A short pep talk + book recommendation for all my recovering people-pleasers!

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After a brief personal update, I talk about idolization: how it harms our relationships, our communities, and each other, as well as practices to push back against it, practices that are rooted in reciprocal relationships and community care. This episode is based on my zine, Not Your Idol.

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In this episode, I share some exciting news about how this podcast is expanding & transforming, inviting you to be a part of the process.

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I do a short & sweet collective reading on the themes for July, including how to work with them, as well as sharing some affirmations for Survivors.

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A short & sweet anti-pep talk about loneliness, trauma, and healing.

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In this episode, I share a self-care plan template and talk through filling mine out alongside you.

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In this affirming, validating, and fiery episode, I talk about how we conflate both conflict + abuse with drama and how this is dismissive, misleading, and harmful to trauma survivors; some questions to ask ourselves regarding "drama"; and ultimately, how people don't want to believe survivors. I also share some of my personal experiences with this topic.

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In this episode, I share affirmations about being disabled from my zine, "Affirmations for Disabled Babes: Anti-Ableist Affirmations for Radical Self-Love."

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