Welcome to Episode 102 of The Integrated Man Project! In this episode, host Travis Goodman sits down with Cory Jenks, a pharmacist, improv comedian, author, and father of three. Together, they dive into the profound impacts of breath work, radical acceptance, and emotional regulation in parenting. Cory shares candid stories about the challenges of fatherhood, such as unmet expectations and managing stress, emphasizing the importance of humor and practical advice in parenting literature.

You'll hear about Cory's new book, “I Guess I'm a Dad Now, A Humorous Handbook for Newish Dads Who Don't Want to Suck,” aimed at providing dads with relatable and amusing guidance. This episode explores the often overlooked emotional journeys of fathers, breaking negative cycles, and the crucial role of community and support networks. Whether you’re a new dad, experienced parent, or simply interested in emotional growth and self-reflection, this conversation is sure to offer valuable insights and heartfelt moments. Plus, stay tuned for an exclusive peek into our membership community designed to support your journey as an integrated man. Tune in and get ready to be informed, inspired, and entertained!

HIGHLIGHTS

1. **Breath Work and Emotional Regulation:**

Cory and I delve into the benefits of breath work in controlling emotions and the critical need to be aware of one's nervous system state. Cory shares his personal experiences of realizing the need to pause when he becomes snappy and impatient, often during stressful periods like bedtime routines or meeting deadlines.

2. **Radical Acceptance and Managing Expectations:**

We discuss the concept of radical acceptance—embracing reality without resistance. Cory provides compelling examples, such as handling the frustration of his kids getting sick and disrupting plans, and how he's learned to find joy in unexpected moments.

3. **Humor in Parenting:**

Cory emphasizes the significance of humor for dads in parenting, making the process more enjoyable and less daunting. He found that traditional parental literature was often dry, leading him to gear his own writing towards making dads laugh while providing practical advice.

How do you practice radical acceptance in your daily life, particularly when facing unexpected challenges with your kids or other responsibilities? What strategies help you manage those emotions and refocus on the positive moments?

Looking forward to your insights! See you in the episode!

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Welcome to another enlightening episode of The Integrated Man Project! Today, we dive deep into the transformative realm of mental health with our special guest, Brad Mosell.

Brad Mosell is the CEO of Dharma Dr, a groundbreaking company based in Boise, Idaho, dedicated to making bilateral stimulation accessible to anyone, anytime, anywhere. Brad's journey through personal struggle led him to discover the therapeutic potential of EMDR and bilateral stimulation. Fueled by a passion for making healing tools available in nonclinical settings and resource-scarce areas, he developed the innovative "Tabs" device, which integrates Eastern meditation practices with Western psychological techniques.

HIGHLIGHTS:

1. **Integration and Healing:** Brad Mosell shares his insights on the pursuit of integration, as opposed to balance, and how bilateral stimulation through EMDR has been pivotal in both his personal and professional life.

2. **Dharma Dr Tabs:** Travis and Brad delve into the design and functionality of the Dharma Dr device, including its wireless, user-friendly "Tabs" and the connectivity options through its accompanying app.

3. **Accessibility and Impact:** The conversation highlights the importance of making mental health tools more accessible. Brad emphasizes the potential applications of the device for various populations, including students, first responders, and individuals with PTSD, and the effort to reduce the barriers to mental health care.

How can mental health practitioners and innovators like Brad Mosell ensure that tools for bilateral stimulation and EMDR are both accessible and effectively integrated into various nonclinical settings to reach a broader audience, especially in resource-scarce areas?

Join us as we unpack the healing power of bilateral stimulation, the compassionate design of the Dharma Dr Tabs, and the mission to make mental health tools more user-friendly and readily available.

Plus, Brad gives listeners an exclusive discount code for their first purchase on dharmadr.com. Whether you're a mental health professional or someone seeking inner peace, this episode is brimming with insights and practical solutions to help you on your journey. Tune in and transform with us!

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Welcome to the 100th episode of The Integrated Man Project! In this milestone episode our host, Travis Goodman, leads an honest and heartfelt discussion with an incredible lineup of guests—Jon Fogel, Shaun Frey, Sam Powers, Kimmy Wolf, Matt Englar-Carlson, and Nate Feathers.

Together, they dive deep into the raw and real challenges of parenthood, exploring the complexities of controlling emotions, the societal pressures of modern-day parenting, and the essential journey of self-compassion. From personal anecdotes about generational healing and learning from past mistakes to actionable strategies like anti-inflammatory diets, running, and circular breathing, this episode is packed with wisdom and authenticity.

