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  • From Moldova to California: An Immigrant's Pursuit of Fulfillment Beyond Happiness
    Jun 22 2024

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    In this episode of Masterful Listening, I recount the day of my immigration from Moldova, a twist of fate that coincided with the actual closure of the borders on the eve of the USSR's collapse.

    In Moldova, my family was relatively well-off despite the constraints of the USSR. Overnight, my journey took a significant turn as I experienced life as a refugee and immigrant in Brooklyn, NY navigating the challenges of starting anew in pursuit of the American dream.

    At the age of 20, I stumbled upon "The Geography of Bliss," a book that revealed Moldova's status as the world's unhappiest country, sparking a decade-long exploration into the essence of happiness. This discovery led me through a decade of research, a journey through depression, and ultimately transformation.

    From experiencing welfare to gaining access to private school and a middle-class American lifestyle, I witnessed firsthand the stark contrast between different states of being. My path eventually led me to California, where I now live a life that once felt utterly unattainable.

    Through my story, I invite the audience to explore beyond the conventional notions of happiness and embrace a life enriched by resilience, compassion, and meaning. It was only when I stopped seeking happiness that my life turned into one of profound gratitude for the multidimensionality of the human experience.

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    1 h y 2 m
  • The Cost of Conformity: Embracing Authenticity's Ultimate Value
    Jun 11 2024

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    This episode of Masterful Listening is inspired by this quote from Gary Vee -

    "I am willing to deal with the ramifications of being my full self."

    I reflect on the importance of accepting the repercussions of being true to oneself.

    Especially, considering the cost of abandoning ourselves.

    Despite my efforts to avoid upsetting others or making a negative impression, I realize that compromising my full self ultimately leads to dissatisfaction and discord. Through introspection and self-discovery, I acknowledge the power and beauty of expressing and fully embracing our unique individuality.

    This episode serves as a tribute to the strength found in embracing our true selves, unapologetically and wholeheartedly.

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    47 m
  • Empowerment Through Self-Sovereignty: Cultivating Inner Strength and Emotional Independence
    Jun 7 2024

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    In this episode of "Masterful Listening," I share the transformative insights gained from a recent therapy session. It helped me realize ( and remember) that as adults, it is our own responsibility to save ourselves, rather than relying on others to do so.

    While as children we needed others to care for us, as adults, we have the power to take care of ourselves and avoid self-abandonment. Taking full responsibility for our own growth and well-being not only benefits ourselves but also contributes to the growth of those around us.

    Join me as I explore the empowering journey of self-rescue and the impact it can have on personal development and relationships.

    Also, shout out to Betterhelp!

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    39 m
  • Manifesting Magic in Our Lives: Creating Our Desired Reality Through Intentional Seeking
    May 30 2024

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    As I delve into the topic of "Manifesting Magic In Our Lives" I explore the question " what am I looking for?"

    When we seek magic, we discover enchantment in the everyday, but when we anticipate problems, challenges seem to multiply. This principle extends to our interactions with others – if we anticipate defensiveness, we may unknowingly provoke it.

    By examining our preconceptions and expectations, we can cultivate greater awareness of our perceptions and responses. Join me in uncovering the power of intention and attention in shaping our realities and relationships.

    Check out the two books I mention in the episode and shout out to Dr. James Doty.
    Thank you for all of your wisdom.

    Mind Magic
    Into The Magic Shop

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    38 m
  • DIRECT IS KIND, So Stop Trying to be "Nice." Embrace Clarity, Honesty, Transparency and Vulnerability in Relationships
    May 29 2024

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    Buckle up... this is a great episode for anyone who struggles to be direct OR who is often finding their directness isn't landing well with others...

    In my first ever corporate sales job, I found myself being VERY direct with the VP of Sales and well, it was a pivotal moment that showed me who I want to be, and the kind of work environment I would not tolerate. In a lot of ways, this experience captures so much of what I see as problematic within the corporate world today. And - it has continued to inspire me, and teach me so many valuable lessons which I am grateful to be able to share with you.

