In this episode, the girls chat with their friend “Mommy” (Episode 018: Female Friendships in ENM) and play WHOREible Life, their favorite game to break down barriers and get naughty AND deep! They touch on everything from being called Mommy during sex, to stretching fetishes and putting food in vaginas, to bisexuality and all-female orgies!

Growth: seizing the moment rather than getting in your head and not taking advantage of sexy opportunities. (1:59)

-Would you rather role play as a teacher or be called mommy during sex? (7:52)

-Would you rather have peanut butter licked off your genitals or be peed on? (12:35)

Whats Up Down There? The weird things people put in their vaginas, and what’s the weirdest thing you’ve had in your vagina or put into a vagina? (14:51)

Pee Play: Peeing on people, first Tinder dates with pee fetishists, Baptism by pee. When you’re new to the lifestyle and go on a date with someone who’s super kinky. (19:15)

Watersports and Vee pushing her boundaries by sitting in pee in bathtubs and in resort pools. (22:50)

-Would you rather have a same sex threesome or give another bruises from impact play? (26:08)

All girl play and bisexuality on a spectrum. Sometimes you crave female energy, and sometimes you crave a dick! (30:00)

Comparing Elle and Mommy’s favorite strap ons: Oxyd Creations and Strap-On-Me. (34:09)

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In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up on Vee’s solo trip to Thailand and Vietnam. Vee has some major sexual takeaways and "aha moments" going on vacation with no sex in sight... until the last day of her trip when she met Mr. Bangkok. Hear her play by play and so much more, including:

Solo Travel: not knowing when you’re going to have sex next, and where are all the sex clubs in Thailand?! (1:57)

Hot Hookup: Vee has a sexy one night stand in Bangkok after 8 hours of foreplay in the back of a bus! The sexiness of meeting in a non-sexual environment. (6:54)

NIPPLE PLAY: Vee almost has a nipple orgasm. Techniques of nipple play. The beauty of having an experience with someone who can’t get enough of you no matter what you look or smell like. (15:35)

ANAL PLAY: enthusiasm and ravenousness. (23:38)

Hooking up with Monogamous, Macho Men: how to approach the “open relationship” conversation with a vanilla hookup. Unlearning ingrained societal norms. Toys in the bedroom. (26:01)

Relaxation plus vacation equals maximum horniness! (30:49)

Listener Questions, Answered!

How to Find Your Lifestyle Community (especially when you live in less progressive areas): Kasidie, Feeld, SDC, SLS, Fetlife, hotel takeovers, Luxx Parties, etc. and the benefits of each option. (33:44)

Dipping Your Toes Into Sex Parties and Kink for the First Time: go to meetups and mixers rather than the full blown sex parties. Go early to sex parties for the ice breaker games and making connections while it’s less crowded! (42:12)

Men’s Body Hair: what’s popular these days, and what’s appropriate? If you take nothing else away from this: Shave your balls and asshole. (48:58)

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In this episode, the girls bring back Brandi from Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix.

Together they play WHOREible Life by trying to guess whether or not each player has done the act mentioned on the card. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!

Sex Positions While Pregnant: which positions create a boy and which create a girl, and why laying on your back doesn’t work while pregnant. (2:15)

Card 1: Had sex before the age of 15? Losing your virginity. (9:41)

What is considered “full on sex” or “fourth base” with a female? (15:29)

Formative sexual oral experiences as precursors to the lifestyle. (18:07)

Card 2: Used a fleshlight. What is a fleshlight? Other toy options for penis owners. (23:01)

Card 3: Own 3 or more dildos. Sex toy closets and favorite sex toys. (30:41)

Dildos vs. vibrators, and when and why would you use each? Frozen glass dildo to relieve pussy pain. (33:57)

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There are plenty of podcasts that talk about do’s and dont’s at a sex parties. This episode goes deeper.

The girls share their "aha" moments, discuss common mistakes made by veterans in the lifestyle, and storytell through it all with real-life examples.

