Are you ready to break the chains of self-doubt and rediscover trust within yourself?

Embark on a journey with us as we dig deep into the roots of self-trust, how it shapes our relationships with others and how a lack of it can drive our lives towards constant fear and suspicion. We discuss the troubling trend of distrust within the western male and how, by embracing vulnerability, we can start the transformative journey towards a culture of trust.

We believe that trust is the essence of life, taking inspiration from the boundless trust that newborn babies display. Unfortunately, as we grow, we often lose that innate sense of trust, largely due to societal conditioning around fear and lack. Join us as we delve into how we lose trust in ourselves, the profound impact of this on our ability to love and trust others, and how a scarcity mindset can further exacerbate this issue.

In the latter part of our conversation, we turn the spotlight on self-love and self-trust, crucial ingredients for living authentically. We discuss how fear and self-loathing can blind us from our own actions, leading to a lack of trust in ourselves. We argue that self-respect and self-love are the keys to rekindling trust and recognizing our unique abilities. As we conclude, we touch upon how childhood experiences and the role of religion shape our trust mould, and how breaking free from old stories can help us regain self-trust, paving the way towards a fulfilling life. Tune in for an enriching discussion that will change the way you perceive trust.

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Can one word hold the power to transform relationships and shape our lives? In our thought-provoking conversation, we explore the profound influence of the word 'Mother' and the intricate bond it signifies. We journey into the core of the mother-child relationship, delving into its complexities and its empowerment, while also unraveling its potential to confine us. Through personal stories, literature, and shared experiences, we shed light on the power of this primal bond and its profound influence on our decisions and relationships.

We reflect on the transformative power of letting go, of breaking the cycle of over-dependency, and of fostering a balanced and respectful connection with our mothers. We offer practical advice on establishing a mature relationship with the maternal figure in our lives. We discuss the delicate act of reimagining this relationship, not just as a mother-child bond but as an adult friendship. Our conversation aims to inspire you to navigate your relationship with your mother and create a fulfilling and independent life. Tune in for an episode packed with insights, reflections, and advice.

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Are you constantly juggling between decisions made by the heart and those by the mind?

Well, Carlos and I are here to open up this Pandora's box of the mind-heart conflict. We uncover the implications of being too dependent on either emotions or logic, and how a balanced amalgamation of both is crucial for sound decision-making.

Do you trust your intuition? We share our thoughts on the all-important role of intuition, especially in decisions involving people. This episode unearths the three-cornered relationship between instinct, intelligence, and intuition in decision-making.

We challenge the oft-held belief that our education system is primarily intellect-centric, and lay emphasis on trusting our intuition. Drawing parallels from the success stories of giants like Apple, Amazon, and Elon Musk, we demonstrate how intuition has often been the driving force behind their pioneering decisions.

How much weightage do you give to emotions when deciding? Carlos and I broach the subject of emotional decision-making, debunking the stereotype that men are less emotional than women. We delve into the hazards of disregarding emotions in our decisions, and how our quest for happiness is intrinsically linked to our emotional state. Wrapping up, we provide insights into how you can reconnect with your inner truth, listen to your intuition, and make emotionally valid decisions, not just in personal life, but in the business world too. So tune in, and let's explore the universe within us!

0:00: The Battle Between Heart and Mind

6:27: Trusting Intuition in Decision-Making

19:33: Emotions in Decision Making

29:22: Emotions and Decision Making

40:22: The Importance of Emotional Decision Making

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Picture this: you're on a journey to discover who you truly are, navigating through life's lonely moments. It's not a journey you've chosen, but it's one you're on nonetheless. The echoes of solitude can be daunting, but what if there's more to it than meets the eye? This episode is a deep exploration into the profound themes of loneliness, self-love, and self-discovery. We unpack our fears and misconceptions about being alone, revealing how solitude can be a catalyst for immense personal growth.

How many times have you felt swayed by societal norms, conforming to expectations that don't align with who you truly are? We've all been there. Through our comprehensive analysis, we delve into the power of self-love and the remarkable transformation it can trigger in our lives. We free ourselves from the shackles of unmet expectations, crafting a confident and self-assured persona that attracts the right people. We also delve into some of life's inevitable solitary moments and discuss how to successfully navigate them on our terms.

As we near the end of our enlightening chat, we shift our focus towards the value of solitude in relationships. We examine the potential pitfalls of societal expectations, discussing the courage it takes to choose solitude when necessary. More than just avoiding loneliness, we discuss the importance of honesty with our partners about our need for solitude, and how this can significantly strengthen our relationships. Finally, we unravel the impact of self-discovery on mental health and the opportunities it provides to reconnect with the world, becoming more attractive to others. Join us on this empowering journey of self-discovery, let's embrace solitude, and learn to love ourselves a little bit more.

