Ever heard of veto power? It’s that move where you say “nope, not happening” to something your partner wants to do or someone they want to see. But should you actually be using it? We’ll break down why vetoing might not be the best idea for your relationship and give you better options to handle those uncomfortable situations. From finding ways to accept your partner’s choices to talking things out without starting a fight, we’ve got practical tips to help you avoid a power struggle. Plus, we’ll dive into the healthy alternatives when compromise feels impossible.

• What is veto power?
• Why do partners exercise the power of veto?
• Should you ever veto your partner's choices/desires? Here's why it's not always the best idea.
• 3 options to use instead of exercising veto power.
• What does accepting your partner's choice really mean.
• How to tell your partner you don't want them to see someone or do something you're not comfortable with - without causing a fight.
• How to brainstorm alternative solutions to vetos and reach an outcome both partners are happy with.
• The healthy and ethical alternative to veto if you can't find a solution both partners are happy with.

So, you’ve finally got that first Dom and Sub date lined up—exciting, right? But before you dive in, there are some key dos and don’ts you’ve got to know to make sure things go smoothly. We’re talking about how to ask a sub out the right way, when to bring up your kinks without scaring them off, and the difference between taking the lead and coming on too strong. Let's dive in!

• The right way to ask a sub out (get this wrong and you risk ending up on a vanilla date!).
• Taking the lead VS domming: what's the difference?
• What should you talk about on a dom and a sub date?
• When it's the right time to introduce the kink conversation (spoiler: don't open with this!).
• The best question to start the kink conversation with.
• What to ask your date to find out if your kinks are compatible - and most importantly, if they want to explore them with you.
• Should you play on the first date?
• The number one thing to avoid on a first dom and sub date.

Thinking about going to your first sex party but not sure what to expect? We’re diving into everything you need to know before you step into that world. From choosing the right type of party and figuring out what to wear, to understanding the vibe of the crowd (spoiler: it’s not all models and six-packs). It’s all here, so you can walk in feeling confident and ready for a night to remember.

• The different types of sex and kinky parties: which one is right for you?
• What do you wear at a sexy party?
• What kind of crowd can you expect to find at sex parties? (Hint: not everyone has a six pack).
• How to connect with other attendees before the party (especially if you're nervous about going alone).
• Going with your partner? The number one thing to discuss before heading to the party to avoid jealousy and fights.
• All you need to know about consent.
• Should you bring your own toys to the party?
• Is voyeurism allowed at parties?
• Alcohol and drugs policies at sex parties - what you need to know.
• Should you get tested for STDs before attending a sex party?

1. Not sure what to wear? Check out the dress code and inspiration boards shared by the organisers, so you can pick an outfit that'll make you stand out while feeling comfortable in your own skin.
2. Going with a partner? Make sure to chat about your desires, boundaries, and what you both expect, so you can enjoy a night of naughty fun without any drama.
3. Always ask before touching or initiating play with someone. If you break consent, you'll be permanently banned.