our fave toys - why are we doing this? (Answer: because we helpful, good girls :) (5:55)

Best Couple Toy: Sex Swing. (7:36)

Best G Spot Flapping Vibrator. (14:20)

Best Vibrator: Hitachi Magic Wand. (16:14)

Best G-Spot/P-Spot Stimulator: njoy. (18:55)

*Sensory Play sexy eye mask: Purple Passion

Experiental = Vee’s #1 combo gift: Rope and a workshop or BEDucated. (23:34)

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Best for Witchy Sluts: Waands Crystal Pleasure Wands, Cervix Wands, yoni eggs, and butt plugs. (27:37)

What’s the point of a yoni egg? (32:27)

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Best Personalized Experience: Hiring a professional: coaching, dominatrixes, yoni massage, shibari session… (34:32)

-Priestess Francesca

-Rina Trevi

-Magda Kay

-Leola Watkins

-Briana Cribeyer

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Best Ergonomic Sexual Experience: Sex Wedge Pillow. (37:43)

Best For Easy Cleanup After Squirting: Waterproof Blanket. (39:50)

Best Electroplay Experience: Violet Wand, mixed with conductive shibari rope. (40:37)

Best Sexy Accessory: Nipple Clamps with chain. (41:37)

Best Party Experience: Sex Parties! (42:45)

Best At-Home Unique Experience: Love is Art Kit! (43:30)

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Best Icebreaker Game: WHOREible Life. (46:11)

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BOOKS: (47:20)

Unbound by Kasia Urbaniak

Polywise by Jessica Fern

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations For A Lifetime of Love by The Gottmans

Want by Gillian Anderson

Kink by R.O. Kwan and Garth Greenwell

From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess by Alisa Kriegel

Seek the Risk by Adam Darrow

Sacred Sex Ed by Leola Watkins

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This week, Elle and Vee play time Fuck-Marry-Kill version of the card game WHOREible Life with Athena. This episode is pure chaotic pleasure — the kind where nostalgia, food, kink, and butt-stuff all swirl into one ridiculous open conversation. We go from childhood games to double-ended vegetables, from grooming disasters to pegging wins, from lingerie-in-public confessions to pee-play experimentation, from CNC fantasies to explicit photo close calls. Strap in (or strap on)… this one gets naughty.

What is Whoreible Life? Playing the Fuck, Marry, Kill version. (00:00)

Fuck, Marry, Kill: Rim Job, Being Whipped by a Single Tail Whip, Being One of the Dicks in a DVP (double vaginal penetration) (4:17)

Giving Rim Jobs. (5:55)

Laser Hair Removal Experiences. (7:06)

Receiving Rim Jobs. (10:48)

Butt Plugs: Public Play. (12:32)

How long can you wear a butt plug? Metal vs. silicone butt plugs. (19:20)

Pegging Train Fuck & Spit Roasting Challenges. (27:20)

Dildo DP to Pee Play. (30:50)

Naughty Photos. (34:18)

Fuck. Marry. Kill: Fuck Yourself In The Ass, Consensual Non Consent (CNC) Rape Fantasy, Or Orgasm Denial. (38:37)

Free Use Vs. CNC & CNC Scene Car Fucking Scene Described. (40:35)

Sex in Public Spaces. (45:46)

To Go Commando or Not. (47:54)

Countdown to Orgasm. (52:10)

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This week, it’s Guys Gone Deep! Elle and Vee are joined by Ricky — their resident anal expert — for an honest, hilarious, and educational chat about what it really takes to feel comfortable exploring the backdoor.

From understanding how to prepare your body, to learning the right tools, techniques, and hygiene tips, this episode dives into the practical side of exploration — and the mindset that makes it enjoyable. We cover topics like body awareness, relaxation, communication, common myths, and how to let go of shame or stereotypes around who “should” or “shouldn’t” enjoy this kind of play.

