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  • Ep #198: Understanding and Addressing Low Sexual Desire
    Aug 12 2024

    Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're diving into a topic that affects many couples: low sexual desire. Whether you're experiencing this yourself or supporting a partner through it, this episode is for you.

    In this candid discussion, you'll discover:
    • The surprising physical factors that can impact your libido, from hormones to medications
    • How past traumas and stress can affect your sex drive (and what to do about it)
    • The crucial link between emotional connection and sexual desire in long-term relationships
    • Common misconceptions about low libido and how to address them effectively
    • Practical strategies to reignite the spark and create a thriving, passionate connection

    Remember, low sexual desire is a common challenge, but it doesn't have to strain your relationship. Join me as we explore compassionate, effective ways to understand and address this issue. Whether you're looking to boost your own libido or support your partner, this episode offers valuable insights for creating a more fulfilling love life. Tune in now and take the first step towards rekindling your passion!

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    Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

    You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

    • Secrets to a Sexy Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets
    • 10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist
    • 7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM
    • 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs
    • Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlife

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  • Ep #197 How Trauma Can Affect Your Intimate Relationship
    Aug 5 2024

    Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we dive deep into how trauma can affect your intimate relationships and what you can do to heal and build stronger connections.

    • Understand Trauma's Impact: Learn how different types of trauma can influence intimacy and trust in your relationship.
    • Healing Techniques: Discover effective methods like EMDR therapy to process and overcome past traumas.
    • Enhance Communication: Get tips on how to communicate openly and honestly with your partner to strengthen your bond.
    • Self-Care and Boundaries: Find out how to practice self-care and set healthy boundaries for a more fulfilling sexual relationship.

    This episode is packed with my experience working with thousands of couples and offers valuable insights that can transform your love life. Don't miss out—tune in now to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity."

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    Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

    Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

    You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

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    How most people deal with trauma won’t help you heal and have the life you want.

    Todd has created a guide…the 5 Keys to Healing From Trauma. Follow these 5 simple steps that will help you go from surviving to thriving.

    👉 Get it here: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-5-keys-to-healing-from-trauma

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  • Ep #196: Healing After Infidelity - A Path to Rebuilding Your Relationship
    Jul 29 2024

    Welcome to a profoundly insightful episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," hosted by me, Todd Creager. Infidelity can shatter the foundations of the strongest relationships, leaving behind a trail of doubt, hurt, and mistrust. However, it's not the end of the road.

    In this episode, we delve deep into the heartache and, more importantly, the healing journey of couples who have navigated the tumultuous aftermath of infidelity. Join me as we explore not just the possibility of surviving infidelity but thriving beyond it.

    In this episode, you'll discover:

    • Hope in Numbers: Learn about the encouraging statistics from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and how therapy has helped couples mend their relationships post-infidelity.
    • Success Stories: Be inspired by real-life examples of couples who have turned their moments of betrayal into opportunities for deep, meaningful connection and growth within their relationship.
    • Healing from the Inside Out: Understand why infidelity doesn't just happen and how addressing the root causes from a place of empathy and understanding can pave the way for genuine healing.
    • Strategies for Rebuilding Trust: Discover actionable strategies that have helped couples rebuild trust, enhance communication, and rekindle intimacy after the breach of infidelity.
    • The Role of Personal Growth: Find out how individual growth and self-awareness are key components in the journey toward healing, for both the partner who strayed and the one who was betrayed.

    Why You Should Listen

    Infidelity is undoubtedly one of the most challenging obstacles a relationship can face, yet it doesn't have to signify an end. This episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" shines a light on the paths to reconciliation, healing, and ultimately, a stronger bond between partners. Whether you're seeking solace, understanding, or ways to rebuild after infidelity, this episode offers hope, insights, and practical advice on navigating this difficult journey.

    Don't let the pain of the past dictate the future of your relationship. Tune in to this episode and take the first step towards healing and rediscovery. Your love story isn't over; it's just beginning a new chapter.

    Listen to the episode now and rediscover the strength of love in the face of adversity.