Hear stories of growth, the evolution of fatherhood, and the importance of cherishing every moment with our children. Tune in as we reflect on the past 100 episodes, celebrate the connections forged, and look ahead to the ongoing adventure of becoming integrated men and better parents. Get ready for an episode filled with laughter, vulnerability, and profound insights that remind us all of the shared journey of growth and connection in fatherhood.

KEY POINTS & HIGHLIGHTS:

1. **Emotional Awareness and Strategies:** Travis opens up about the challenges of controlling his emotions and its impact on his children. The guests share various techniques like circular breathing, running, and yoga to maintain calm and model healthy behavior for their kids.

2. **Authenticity in Parenting:** The conversation delves into the theme of vulnerability and authenticity. Jon Fogel appreciates Travis’s genuine honesty, contrasting it with curated vulnerability seen on social media. The group discusses the pressures and the importance of being real and present.

3. **Lessons from Fatherhood:** Reflections on how fatherhood has enriched their lives—Sam Powers speaks about how experiences of loss have deepened his appreciation, while Nate Feathers emphasizes cherishing every moment to avoid future regrets.

CHALLENGE QUESTION:

Fatherhood is a journey full of highs and lows. Reflect on a moment where you felt you didn’t meet your own parenting expectations. How did you handle that feeling, and what did you do to learn and grow from the experience?

Let's get into it and explore the intricate, beautiful mess that is fatherhood!

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Welcome to another enlightening episode of The Integrated Man Project! Today, your host Travis Goodman sits down with fitness coach and Instagram sensation Steve Lutsk. In this episode, they dive deep into the journey of enhancing physical fitness, mental health, and setting sustainable goals for lasting change. Steve opens up about his own challenges with anxiety and the pressures of rebranding, while Travis shares insights on the power of positive thinking and visualization.

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Steve is a dedicated fitness coach who specializes in helping busy men incorporate fitness and mental health practices into their daily lives. With a focus on long-term sustainable change, Steve integrates physical, mental, and emotional health to promote overall well-being.

HIGHLIGHTS:

1. **Slow and Steady Habit Change**: Steve Lutsk discusses the importance of small, gradual changes in habits over time to achieve significant results in physical fitness, mindset, and goal setting. The analogy of a ship's trajectory highlights how minor adjustments can lead to major consequences over time.

2. **Impact of Positive Thinking**: The episode dives into how positive visualization and gratitude journaling can significantly reduce anxiety and improve mental health. Steve and Travis discuss the concept of manifesting desires and its alignment with trauma therapy, emphasizing the mind's inability to distinguish between real and imagined scenarios.

3. **Quick-Fix Diets vs. Sustainable Habits**: Steve and Travis talk about the prevalence of quick-fix diets like keto and intermittent fasting, pointing out their limitations and the challenges of maintaining them. They stress the importance of embracing wholesome dietary habits that are consistent and effective over the long term.

CHALLENGE QUESTION:

Think about one small habit you can change today that will lead to significant improvements in your life over the next six months. What is it, and how can you start implementing it gradually?

Can't wait for you all to hear this episode! Tune in and let us know your thoughts.

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Welcome back to another episode of The Integrated Man Project! In today's conversation, our host, Travis Goodman, sits down with Tyler Schmoker to discuss the fascinating journey from military life to entrepreneurship and personal growth. Tyler, who grew up on a rural farm in North Dakota and served 21 years in the Army, shares his transition to paramilitary work, corporate security, and eventually founding his consultancy company, Winsly.

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Together, they delve into the profound impact of gardening, which Tyler describes as "active mindfulness," likening it to the iterative nature of business management and its role in fostering patience and long-term thinking. They explore how this meditative practice has enriched Tyler’s social and internal worlds, shifting his priorities and helping him manage PTSD.

Tyler and Travis also dive into the importance of tactile experiences in our digital age, the societal pressures of extreme achievements, and integrating holistic practices to find balance. They chat about military culture, the challenges of transitioning to civilian life, and the importance of traditional and nontraditional therapies for veterans.

As the episode unfolds, you'll hear about their musical preferences, light-hearted banter, and the joy of simple, grounding activities, whether it's listening to vinyl records or sitting by a fire.

In what ways can you integrate new activities into your daily life to manage stress and improve your overall well-being without expecting immediate benefits?

Stay tuned, and let's dive deep into today's enlightening conversation with Tyler Schmoker!

