Episodios

  • Dumper Ethics and Seattle Neighborhoods
    Aug 5 2024
    Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.

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    00:00 PIS merch00:25 Dr. Ruth Westheimer's legacy

    04:03 Responsibility when breaking up
    13:00 2017 OPP
    13:45 How does change occur through therapy?
    21:55 Military sexual trauma and psychological defenses
    27:58 Rebecca's sex therapy training
    31:21 2017 OPP
    32:05 City of Seattle & suburbs thoughts
    45:56 Ranking Seattle suburbs
    1:21:36 Ranking San Diego suburbs
    1:26:17 Ranking New York City suburbs
    1:30:09 Rebecca's ranking of Seattle suburbs

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    August 5, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com
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    1 h y 41 m
  • Polygamy & Sister Wives (chapter 2)
    Aug 2 2024
    Dr Kirk Honda interviews Christine Pirir about her experiences in the polygamist Mormon cult depicted in Sister Wives (a reality TV show).

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    00:00 Introduction and background
    01:09 Exclusion of Black People in the AUB
    04:38 Why do families have so many children?
    11:33 Why might women want to be a third wife?
    15:29 The AUB's Stance on pets & influence of leaders17:14 Persecution in the church
    20:21 Do established wives consent to a new wife?
    21:56 Harmful effects of non-consensual polygamy
    34:14 Who is the current prophet of the AUB?

    39:34 The attraction and influence of the AUB

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    August 2, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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    43 m
  • The Psychology of Shia LaBeouf (2021 Rerun)
    Aug 1 2024
    [Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto discuss the psychology of Shia LaBeouf and his semi-autobiographical movie, Honey Boy.

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    July 30, 2021

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com
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    1 h y 50 m
  • Polygamy & Sister Wives (chapter 1)
    Jul 31 2024
    Dr Kirk Honda interviews Christine Pirir about her experiences in the polygamist Mormon cult depicted in Sister Wives (a reality TV show).

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

    00:00 Introduction to Christine and Apostolic United Brethren
    09:52 Did Christine know the Brown family?
    14:34 What was it like growing up in the AUB?
    34:43 How did the church enable control?
    42:35 What did Christine think of Sister Wives Season 1?
    47:11 How did Christine's family get involved in polygamy?
    59:20 How do marriages work in the AUB?
    1:06:10 Why might a family system take another wife?
    1:14:52 What would Christine say to her younger self?
    1:22:14 Resources for ex-polygamy individuals
    126:55 Who are Christine's favorite Love is Blind contestants?


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    July 31, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

    Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com
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    1 h y 32 m
  • Big Pharma & Opioids (2021 Rerun)
    Jul 30 2024
    [Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto discuss the HBO documentary The Crime of Century, which details the corruption of the opioid crisis.

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    July 26, 2021

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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    1 h y 31 m
  • Sexism, entitlement, and bad training
    Jul 29 2024
    Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

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    00:00 Tony's Chocolonely history
    08:15 Bob hired a consultant
    09:44 Unenthusiastic student
    13:19 Losing perspective as a therapist
    23:18 Going into internship unprepared
    30:59 2017 OPP
    32:10 Therapist who doesn't show up
    38:17 Late fees follow up

    58:51 A thank you to Bob

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    July 29, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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    1 h y 1 m
  • Awkward asexual dating and unworthy for therapy
    Jul 26 2024
    Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

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    00:00 Dr. Kirk's book on grief
    10:24 Am I aromantic, asexual or clueless?
    31:10 2017 OPP
    33:51 Co-hosts 3 favorite colors
    40:21 Feeling unworthy for therapy


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    July 26, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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    48 m
  • Therapist has a Bad Boss
    Jul 24 2024
    Dr Kirk reviews an ethical violation case.

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    00:00 What ethical standards are therapists held to?
    26:22 A supervision ethical case brief
    36:52 High-risk clients & the start of the therapeutic relationship
    53:18 Inadequate supervision
    1:08:45 Client red flags
    1:18:22 Safety planning & client suicide
    1:38:01 The court case
    1:52:51 Dr. Kirk's ethical recommendation

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    July 24, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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    2 h y 5 m