    In this episode I explore the transformative power of direct communication and the kindness it embodies. Misconceptions surrounding directness as aggression are debunked as we uncover its true value in fostering trust and clarity in relationships, both professional and personal.

    By embracing directness as an act of kindness, I've learned to navigate conflicts, cultivate trust, and enhance communication effectiveness. Join me on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment as we unravel the mantra that "direct is kind" and explore the profound impact of embracing authenticity and clarity in our interactions.

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    59 m
  • Mastering the Art of Inquiry: Ask Great Questions, Get Great Answers... Ask Crappy Questions, Ruin Your Life
    May 23 2024

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    Today we embark on a journey to unravel the significance of asking deeply powerful questions and the transformative power of reframing our "Why" questions into empowering "What" questions. Join me as we explore how this shift in inquiry can unlock a world of possibilities and propel us towards personal growth and a masterful life.

    As I always say, " Ask great questions, get great answers. Ask crappy questions, ruin your life." Yep...

    Through engaging anecdotes and practical insights, I dive into the essence of what constitutes a great question and its profound impact on our lives. Discover how starting our questions with "what" instead of "why" opens us up to new perspectives, possibilities, and a path forward.

    I'll be exploring various areas of personal and professional growth, relationships, grief and loss, and empowerment, and offering a step-by-step toolkit of thought-provoking "What" questions to guide your journey.

    By the end, you'll have the tools to reframe your questions, gain clarity, and unlock the secrets to living a masterful life through the art of profound inquiry.

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    1 h y 2 m
  • Friendship's Crossroads: Masterful Listening, Release, and Embracing the Art of Being a Better Friend
    May 6 2024

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    In this episode, I dive deep into the intricate dynamics of friendships, exploring the complexities that arise when some of our closest connections undergo shifts or come to an end. I reflect on my own experiences over the past six months, where I have witnessed meaningful friendships change in unexpected ways.

    Together, we explore the questions that often linger in our minds:
    How do we determine when to invest in a friendship?
    When should we hold steadfast and fight for these bonds?
    And how do we navigate the delicate balance between standing up for ourselves and genuinely listening, even when we disagree?

    We examine the significance of reciprocity, the art of being a better friend, and the importance of engaging in difficult conversations for the purpose of growth and deepening.

    Join me as we explore the intricacies of investing in friendship and knowing when to let go, all with a heartfelt appreciation for those friends who continue to invest in us and those who remind us of the power of release.

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    47 m
  • The Art of Aligned Action: Balancing Timing, Surrender and Perseverance
    Apr 30 2024

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    As a coach, I understand the significance of goal setting and working towards our aspirations. However, I've come to realize the transformative power of surrendering to the universe's grand plan, which often exceeds our own limited vision. By embracing surrender alongside focused action, we allow creation to flourish in ways we couldn't have imagined.

    Join me as we explore the intersection of surrender and persistence, and discover how this dynamic duo can guide us towards creating businesses and ventures that are not only fulfilling but also make a positive impact on the world.

    I share the remarkable story behind the creation of my company, Rad Hats for Rat Humans. Join me as I delve into a decade-long journey of desire, perseverance, and ultimately, surrender, that led me to build a business that combines art, beauty, and a meaningful contribution to mental health.

    In this episode, I unravel the true definition of surrender, debunking common misconceptions, and emphasizing its powerful synergy with focused persistence and unwavering trust. Through personal anecdotes and insights, I illuminate how the delicate balance between surrender and perseverance allowed me to manifest a venture that surpassed my wildest dreams. I invite you to join me on this journey of surrender, persistence, and the magic that unfolds when we align with the universe's grand design.

    Season 3 is sponsored by Rad Hats For Rad Humans. 30% of every purchase goes towards mental health initiatives. If you write a review of the show, you get 20% off a Rad Hat of your own.

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    43 m