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  • Ep #195: From Pain to Passion: Restoring Sexual Intimacy Post-Infidelity
    Jul 22 2024

    Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager, and today, we're diving deep into the tender yet tumultuous waters of restoring sexual intimacy after the storm of infidelity has hit. It’s a sensitive, complex topic, and whether you’ve experienced this personally or know someone who has, this episode is crafted to shed light on the path to healing and reconnection.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • Understanding the Impact: Learn how betrayal can vary widely in its impact on intimacy from one couple to another, affecting desires and sexual dynamics in profoundly different ways.
    • Navigating Emotional Turbulence: I’ll share strategies on how to handle the immediate emotional aftermath of discovering an affair, including the natural tendencies toward shutdown and heightened anxiety.
    • Restoring Trust and Intimacy: Gain insights into the gradual process of rebuilding trust, with practical steps for both the betrayed and the betrayer to find their way back to a secure, intimate connection.
    • Healing Together: We’ll explore the importance of facing the pain together, processing the betrayal, and making the relationship a safe space for both partners again.
    • Building a Fulfilling Sexual Relationship Post-Infidelity: Find out how couples can eventually enjoy a rejuvenated sexual relationship by addressing the underlying emotional wounds and fostering honest communication.

    Summary:
    Restoring sexual intimacy after infidelity is no small feat; it requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to explore the depths of both pain and passion. This episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" will not only help you understand these dynamics but also provide you with the tools and confidence to start healing. Whether you’re directly impacted by infidelity or are supporting someone through such a journey, there’s something valuable for you here.

    Why listen to this podcast episode?
    The journey through repairing a relationship after infidelity is complex and deeply personal. With empathy, expertise, and practical advice, this episode will guide you through the necessary steps to not only restore intimacy but to also rediscover it, perhaps even more deeply than before. Join me, Todd Creager, as we navigate these challenging but ultimately rewarding waters together. Let’s heal, learn, and grow together. Listen now to begin the journey back to love and intimacy.

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  • Ep #194: Causes of a Sexless Marriage: Understanding the Underlying Factors
    Jul 15 2024

    Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we're diving deep into a topic that affects many relationships – the causes of a sexless marriage and how to rekindle the passion.

    • Understand the Impact of Stress: Learn how everyday stressors can drain your intimacy and discover practical ways to manage them.
    • Address Medical Concerns: Find out how common medical issues might be affecting your sex life and what you can do about it.
    • Reconnect Emotionally: Discover how to build a deeper emotional connection with your partner that naturally enhances physical intimacy.
    • Resolve Lingering Conflicts: Get strategies to tackle unresolved conflicts that may be creating barriers in your relationship.
    • Revitalize Your Love Life: Gain practical tips to bring excitement and passion back into your relationship.

    This episode is packed with valuable insights that can transform your love life. Don't miss out—tune in now to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity."

    Listen in and Jjoin me in exploring these key factors and practical solutions. Listen now to uncover how you can bring the spark back to your relationship!

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  • Ep #193: Beyond Basics: Deepening The Commitment in Your Relationship
    Jul 8 2024

    Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we're exploring the deeper dimensions of commitment in relationships and how you can take your bond to the next level.

    • Understand the True Essence of Commitment: Discover what real commitment means beyond just staying together, and how it involves emotional and personal growth.
    • Stay Connected Under Stress: Learn powerful techniques to maintain a strong connection with your partner, even during the most challenging times.
    • Practical Tips for Daily Life: Find out how small, practical changes can significantly enhance your relationship and make your home life flow more smoothly.
    • Balance Individual and Relationship Needs: Uncover the secrets to balancing your personal needs with the needs of your relationship for a harmonious and fulfilling partnership.

    This episode is filled with actionable insights and heartfelt advice that can truly transform your relationship. Join me on this journey to deepen your commitment and strengthen your bond. Don't miss out—tune in now to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity."


