When did "busy" become your brand? That exhausted, overwhelmed state we wear like a badge of honor isn't the flex we think it is. In this eye-opening episode, we unpack the uncomfortable truth about our addiction to busyness and why it might be the cheapest status symbol you're carrying.

Busy isn't who you are—it's just what you're doing. As people-pleasers, we've mistaken productivity for self-worth, convincing ourselves that if we're not constantly available and helpful, we're somehow less valuable. But this episode reveals the real cost of that thinking: a backpack full of other people's rocks that leaves us hunched over, staggering under responsibilities that don't even belong to us.

For parents especially, the guilt around wanting "me time" can be overwhelming. But what if protecting that slice of life isn't selfish but essential? What if your kids need to see you rested and pursuing things that light you up? This conversation offers a permission slip to put yourself back on your priority list without apology.

Your energy is currency, and you only get so much to spend each day. Being "in demand" doesn't mean you're in alignment. Just because your calendar is full doesn't mean your soul is. This week's challenge: identify your top three priorities and say no to one thing that doesn't align with them. Because at the end of the day, you're not here to be booked and busy—you're here to be aligned and alive.

Ready to trade busy for something that actually looks good on you? Listen now, grab your Mojo Gummies, and remember: don't be just busy, be fucking you.

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That queasy feeling after setting a boundary isn't your conscience—it's your breakthrough. For recovering people-pleasers, the "guilt hangover" arrives like clockwork after we finally stand up for ourselves, bringing with it anxiety, second-guessing, and that unmistakable pit in our stomach.

But what if this discomfort isn't a warning sign at all? What if it's actually evidence that you're finally breaking free from patterns that have kept you small? Throughout this episode, we dive deep into why setting boundaries triggers such intense emotional reactions, especially for those of us who've been wired to believe our worth comes from keeping everyone else comfortable.

We explore what boundaries truly are (hint: not weapons or walls, but acts of clarity and care) and what they aren't. Through relatable analogies—like boundaries being the thermostat of your life or the foam that protects your internal battery—we redefine these essential tools for wellbeing. You'll learn to recognize when your guilt is simply your old operating system freaking out because you're challenging your survival programming.

The heart of this episode is the Four Rs method for moving through boundary guilt: Recognize the hangover, Return to your breath, Reframe the discomfort, and Ride it out. Through personal stories and practical examples, you'll discover how to implement these steps in real-life situations. Because the ultimate goal isn't eliminating guilt—it's retraining your brain to see boundaries as normal, healthy, and empowering.

Ready to transform your relationship with boundaries? Take our challenge to set one small boundary this week and practice moving through the guilt hangover with grace. Because every shaky "no" is a rep in the self-respect gym, and you've had a membership there all along. Your voice matters, your needs matter, and your energy deserves protection. Subscribe now and join our community of recovering people-pleasers who are learning that awkward is just the doorway to freedom.

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Ever caught yourself holding back—not because you didn't want to do something, but because it felt too awkward? That gut-wrenching sensation isn't actually warning you of danger—it's signaling growth.

Awkwardness is the toll we pay to step into our next chapter. For recovering people-pleasers especially, that discomfort feels catastrophic because it represents the death of our familiar, safe selves. But what if that cringe-worthy feeling is actually the doorway to the authentic life you've been craving?

This episode dives deep into recognizing when you're ready for change (hint: if you're exhausted from carrying others' expectations or find yourself envying people who seem comfortable in their own skin, you're there). We explore what breaking through actually feels like—spoiler alert: less like Beyoncé in formation and more like "Bambi on ice, blindfolded." But don't worry! That awkward phase is temporary and necessary.

You'll learn five practical steps to push through discomfort: renaming awkwardness as growth, attempting "micro dares" to build your courage muscle, collecting evidence of your resilience, and finding "expanders"—people who normalize authenticity until you can do it yourself. We also look at icons like Oprah, Lady Gaga, and Brené Brown, all of whom weathered intense awkwardness before emerging into their power.

Remember, confidence doesn't precede awkwardness—it follows it. Your homework: choose one tiny rebellion against your comfort zone this week. Because on the other side of cringe is confidence, and on the other side of confidence is freedom. Your Beyoncé days are coming—but first, embrace being Bambi.

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Ever felt that strange disorientation that comes with personal growth? That moment when you've done the work, made the changes, but suddenly feel like you're wearing someone else's skin? Don't worry—you haven't taken a wrong turn. That wobbly feeling is actually confirmation you're exactly where you need to be.

Breaking up with your old identity is a profound journey that few people talk about. After years of performing roles that kept you safe but small—the people-pleaser, the overachiever, the one who puts everyone else first—stepping into authenticity can feel simultaneously liberating and terrifying. This episode walks you through the four essential phases of this metamorphosis: the release of who you thought you had to be, the vulnerable emergence of your true self, navigating the world through fresh eyes, and the crucial practice of celebrating your evolution.

Through personal stories (including my own transformation from corporate workaholic to "President of Doing Whatever I Want"), we explore how to honor your past self while embracing the new. We dig into the uncomfortable truth that some relationships may shift or fall away as you grow, and why that's not just okay—it's necessary. You'll learn to recognize the difference between "unknown" and "unsafe," how to reframe imposter syndrome, and why those awkward growing pains are actually signs you're getting stronger.

Whether you're in the midst of transformation or sensing change on the horizon, this episode offers a roadmap for the journey ahead. Remember: "I release who I was, I embrace who I am, and I trust who I'm becoming." Your wobbliness will soon become a stride, and then a confident strut—that's mojo in action.

