Ever heard of veto power? It’s that move where you say “nope, not happening” to something your partner wants to do or someone they want to see. But should you actually be using it? We’ll break down why vetoing might not be the best idea for your relationship and give you better options to handle those uncomfortable situations. From finding ways to accept your partner’s choices to talking things out without starting a fight, we’ve got practical tips to help you avoid a power struggle. Plus, we’ll dive into the healthy alternatives when compromise feels impossible.

• What is veto power?
• Why do partners exercise the power of veto?
• Should you ever veto your partner's choices/desires? Here's why it's not always the best idea.
• 3 options to use instead of exercising veto power.
• What does accepting your partner's choice really mean.
• How to tell your partner you don't want them to see someone or do something you're not comfortable with - without causing a fight.
• How to brainstorm alternative solutions to vetos and reach an outcome both partners are happy with.
• The healthy and ethical alternative to veto if you can't find a solution both partners are happy with.

So, you’ve finally got that first Dom and Sub date lined up—exciting, right? But before you dive in, there are some key dos and don’ts you’ve got to know to make sure things go smoothly. We’re talking about how to ask a sub out the right way, when to bring up your kinks without scaring them off, and the difference between taking the lead and coming on too strong. Let's dive in!

• The right way to ask a sub out (get this wrong and you risk ending up on a vanilla date!).
• Taking the lead VS domming: what's the difference?
• What should you talk about on a dom and a sub date?
• When it's the right time to introduce the kink conversation (spoiler: don't open with this!).
• The best question to start the kink conversation with.
• What to ask your date to find out if your kinks are compatible - and most importantly, if they want to explore them with you.
• Should you play on the first date?
• The number one thing to avoid on a first dom and sub date.

Thinking about going to your first sex party but not sure what to expect? We’re diving into everything you need to know before you step into that world. From choosing the right type of party and figuring out what to wear, to understanding the vibe of the crowd (spoiler: it’s not all models and six-packs). It’s all here, so you can walk in feeling confident and ready for a night to remember.

• The different types of sex and kinky parties: which one is right for you?
• What do you wear at a sexy party?
• What kind of crowd can you expect to find at sex parties? (Hint: not everyone has a six pack).
• How to connect with other attendees before the party (especially if you're nervous about going alone).
• Going with your partner? The number one thing to discuss before heading to the party to avoid jealousy and fights.
• All you need to know about consent.
• Should you bring your own toys to the party?
• Is voyeurism allowed at parties?
• Alcohol and drugs policies at sex parties - what you need to know.
• Should you get tested for STDs before attending a sex party?

1. Not sure what to wear? Check out the dress code and inspiration boards shared by the organisers, so you can pick an outfit that'll make you stand out while feeling comfortable in your own skin.
2. Going with a partner? Make sure to chat about your desires, boundaries, and what you both expect, so you can enjoy a night of naughty fun without any drama.
3. Always ask before touching or initiating play with someone. If you break consent, you'll be permanently banned.

In this episode, we explore how to smoothly transition from social events to romantic connections. How do you find events that are filled with people looking for the same thing you are? What’s the secret to picking up on body language cues that scream “I’m interested!”? Is there a right way to ask for contact details without being awkward?

If you’re curious about how to turn a casual chat into a romantic connection, this episode is for you. Let’s dive into the art of making that transition seamlessly and see how to ask for a date like a pro. Tune in to learn the ins and outs of sparking a romantic connection!

• How to pick the perfect events to meet potential partners who are looking for the same dynamic as you.
• Setting the right intention for the night - do this wrong and you may repel potential partners!
• The right questions to ask to discover if the person you're interested in is open to dating - and what their relationship style is.
• Should you ask for someone's contact details? The body language cues that tell you your potential partner is just as keen as you to connect further.
• When is it the right time to ask for someone's contact details?
• How to ask for a date the right way.

1. Go out to have a good time and meet some cool people. We all hope to find the right partner at these events, but coming on too strong can make people put their guard up and turn them off from getting to know you.
2. Shifting from socializing to dating is more of an art than a science. It's not about having the perfect lines or timing your number request just right. It's about showing real interest in the person you're talking to and building an authentic connection.
3. Be upfront about your intentions when you ask someone out. You might see it as a date, but they could see it as just a friendly meetup.

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In this episode, we’re diving into the world of solo polyamory. Curious about what solo poly actually means and how it differs from being single? We’re breaking it down and sharing what it takes to become solo poly.

Desire shares her experience with solo polyamory and whether it’s everything it’s cracked up to be. We'll chat about why people choose this path and how to handle the loneliness that can sometimes creep in.

Thinking solo poly might be for you? Tune in to learn the number one sign it’s not, and what you can do if you find yourself in that boat. Don't miss out on this deep dive into the nuances of solo polyamory!

• What is solo poly?
• How do you become solo poly?
• Solo poly VS single poly: what's the difference?
• Desire's experience with solo poly: is it all it's cracked up to be?
• Why people choose to practice solo poly?
• The loneliness of solo poly - and how to deal with it.
• Are solo poly people treated fairly by their partners' metamours?
• Being jealous of your partner VS being jealous of a nesting dynamic: what's the difference?
• The number one sign solo poly is not for you - and what to do about it.