Whether you’re curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, this conversation blends science, self-care, and a healthy dose of humor to help you approach new experiences with confidence and curiosity.

Early anal exploration and learning to use lube. (2:27)

Anal cleansing to prep for butt play. (8:35)

Tools: bulbs or syringes? (13:22)

Best positions to clean yourself. Hint: stay upright! (15:54)

What NOT to do. (19:54)

How to prevent farting or air bubbles. (23:43)

Play with butt plugs and dildos. (25:37)

Diet: what can I eat before anal? What foods to avoid before anal? (30:14)

Internalized homophobia: overcoming the shame of thinking “butt stuff is gay”. (37:05)

Training: warming yourself up and inserting your own toys. Using a tongue (rimjob) or fingers to warm up. (41:02)

Anal training kits and the best way to train the sphincter. (48:20)

Focusing on the receptors in your sphincter to relax your hole. (54:19)

What's the best lube for anal play? (57:48)

Poppers: what are they, the risks, and the benefits. (1:03:21)

Drug-free relaxation tips. (1:06:30)

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What happens when a psychologist in a 25-year sexless marriage decides she’s done living without desire?

This week,Dr. Alisa Kriegel joins Elle and Vee to share her raw, transformative journey from disconnection to deep erotic empowerment — the story behind her upcoming memoir From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess.

We talk about:

• How up to 40% of marriages are sexless — and why no one wants to admit it
• The power of communication, curiosity, and skin-to-skin contact in rekindling intimacy
• The truth about genital fit and why “one size fits all” is a myth
• The healing that comes when you finally feel desired again
• Using dating and non-monogamy as tools for self-discovery and growth
• Why becoming a “sex goddess” is about owning your body, your boundaries, and your pleasure

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your desire, trapped in routine, or unsure how to find your way back to pleasure — this episode will remind you that it’s never too late to reclaim your erotic energy.

CHAPTERS

Introduction to Alisa Kriegel (00:00)

Sexlessness in Relationships: How It’s defined (3:46)

Prioritizing Intimacy (5:37)

The Sexless Marriage (14:47)

Self-Discovery through Online Dating and into Swinging (19:43)

The Worst One Night Stand Experience (25:11)

Below Average, Average and Slightly Above Average Cocks (27:30)

What is Genital Fit? Kama Sutra (30:41)

Understanding Body Changes and Sexuality (32:41)

Sex First Mentality (36:40)

What is a Sex Goddess (39:06)

Dating to Learn Revelations Desire and the False Emotional Protection of Dating Men In Relationships (47:36)

Men Love Pussy (56:20)

Can Someone Else’s Orgasm Trigger Your Orgasm Without Any Manual Stimulation? (59:53)

A List for a Relationship Blueprint: Manifesting Your Partner (01:03:32)

The Problem with Traditional Dating (01:07:18)

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🎙️ Guest Info

Dr. Alisa Kriegel
Psychologist • Author • Sex & Relationship Expert
📖 Book: From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess — available November 4, 2025
🎧 Podcast: Let’s Talk About Sex, Really
🌐 Website: alisakriegel.com
📸 Instagram: @alisakriegelauthor

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This week Elle and Vee chat about rough oral play: aka face fucking.

What is face fucking? What is the difference between fellatio and erumatio? (00:34)

Do you like rough oral sex? How our relationship with it has evolved. (4:11)

Running mascara as marks. (11:04)

CNC. (12:24)

Roman showers: throat sex to the point of throwing up. (14:25)

Things to think about for the giver/top. (17:52)

Tricks and tips for the receiver/bottom. How to deal with gag reflex. (21:30)

The best positions. (25:45)

Safety precautions. How to communicate when you’re being bottoming. (30:56)

Breath: listening to the breathing cues of the bottom. What makes you “tap out” when you’re in the bottom position? (33:17)

Blow jobs vs F.F.: the origin of the phrase “blow job”. (36:12)