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    Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

    You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

    HELPFUL LINKS:

    💜 Rekindle those passionate, sexy feelings you both felt when you first met with Todd’s Secrets to a Sexy Marriage guide: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets

    💜 Get Todd’s proven principles that will help you make your marriage work and sustainable for the long haul with his guide: 7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM

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  • Ep #192: Tips for Youthful Skin and Enhanced Intimacy with Lana Kerr
    Jul 1 2024

    Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creger, and today we have an extraordinary episode lined up for you. Joining us is Lana Kerr, the brilliant mind behind Lumisque Skincare and the innovative CO2 Lift Therapy. Together, we delve into the fascinating intersection of skincare and sexual health, exploring how they are more connected than you might think.

    • Discover the Secrets to Youthful Skin: Learn about the groundbreaking CO2 Lift Therapy and how it rejuvenates and revitalizes your skin, giving you a youthful glow.
    • Enhance Your Sexual Health and Intimacy: Understand the importance of blood flow in maintaining sexual wellness and enjoyment for both men and women.
    • Explore Non-Surgical and Surgical Rejuvenation Options: Get insights into the various treatments available for vulva-vaginal health, from non-invasive therapies to surgical procedures.
    • Hear Real-Life Success Stories: Be inspired by the clinical findings and success stories that showcase the effectiveness of CO2 Lift Therapy.
    • Practical Tips for Intimate Well-Being: Gain practical advice on maintaining intimate relationships and enhancing overall quality of life.

    This episode is brimming with valuable information and expert insights that can transform both your skincare routine and intimate life. Don't miss out—tune in now to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" and discover how you can achieve youthful skin and enhanced intimacy.

    Listen now!

    About Lana Kerr:

    Lana Kerr is the Founder and CEO of Lumisque Skincare, established in 2015. She innovated the CO2Lift carboxy gel, which rejuvenates and lifts the skin, reversing signs of aging. Lana also created CO2LiftV for vulva/vaginal rejuvenation, enhancing lubrication and sensitivity.

    Before Lumisque, she founded Your Fatloss Coach, a wellness company offering customized weight loss and detox plans, helping thousands, including celebrities like supermodel Beverly Johnson.

    Lana holds a Bachelor of Science in accounting and business from SUNY Albany and is a certified nutritional consultant and emotional intelligence coach. She has been honored as one of the Top 100 Outstanding Women in Broward and has worked with major corporations and contributed to various community organizations.

    Helpful Links:

    • Learn more about CO2LIFT® and CO2LIFT®V mentioned in this episode here: https://co2lift.com/
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  • Ep #191: Revitalize Your Intimacy: Tips for Great Sex As You Age
    Jun 24 2024

    Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager. Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to maintain a vibrant and fulfilling sex life as you age? In this episode, we’ll explore the secrets to great sex at any age, debunking common myths and offering practical tips to keep your intimacy alive.

    What You’ll Learn:

    • Debunking Myths: Discover the truth about aging and sexuality, and why age doesn’t have to be a barrier to a satisfying sex life.
    • Creative Intimacy: Learn how to keep your intimate life exciting and fulfilling through creativity and adaptation.
    • Mindset Shifts: Understand why focusing on connection over performance can transform your sexual experiences.
    • Health Benefits: Explore the incredible health benefits of maintaining an active sex life, from improved cardiovascular health to enhanced emotional resilience.
    • Overcoming Barriers: Get practical advice on how to overcome emotional barriers and rekindle passion in your relationship.

    In this episode, I share valuable insights and real-life stories that will inspire you to embrace a fulfilling and joyful sex life, no matter your age. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or finding love again later in life, you’ll find practical tips and heartfelt advice to help you keep the spark alive.

    Don’t miss out on this opportunity to transform your intimate life. Click the link below to listen to the full episode and start your journey to great sex as you age!


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    Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

    You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

    LINKS:

    • Rekindle those passionate, sexy feelings you both felt when you first met with Todd’s Secrets to a Sexy Marriage guide: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets
    • 7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM
    • Get Todd’s proven principles that will help you make your marriage work and sustainable for the long haul with his guide: 7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM

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