Joining Elle and Vee chat in this discussion is returning guest Jess from Episode 58: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play and Episode 37: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and Spanking

Episode Breakdown

Intro and The Need for this Discussion from the More Experienced Perspective on Sex Parties. (00:35)

DON’T yuck someone else's yum. Be open minded for to other’s desires and kinks. "What about that turns you on?" (04:51)

Tips for Making More Connections at Parties. (09:33)

DO Attend Sex Parties with other friends: How many is too many? What’s the right amount of people to ensure fun while still branching away to meet new people? (11:01)

DON’T Set Expectations, rather, DO Set Personal Goals. (13:44)

DO Create an Immersive Environment by Putting in Effort in Dressing Up for the Theme. (16:31)

DO Be Sexually Forward with Clear Communication and Honesty (20:08)

DON’T Take Anything Personally, and how not to lead People On. (26:45)

DO Ask “What Are Your Intentions For The Night?” To Uncover Compatibility. (30:43)

DON’T Assume It’s Free for All: Interactions Between Other People Does Not Mean It Also Applies To You. (32:24)

DO Use Your Words and Tell Others When You Feel Uncomfortable, otherwise, you’re a part of the problem. (37:52)


DO Read the Room for Energy and Vibe, DON’T Talk During the Orgy. (43:32)

DO Pack Your Slutbag, Organization Tips, Bringing Your Own Sex Toys, Toy Condoms. (46:42)

DON’T get too fucked up: Substances and Moderation. (48:54)

DON’T STINK! Preparation and Hygiene. (52:45)

DO Flirt Early, Arrive Early. (55:59)

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In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with couple B and Lolo to discuss their long-distance relationship and how they practice non monogamy. They share how they navigate being apart and how they keep their relationship hot and exciting.

The conversation touches on topics such as playing separately, sharing sexy content, phone and video sex, the importance of creating the right atmosphere for sexual experiences, and their successful approach to meeting new people and introducing 'vanillas' into the lifestyle.

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Episode Breakdown:

Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship requires effort and communication, and the story of how Lolo and B met. (01:27)

How they explored the non monogamous lifestyle together, B had no experience and Lolo tried with her ex-husband. (7:19)

How they practice non monogamy in their long distance relationship. (15:17)

How to keep it hot while being long distance: sexy content and FaceTime sex. (18:20)

Orgasms: Frustration losing an orgasm, breathing through the orgasms or holding your breath. (22:10)

Creating a sexy environment in temporary spaces like hotels or airbnbs: the role of low lighting and color temperature with amber-hued incandescent light bulbs, led light strips. (28:40)

Preventing messes with waterproof fitted sheets, furniture placement and other essentials. (34:49)

Music recommendations: Create a party-like atmosphere without being distracting is ideal for setting the mood. (38:53)

Hedonism Jamaica Story Share: Naked, covered in squirt juice and room temperature to get naked plus how B and LoLo met Elle. (41:50)

Enthusiastic consent and how it's importance in meeting new people, the power of open and honest communication. (46:48)

Successful Sport Fishing: How they pick up 'Vanillas’ (non monogamous people) for threesomes or foursomes, while out at a bar. Creating a safe space for exploration. (51:56)

Their foundation for a successful journey their relationship, through ENM, and being long distance: No Secrets, No Lies: Everything Else is a Conversation. (1:02:18)

Navigating jealousy and conflict requires self-reflection, non reactivity in the moment and effective communication. (1:04:22)

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In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two guests to play WHOREible Life (@wlthegame), the game of have you ever all things sex and kink!

The first guest is Kate Maxx from (from Episode 73: Owning and Loving What You Do with Kate Maxx featuring Humiliatrix Work, Stripping, and OnlyFans Content Creation

Our second guest is Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) from Episode 75: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss Play

Bridget is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia) and host of Sexploration with Bridget Scholes Podcast.