Listener questions and comments: “Am I supposed to suck or just keep my mouth and throat open?” (38:30)

Spit: does your spit taste ok when you deep throat? (40:30)

How do you suggest this to your partner? (41:28)

Do guys like to be deep-throated, and how many people can? (45:46)

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This week, Vee and Elle chat with Eden, a tantra facilitator and intimacy coach, discussing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to explore their sexuality and intimacy without the male gaze. They talk what actually happens inside femme-only temples — no boys, no judgment, just sacred play, deep connection, and maybe a little glitter lube. They unpack queerness, non-monogamy, and the power of women’s spaces that feel safe and sexy. From overcoming mean-girl energy to feeling fully seen in our desires, this convo pulls back the curtain on tantra, sisterhood, and the kind of turn-on that heals.

Introduction to Eden and Creating Safe Spaces for Women (00:00)

Exploring Queerness and Its Pathway to Non-Monogamy (7:31)

Monogamish & Territorial Feelings and Do You and Your Partner Share Separate Play Details (10:51)

Elle’s Journey Into Queerness and All Femme Party Experiences (16:08)(

The Role of Male Gaze When Women Are Playing And Who Initiates in all Femme Spaces (19:37)

Painted Picture Being In The Temple of Eden (22:29)

Ice Breaker Games and Relating Games (26:04)

Is There A Space for Straight Women In All Women Spaces? (31:42)

What’s the Difference between Temple Parties vs. Traditional Play Parties (35:20)

Expanding Events DC and Philly (43:08)

What if I am a Newvie or Inexperienced to Tantra, Can I Come to Temple of Eden? (46:01

Practices To Do At Home To Feel Your Inner Goddess (50:27)

Follow Along! EFT Tapping Glamour Magic Practice (52:03)

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This week, Vee and Elle unpack everything couples should talk about before stepping into a shared play space—from emotional boundaries to desires, jealousy, and how to reconnect afterward, using a conversation framework they learned on an ISTA retreat. From collars and rituals to new relationship energy (NRE), aka limerence, and the messy middle between fantasy and reality—Vee goes deep on her experience. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, playing with a new partner, or redefining your relationship agreements, this episode is packed with real talk, practical tools, and deeply personal moments.

RDBSM (Relationship, Desires, Boundaries, Sexual Health, Meaning). (00:25)

R: Relationship: Vee navigates a new Monogamish relationship with Mister A. Dom/sub dynamics and wearing collars to denote ownership and ritual. (6:13)

Conscious Relating: redefining your relationships as they fit into your life. (7:26)

D: Desires: playing together with another couple or a female unicorn. (13:31)

B: Boundaries: the idea of men’s cum as ownership leading to wanting to be there for your partner’s orgasm. (13:57)

NRE (New Relationship Energy) vs Love: WTF is limerence? And how do you know when it’s evolved from new relationship energy to actual true romantic love? Instability vs stability. (17:14)

Boundaries contd: Not playing separately, keeping play and connection in the container of the scene or the play party, and then “keep it in the group text”. Locking in and taking the performative aspect out of exhibitionism. (20:37)

M: Meaning: creating a container to explore safely within the time boundaries of the party. (26:30)

Traffic Light System: What to do in the moment if you’re feeling activated or jealous? Borrowing from BDSM scenes to have a safe word or traffic light system in more traditional scenes. (29:15)

A: Aftercare: going home together, reconnecting, and talking over breakfast? (33:13)

Post-Party: Back to School theme and showing ownership by wearing a collar. (34:29)

Wax Play experience: performing for your man when you know he’s watching. (37:38)

Connecting with your partner first: Vee cums for the first time at a play party! (42:44)

Mixed feelings: Watching your partner fuck someone else. What a guy should say when the female is unsure about playing. (45:42)

Popping their cherry: Vee and Mister A play with another couple for the first time. (51:08)

Aftercare and debriefing the next day. (57:02)

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