Episodios

  • Let's Therapy Season 3 Finale: Finding and Living in Hope and Healing
    May 15 2024

    In this season finale episode, Finding and Living in Hope and Healing, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale, expert counselors on blended families and mental health, provide encouragement and practical advice for those navigating the challenges of blended families. They discuss the common feelings of fear and isolation, and they share stories of how blended families can find success when they lean on God and community. This episode is a powerful reminder that you are not alone, and with the right support and mindset, your blended family can thrive.

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    12 m
  • Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families
    May 8 2024

    In this episode of Let's Therapy, Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families, counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the impact of slander in blended families and offer practical advice on how to effectively cope with it. They delve into the damaging effects of negative speech on children and bonus children, the importance of setting boundaries, and more. The hosts also emphasize the vital role of faith and community in overcoming these challenges. This episode provides valuable insights and strategies for anyone navigating the complexities of high-conflict co-parenting situations.

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    17 m
  • Emotional Regulation and Blended Families: Tips for Parents
    May 1 2024

    In this episode of "Let's Therapy," counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the challenges of emotional regulation for children and stepchildren in blended families. They provide practical advice on building trust, validating feelings, modeling healthy emotional responses, and setting clear expectations. They also emphasize the importance of counseling resources, social support, and creating a safe environment for children and stepchildren to express themselves. This episode offers valuable insights for parents and stepparents navigating the unique dynamics of blended families.

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    16 m
  • Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection
    Apr 24 2024

    Dealing with stepchild resentment and rejection in blended families can be one of the most challenging aspects of blended family relationships. In this episode of Let's Therapy, Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection, Scott and Vanessa offer thoughtful insights and practical advice for stepparents on managing difficult emotions related to rejection and resentment and building trust with their stepchildren. They emphasize the importance of empathy, open communication, patience, and keeping your marriage as the top priority. Whether you are a stepparent struggling with rejection or a parent supporting your spouse, this episode provides valuable guidance for strengthening your blended family.

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    19 m
  • Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations: Effective Strategies for Preserving Your Mental Health
    Apr 17 2024

    In this episode of Let's Therapy, Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations, Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the challenging topic of co-parenting in high-conflict situations. They provide practical and insightful strategies for maintaining your mental health, and offer tips for conflict resolution with a co-parent. The discussion centers around active listening, calm communication, collaborative problem-solving, setting boundaries, and more. This episode is a must for anyone navigating the complexities of co-parenting in a high-conflict environment.

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    15 m
  • Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families
    Apr 10 2024

    Feeling overwhelmed in your blended family? In this episode,Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the therapy options for your stepfamily. They provide insights on breaking through stigmas, opening up to emotional healing, and utilizing resources like family therapy, EMDR, couples counseling, and more.

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    14 m
  • Navigating Power Dynamics and Triangulation in a Blended Family
    Apr 3 2024

    Feeling caught in a destructive family triangle? Whether it's biological parents pitting a child against each other or in-laws taking sides, triangulation wedges people apart. In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale define and provide examples of triangulation in blended families. They also offer strategies for coping with these toxic dynamics.

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    12 m
  • Recover Your Autonomy: Dealing with Enmeshment and Emotional Incest in Blended Families
    Mar 27 2024

    In this episode of Let’s Therapy, Scott and Vanessa explore the definitions and signs of enmeshment and emotional incest within blended families. They define this problem from a clinical perspective and discuss how these unhealthy dynamics can deeply impact family relationships. They also offer strategies to break free from these toxic patterns, such as setting appropriate boundaries, respecting autonomy, and creating a healthy environment.

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    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
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    13 m