With both guests, we play the game WHOREible Life by choosing two cards and asking which Would you rather….

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!

WL cards: Would you rather orgasm from spanking or other impact play or make someone squirt (1:11)

WL cards: Would you rather roleplay as puppy or cat OR be bound and restricted as a rope bunny (5:11)

Underwater shibari with Markus Leather (5:55)

WL cards: Wear a spreader bar OR have someone ride your face (11:06)

Ways to insert yourself into an orgy (14:32)

All girl orgy, how female play changes when men are not watching, the skirt club a space for bi-curious and bisexual women (16:38)

WL cards: Practice tantric sex OR receive foot worship, foot licking or toe sucking (21:50)

Tantric sex and how to do energetic breathing alone or with your partner to increase sexual energy (23:05)

WL cards: be fucked by someone else with a strap on OR slap someone in the face with an open hand (27:41)

Using glass dildos from temperature to the pressure and hardness to massaging to penetration (32:20)

WL cards: Have sex on a beach or post a personal porn video for public viewing (35:21)

Giving handjobs (37:10)

Sex on a beach (39:56)

Chili, pepper spray and jalapeños sex mishaps (42:12)

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In this episode, Elle catches up with Vee on everything she's been up to over the past few months while she's been gone on maternity leave. Vee shares her takeaways from various sex parties and the personal challenges she's been working through that have made getting sexual more challenging than usual.

Overthinking and using labels as a crutch: demisexuality. (1:57)

Trying to get sexy when you have a lot of stress in your life. (10:39)

Sex party takeaways: Squirting in public. Balancing and communicating with your partner, and using orgasms as stress relief. (13:16)

Don’t take anything personally: you never know what’s going on for someone in their own head and life. (20:19)

Likening sex parties to restaurants. If you’re not in the mood to participate, how can you leave the night feeling fulfilled and successful? (23:45)

Thinking for two at a sex party: how can you meet in the middle as a couple so that you’re both satisfied? Being a wingwoman/wingman for your partner so that you’re both fulfilled by the experience. (28:46)

Turning the conversation sexual: Getting turned on by talking about fantasies. (32:06)

Rooftop sex story: being attracted to androgyny. Getting out of your head and acting on instincts. (36:00)


The energetic difference when someone is “thirsty” vs when there’s no expectations. A subtle expectation for sex when you’re at a sex party. (39:37)

Oversaturation with sex parties leading to numbness. (41:41)

How to work through the feelings when the dynamics change in your polycule. When solo female unicorns leave the lifestyle when they find a monogamous partner. (45:31)

Setting intentions for upcoming events. (57:20)

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Elle had her baby! In this episode, she shares all the intimate details about how she and her husband, M, used natural sexual tactics to induce labor, and how they got back to being sexual after six weeks of healing.

How to induce labor with sex: nipple play, penetrative sex, nipple clamps, orgasms and Braxton Hicks. (3:07)

What is labor pain like? Comparing contractions to DVP, speculum spreading, fisting, anal discomfort: breathing through discomfort, and thinking of words as spells. (11:04)

Post-baby vagina: "the husband stitch", and does it look different? Is it loose? (17:31)

Postpartum sex: how long does it take to get back to sex after having a baby? Getting over the fear of having an orgasm. How to get comfortable with penetration again. The first orgasm after six weeks of vaginal healing. (20:43)

Scheduling sex when you have a newborn. (28:09)

Breast milk play: Breastfeeding and nipple play. Tasting breast milk and squirting it during blow jobs. (28:41)

Being in the open lifestyle and parenthood: confidence issues with postpartum body. Diving back into sex parties and ENM (ethical non-monogamy) after having a child. (35:40)

Maintaining your sex life with a baby around. How having a short timeline can be hot! (38:34)

Major takeaways from giving birth and getting back to sex: Prioritizing sex to reignite sexuality in your relationship postpartum. Falling in love with your partner again. (42:01)

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