• Solo poly individuals prioritize themselves as their main partner and enjoy dating multiple people without the intention of settling down. Being single poly means identifying as polyamorous, even if you're not currently in any romantic relationships.
• Going solo poly gives you a ton of freedom, but it can get lonely. Once the thrill wears off, you might miss having someone to cuddle with every night or share holidays like Christmas.
• Solo poly can happen by choice or by chance. You may genuinely not want to ever settle down with anyone or you may simply not have found the right partner to share your life with yet.

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In this episode, we're diving into the Tribe experiment, exploring why it’s way more than just a sex party—it's a full-on community. Wondering what Tribe is all about and how to get in on their exclusive socials and parties? We've got the lowdown on the crowd, the venues, and, of course, the dress code.

Thinking about joining Tribe? We’ll discuss who it’s for, and you’ll hear Purity’s take on why she’s steering clear, while Desire explains why Tribe is her top pick for sex communities in London right now.

Tune in to get the final verdict on whether Tribe is worth joining. You won't want to miss this one!

• What is Tribe?
• How do you get access to Tribe socials and parties?
• What's the crowd like?
• Where are the socials and parties hosted?
• What do you wear at the Tribe socials and parties?
• Themed parties: how to rock the dress code without breaking the bank.
• Food and drinks: what to expect at the socials and parties?
• Fun games to spice up the night.
• What happens at the Tribe parties?
• Who should join Tribe?
• Purity's experience: why you won't be seeing her at Tribe anytime soon.
• Desire's experience: why Tribe is currently her fave sex community in London.
• The final verdict: is Tribe worth joining?

• The Tribe community is attractive, friendly, and mischievous. If you're easily offended, you won't vibe well with this crowd.
• Tribe parties have cool themes, like Rockstars & Groupies and Welcome To The Jungle. Make an effort to follow the dress code. It makes the night more fun for everyone!
• Guests are strongly encouraged to do a STD test before attending a party. As soon as you arrive, you'll get a wristband. Its colour indicates how recent your last negative test was. It gives everyone peace of mind and encourages shame-free discussions about sexual health.

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In this episode, we’re diving into the world of doms and how to tell the real ones from the fakes. Desire shares her wild experiences and why it’s super important for submissives to find the right match, even if someone seems super attractive at first.

We’ll talk about what makes a dom legit and explore the little differences in how they start the kink conversation. Ever wondered why consent is such a big deal in BDSM, or how to spot when it’s being respected? We’ve got some eye-opening insights.

Curious about what real doms do when planning a scene or providing aftercare? Or how to handle things when they don’t go as planned? Tune in to learn how to find a genuine dom and make sure your experiences are awesome. This episode is packed with tips to help you navigate the kink world with confidence.

• Desire's experience with fake doms.
• What is a fake dom?
• Why submissive should avoid fake doms - even when they really fancy them
• Sign #1: Fake doms tries to dominate you from your first interaction.
• Fake doms VS real doms: how to start the kink conversation.
• Sign #2: Assuming submissive = consent.
• Fake doms VS real doms: how to plan BDSM scenes.
• Sign #3: Fake doms are only interested in his pleasure, not the sub's pleasure.
• Sign #4: Fake doms don't provide aftercare.
• Sign #5: Fake doms get angry when the sub disappoints or doesn't want to obey unconditionally.
• Fake doms VS real doms: How they react when a sub stops the play.

3 VALUE BOMBS

1. Don't assume submissives are down to play with anyone. A sub gets to choose her dom and what she submits to. Always have a conversation about desires and boundaries before play.
2. Being a real dom is about having control. If a dom loses it when a sub doesn’t want to do something or calls it quits, they’re not truly dominant.
3. The difference between a fake and an inexperienced dom? An inexperienced dom is eager to learn and please their subs. A fake dom couldn’t care less about their subs and just wants to get what they want.

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In this episode, we’re tackling a big one: dealing with jealousy in polyamorous relationships. Ever thought you knew what jealousy is? Think again! We’ll break down why we feel it and why it's not always what it seems.

Wondering if all ENM folks feel that warm, fuzzy compersion? Spoiler: not always. And yes, poly people experience jealousy too. The usual monogamous tricks for handling jealousy? They don’t cut it here. We’ll show you what actually works.

Learn the healthy way to manage jealousy without putting the brakes on your partner’s freedom. Should you tell your partner when you’re feeling those jealous pangs? We’ll guide you through that tricky conversation and what to do if your partner brushes off your feelings.

Tune in for real talk and solid advice on keeping jealousy from messing with your poly vibes.

• Jealousy: what it is (hint: it's not what you think!) and why we feel it.
• What is compersion - and do all ENM people feel it?
• Do poly people experience jealousy?
• Why the traditional, monogamous way of handling jealousy doesn't work - and what to do instead.
• The healthy way of handling jealousy, so you can get your needs met without restricting your partner's freedom.
• Should you tell your partner when you're experiencing jealousy?
• How to have the jealousy conversation with your partner.
• What to do when your partner ignores your jealousy feelings.

1. Jealousy is the fear of losing someone or something you love. It's just a messenger that highlights your insecurities, so you can heal them.
2. Feeling jealous? Before bringing it up with your partner, figure out what’s making you feel insecure and then ask them to help you work through it.
3. If your partner is gaslighting you or brushing off your jealous feelings, that’s a big red flag. A good partner won’t let you control their freedom, but they’ll make sure you feel emotionally supported.