Send us a Text Message.

In this episode of LDS Missionary Moms, Michelle Evans tackles a profoundly challenging and sensitive topic: how to support your missionary if they decide to come home early due to a loss of faith. I provide insights and practical advice on navigating this difficult situation with love, empathy, and understanding. From recognizing the emotional turmoil and identity crisis your missionary might face to offering compassionate communication and practical support, this episode is a comprehensive guide for parents dealing with this unique challenge.

Key Takeaways:

1. Understanding the Situation:
   • Emotional turmoil and identity crisis your missionary might experience.
   • Impact on family dynamics and community reactions.
2. Communicating with Compassion:
   • Active listening and validating emotions.
   • Avoiding judgment and expressing unconditional love.
   • Asking open-ended questions and being patient.
3. Providing Practical Support:
   • Creating a welcoming home environment.
   • Assisting in reintegration into daily life.
   • Seeking professional help and staying informed about faith transitions.
   • Respecting boundaries and encouraging new supportive communities.
4. Managing Your Own Emotions:
   • Acknowledging and expressing your feelings.
   • Seeking support and practicing self-care.
   • Maintaining your faith and focusing on the positive.

Share your missionary stories where you agree to allow me to share them:
michellesevans.coach@gmail.com

Missionary Mom Journal: https://www.amazon.com/Missionary-Mom-Chronicles-Michelle-Evans/dp/B0CFZ9GZS8/ref=sr_1_4?crid=2FMSPY3SBZMDG&keywords=missionary+mom+journal&qid=1704483351&sprefix=missionary+mom+journa%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-4

Trying to decide if working with me would be a good idea? Sign up for a free one-hour consultation: https://calendly.com/michellesevans-coach/missionary-mom

Follow me on social media:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/michelle_evans.life/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082926154445

Send us a Text Message.

In this episode of LDS Missionary Moms, host Michelle Evans shares a personal update on the visa process for her son, who is preparing to serve in Zimbabwe. Michelle then welcomes her sister, Damara Simmons, to discuss a significant and often challenging topic: when a missionary comes home early. Damara recounts her unique experience with her second son, who returned home early from his mission due to severe health issues.

Damaris shares:

• The timeline of events leading up to her son's early return.
• The emotional and mental journey she experienced as a mother.
• How she and her family navigated the sudden change and supported her son.
• The importance of leading with grace, love, and understanding.
• How they celebrated his return and the impact it had on him.
• Insights into dealing with judgment and maintaining a supportive environment.

Michelle and Damara also discuss the broader cultural shift within the church regarding early returns, especially post-COVID, and the importance of dispelling the associated stigma.

Share your missionary stories where you agree to allow me to share them:
michellesevans.coach@gmail.com

Missionary Mom Journal: https://www.amazon.com/Missionary-Mom-Chronicles-Michelle-Evans/dp/B0CFZ9GZS8/ref=sr_1_4?crid=2FMSPY3SBZMDG&keywords=missionary+mom+journal&qid=1704483351&sprefix=missionary+mom+journa%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-4

Trying to decide if working with me would be a good idea? Sign up for a free one-hour consultation: https://calendly.com/michellesevans-coach/missionary-mom

Follow me on social media:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/michelle_evans.life/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082926154445

Send us a Text Message.

• Preparing Emotionally: Acknowledge the mixed emotions you'll feel. It's normal to be both excited and sad. Understand that sending your missionary off for 18 or 24 months can be counterintuitive to your mothering instincts. Allow yourself to feel these emotions and support your missionary through their own feelings of excitement and nervousness.
• Practical Preparation: Create a checklist of items to pack, including clothing, personal care items, and important documents. Complete last-minute tasks and errands to reduce stress. Being organized can help make the day smoother.
• MTC Drop-Off: The drop-off process at the MTC is usually quick and efficient. Make the most of your limited time by preparing some final words of encouragement and love. Take a few moments to create lasting memories with photos and recording your thoughts and emotions afterward.
• Airport Drop-Off: This experience is different but equally emotional. Navigate the check-in process, security, and final goodbye at the gate with preparation and calmness. Remember that your missionary will be without a cell phone, which can feel untethering. Stay positive and offer words of support.
• Trusting the Journey: Reflect on the importance of trusting God and the positive aspects of the missionary journey. Consider the thoughts your brain serves you and work on replacing unhelpful thoughts with empowering ones. Focus on the growth and experiences your missionary will have.

Final Thoughts: Prepare for the drop-off both emotionally and practically. Whether you're heading to the MTC or the airport, knowing what to expect can help make the experience smoother. Focus on making the most of your time, offering encouragement, and creating positive memories. Remember that this is a significant moment for both you and your missionary.

Thank you so much for listening to the LDS Missionary Mom Podcast. If you have any stories or experiences you'd like to share, please email me. I would love to hear from you and share your stories in a future episode. Until next time, keep supporting your missionary with love. Bye-bye!

Share your missionary stories where you agree to allow me to share them:
michellesevans.coach@gmail.com

Missionary Mom Journal: https://www.amazon.com/Missionary-Mom-Chronicles-Michelle-Evans/dp/B0CFZ9GZS8/ref=sr_1_4?crid=2FMSPY3SBZMDG&keywords=missionary+mom+journal&qid=1704483351&sprefix=missionary+mom+journa%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-4

Trying to decide if working with me would be a good idea? Sign up for a free one-hour consultation: https://calendly.com/michellesevans-coach/missionary-mom

Follow me on social media:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/michelle_evans.life/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082926154445