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Keeping promises to others comes naturally to most of us—but what about the commitments we make to ourselves? That daily meditation practice, the exercise routine, the boundaries we swear we'll enforce... somehow these often become negotiable when life gets hectic.

The truth? Every time you break a promise to yourself, you're quietly eroding your self-trust. Just as reliability builds trust in relationships with others, showing up for yourself consistently creates the foundation for unshakable self-confidence. When we fail to honor our commitments to ourselves, we're sending a subliminal message that our needs don't really matter—and that takes a toll on our self-worth over time.

This episode takes you through the psychology behind why we struggle to keep self-promises: our brain's preference for comfort over challenge, setting unrealistic expectations, and deep-seated beliefs about our worthiness. You'll hear a personal story about well-intentioned but misaligned health goals that were doomed to fail because they didn't connect with authentic values. Instead of self-criticism when we falter, the episode offers a framework for compassionate curiosity—questioning whether the promises we make actually align with who we are and what we truly want.

The most valuable takeaway? Practical strategies that make self-promises stick: starting smaller than you think, tying commitments to your identity rather than just tasks, using the "accountability flip" to treat yourself with the same respect you offer others, celebrating even tiny wins, and giving yourself grace when you slip up. The rewards of this practice are immense—greater confidence, stronger boundaries, deeper self-love, and expanded energy as you shed the weight of guilt and broken trust.

Ready to transform your relationship with yourself? Start with just one small, meaningful promise this week. Your future self will thank you for this foundation of self-trust you're building today. Share this episode with someone who always shows up for everyone else but forgets about themselves—they might need this reminder most of all.

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Ever wonder why the most exhilarating moments of your life happened outside your comfort zone? That's no coincidence.

Your comfort zone is like that friend who only wants to hang out in sweatpants watching reruns – cozy, yes, but hardly where life's magic unfolds. We're diving deep into the neuroscience behind why our brains crave predictability (hello, amygdala) and how that evolutionary advantage can become a modern-day limitation when we let it shrink our world without even realizing it.

But this isn't about trashing comfort zones entirely. These safe spaces serve crucial purposes – they're where we heal after losses, recover from burnout, and stabilize our mental health. The key is recognizing when your comfort zone has transformed from a necessary rest stop into a permanent residence that's keeping you from growing.

What are the signs you're overdue for a stretch? That restlessness you feel when everything's "fine" but nothing's great. The jealousy when watching others do what you secretly wish to do. That electric combination of fear and excitement when considering something new. These are all invitations to expand your boundaries and discover what you're truly capable of.

The real currency of growth is discomfort – those moments where your heart races a little but something deeper whispers "what if this actually works?" Every time you lean into that productive discomfort, you're literally rewiring your brain for greater resilience, creativity, and confidence. Your challenge this week? Choose one small thing that nudges you beyond your bubble and take action within 72 hours. The version of you that's waiting on the other side is stronger, louder, bolder – and already cheering you on.

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Ever find yourself saying yes when every cell in your body is screaming no? That moment—when your gut says one thing but your mouth betrays you—is exactly where your power leaks away. As recovering people-pleasers, we've mastered the art of negotiating our non-negotiables to keep everyone happy, everyone except ourselves.

What if your exhaustion, resentment, and that fantasy about escaping to a remote island with some goats isn't actually random? It's the direct result of repeatedly compromising on the boundaries that protect your energy, values, and wellbeing. These aren't just preferences or nice-to-haves—they're the foundation that allows you to function, thrive, and feel like yourself.

The four-step Mojo Method shared in this episode offers a practical roadmap to finally make your non-negotiables actually non-negotiable. You'll learn why your brain has been wired to abandon yourself before others can abandon you, how to recognize the exact moment you start to negotiate (that's your red flag!), and concrete strategies to hold firm even when it feels uncomfortable. Through Maya's story, you'll see how one well-placed boundary can transform not just your life but empower those around you.

Remember: your needs are not up for debate. You're not hard to love for having them—you're powerful for honoring them. Whether your non-negotiable is eight hours of sleep, no work on weekends, or being spoken to with respect, this episode is your permission slip to protect what matters. Your future self will thank you for listening.

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Have you ever caught yourself shrinking to keep the peace? Bite your tongue when your gut is screaming otherwise? Maybe you've been told to tone down your shine or smooth out your edges. That stops now.

This episode is your permission slip to blow the walls out of that tiny box you were never meant to fit in. I'm sharing my own turning point – standing in my kitchen, paralyzed with anxiety over cleaning a tea infuser, when my higher self essentially said, "Oh hell no, we did not come here for this." That moment sparked my transformation from invisible people-pleaser to authentically taking up space.

Let's get real: people pleasing isn't about kindness – it's about control. It's a survival strategy where we manage how others perceive us to create safety. Neurologically, your brain interprets potential rejection as threat, triggering cortisol and adrenaline. But peace at the expense of your values isn't peace – it's performance. Taking up space means existing fully without apology. It's saying no without a PowerPoint presentation justifying your decision. It's asking for what you need without guilt. It's sharing your ideas even when your voice shakes.

Through neuroplasticity, you can literally rewire your response to discomfort. Each empowered choice creates a new neural pathway, turning once-overgrown trails of self-doubt into superhighways of confidence. Start small: voice preferences instead of defaulting to "whatever's fine," eliminate apology language, practice mirror affirmations, and embrace the qualities others have called "too much." Remember this mantra: "I am not too much. I'm not a burden. I take up space like I was born to."

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