7:54: Self-Love and Overcoming Loneliness
24:45: Loneliness and Self-Understanding in Relationships
40:52: Loneliness, Self-Discovery, and Mental Health

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You know those days when you look in the mirror and struggle to recognize the person staring back? That's a place where we have been more times than we'd like to admit. But it's the unflinching confrontation of these moments that have brought us to the unique crossroads of self-worth and addiction, a junction that many of us explore in furtive silence. We challenge that silence in this episode, shedding light on the myriad ways addiction can manifest, the critical need for better education, and the power of facing our personal demons head-on.

We've all got that one bad habit or relationship that we just can't shake off. And let’s be honest, stepping back and making the conscious decision to cut ties can be a daunting task. In this journey of personal growth, we discuss the importance of creating room for self-reflection. It's not just about making hard decisions, but also about embracing vulnerability and reigniting our passions. It's about asking ourselves the big questions and finding the courage to face the answers.

Addiction is not just substance use, it's all those toxic habits that we find hard to let go. We shed light on this battle, emphasizing that it's not about winning or losing, but about understanding, confronting, and voicing our struggles. We focus on the value of communication and listener feedback, suggesting that it's not about having all the answers, but about asking the right questions. So, join us, as we navigate this often uncharted journey of healing, growth, and self-discovery. Let's confront our demons together, with honesty, vulnerability, and an open mind.

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Ever looked in the mirror and felt a disconnect between the person staring back and the individual within? You're not alone. Join Carlos and Olivier for an episode filled with introspection and self-discovery. We'll lay bare the seldom discussed topic of self-image, unraveling how it influences daily decisions, from clothing choices to demeanor. We'll explore why some of us, particularly men, cloak ourselves in the safety of neutral colors like black, attempting to mask our true selves. Don't miss as we emphasize the power and significance of authenticity, and the confidence it brings when we show up in the world as our genuine selves.

Ever been your own harshest critic? We've all been there. Today, we shine a light on the struggle with image and authenticity and how judgment and fear can smother our self-esteem and spark up depression. We'll delve into how men often construct barriers through their style, demeanor, and actions, concealing their true feelings. We passionately believe that the most potent tool in our arsenal is authenticity, and we'll guide you on ways to embrace it.

Who's in control? You or your ego? In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the complex role the ego plays in self-perception, how it fuels our anxiety and drives us to seek validation. We're here to help you regain control, nurturing a healthy relationship with your ego. Finally, we'll confront the disconnection between self-image and the persona we display to the world. Join us as we peel back the layers, revealing the authentic person beneath the suits and ties. We welcome your thoughts, questions, and ideas for future episodes because, together, we can chart this journey of self-discovery.

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Ready to challenge everything you thought you knew about winning? Imagine a world where winning at all costs isn't the ultimate goal. That's the rabbit hole we're heading down in this episode. We'll explore the dark side of our fixation with success and investigate how a win-at-all-cost mentality can affect relationships, emotional health, and even our sense of self.

From the playground to the boardroom, we're often encouraged to play a game that's not ours, a transactional one where the fear of losing overrides our authenticity. But what if we turned the tables and started playing our own game instead? We delve into how playing your own game, free from societal expectations, can lead to unparalleled success.

We consider the importance of appreciation, reflection, and truly listening to one another. How often do we sacrifice meaningful connections on the altar of competition? It's time to reassess what winning truly means.

Join us as we unearth the dangerous repercussions of a competitive culture and explore how we can redefine what playing and winning should be about.

This thought-provoking, conversational journey promises to challenge your perceptions and maybe even change the way you play the game of life.

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How can we truly give love to others if we don't have it for ourselves? In this episode, we peel back the layers of self-love and explore the baggage that often comes with it. We share personal experiences and discuss the way corporate culture can make it difficult to seek love and advice in the workplace.

Join us as we examine the impact of self-love - or lack thereof - on our relationships and the love we give to others. Discover the importance of self-judgment and how it can help us learn to truly love ourselves. We also delve into the power of mindfulness and self-care, providing practical tips on cultivating self-love and reclaiming our mental garden.

Tune in for an enlightening conversation on the importance of self-love for a fulfilling life, and how deserving to be loved and happy is not entitlement, but rather a rule of nature.

You'll also gain access to a downloadable PDF with steps for the self-love exercise we discuss in this episode, helping you on your journey to a happier, healthier you.

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