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Hey everybody - Travis here - today I am excited to have this guest on - they are doing amazing things and I am really looking forward to diving into this week's topic!

Johnny Eastman, known to many as "thetattooedhusband" on Instagram, is an executive-level ICF-certified coach and a content creator with a remarkable knack for motivational coffee videos that have garnered millions of views. Johnny works with Convene, creating peer groups for Christian business leaders. He is also a fitness enthusiast and a devoted advocate for integrating faith, values, and holistic well-being into professional and personal life.

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** Keypoints and Highlights:**

1. **Johnny's Popular Coffee Videos:** Johnny’s unique coffee videos, which reveal positive messages when cream is added, have gone viral with 78 million views. Despite facing backlash, he has received countless encouraging messages that fuel his passion.

2. **Personal Growth and Accountability:** Johnny discusses the profound impact of joining a CrossFit gym on both his mental and physical health, highlighting the value of being part of a supportive community. He shares how this grounding experience provides a much-needed break for his brain and helps him make better decisions in business.

3. **Transformative Relationships:** Johnny opens up about his significant personal growth, shifting from a victim mentality to taking responsibility for his actions. A vivid example of this growth is his healing conversation with his father, which transformed their relationship dynamics and exemplifies the generational impact of open communication.

**Challenge Question:** In your own life, who can you reach out to for support and accountability to help you grow personally and professionally? How can you take responsibility and open up communication to improve a challenging relationship?

Tune in to hear more about Johnny's incredible journey and how the integration of faith, community, and personal responsibility can lead to a meaningful and balanced life!

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Hey everybody - Travis here - today I am excited to dive into a foundational concept in psychology that's pivotal for personal growth and relationships - Attachment Theory! While we don't have a guest on today's episode, I will guide you through this enriching topic.

In this episode, we're going to explore some fundamental areas:

1. **Origins and Founders of Attachment Theory**: We delve into the mid-20th century work of British psychologist John Bowlby, often regarded as the father of attachment theory. Bowlby focused on the bond between the child and caregiver and how these early relationships impact emotional and psychological development throughout one's life. Plus, we'll discuss how Mary Ainsworth expanded on Bowlby's work with her famous Strange Situation experiment, which classified different attachment styles.

2. **Types of Attachment Styles**: Understanding the four primary attachment styles - Secure, Anxious-Preoccupied, Dismissive-Avoidant, and Fearful-Avoidant (Disorganized) - and how each style manifests in relationships and personal behavior. We'll also touch on how these styles influence conflict resolution and mental well-being.

3. **Impact on Relationships and Mental Health**: How your attachment style affects your interactions, conflict management, and overall mental health. Securely attached individuals tend to have better stress management and healthier conflict resolution, while those with insecure attachment styles may struggle more in relationships and mental health scenarios.

Challenge Question: Reflecting on your personal relationships, can you identify any patterns that point to a specific attachment style you may have? How do these patterns influence your interactions and conflict resolutions with loved ones?

So grab a notebook, because you're going to want to take notes as we navigate this complex yet crucial aspect of personal development. And remember, understanding your attachment style can be the first step towards healing, growth, and more fulfilling relationships.

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Hey everyone - Travis here - and today, I'm thrilled to welcome Marcus FIlly to The Integrated Man Project! Marcus is an accomplished health and fitness coach with a rich background in coaching and formal education. After moving away from traditional medical school, Marcus has carved a niche for himself in the health and fitness world, becoming a widely recognized figure on social media platforms like Instagram.

**Key Points and Highlights from the Episode:**

1. **Transition from Medicine to Coaching:** Marcus shares his enlightening journey from aspiring to integrate holistic practices in medicine to finding his true passion in the fitness industry. It's a deep dive into pursuing what truly fulfills you, even if that means a drastic career change.

2. **Impact of Social Narratives:** We explore how the stories we tell ourselves can shape our motivations and fears. Marcus personal anecdote about shifting from being driven to feeling weighed down by anxiety underscores the power of internal narratives.

3. **Holistic Health and Balance:** A significant part of our discussion focuses on the importance of incorporating mental, physical, spiritual, and social health into our lives. Marcus talks about his own experiences with therapy and self-improvement, and how these have profoundly impacted his relationships and personal growth.

**Challenge Question:**

How can we better recognize when societal pressures and personal narratives are holding us back, and what proactive steps can we take to rewrite those narratives for a healthier mindset?

Stay tuned as we unpack these topics and much more with Marcus Filly on this impactful episode of The Integrated Man Project!

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