• Navigating Conflict: Building Stronger Relationships Through Communication
    Jul 26 2024

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    Are you feeling isolated in your relationship?

    Do you and your partner struggle to communicate effectively?

    Are you worried about the impact of arguments on your family’s future?

    In Episode 183 of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ dive into the heart of their recent, intense argument and the feelings of isolation and hopelessness it brought up. Through raw and vulnerable storytelling, they explore the deep-seated issues that triggered their conflict and share the emotional journey to repair and reconnect within 24 hours. Emphasizing the importance of daily communication, team effort, and foundational changes, Tarah and EJ unpack the growth and learning that can arise from adversity in relationships. They also introduce their Relationship Renovation program. Tune in to learn how to navigate through difficult times and emerge with a deeper connection and understanding.

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    32 m
  • Understanding and Supporting Your Partner's Depression
    Jul 19 2024

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    How can you support your partner when they're struggling with depression?

    What steps can you take to manage your own anxiety triggered by your partner's mental health battles?

    How can you encourage your partner to seek help without making them feel inadequate?

    In this heartfelt episode, hosts EJ and Tarah dive deep into a listener's email about navigating a relationship where one partner experiences depression. They unpack strategies to offer empathetic support, emphasize the importance of self-reflection, and explore ways to nurture emotional connection without playing the fixer role. Tune in to discover practical tips on maintaining stability, fostering open communication, and creating a loving, supportive environment for both partners. Visit our website and explore our Relationship Renovation at Home program for more tools to strengthen your connection.

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    19 m
  • Relationship Tools with Dr. Stan Tatkin: Agreements, Values, and Governance
    Jul 12 2024

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    How can sharing embarrassing childhood stories enhance intimacy in relationships?

    What is the difference between jealousy and envy in romantic relationships?

    How can couples protect their relationship from disruptive external influences?

    Join hosts EJ and Tarah on "Relationship Renovation" as they welcome the esteemed Dr. Stan Tatkin to discuss the vital elements of building and maintaining intimacy in relationships. In this illuminating episode, Dr. Tatkin, renowned for his expertise in neuroscience and attachment theory, delves into the power of sharing personal stories to foster deeper connections. He unpacks the significance of bonding hormones and why being present truly matters. Through playful and heartfelt interactions, the conversation navigates the responsibilities partners have towards each other's well-being and the essence of the "you and I against the world" mentality.

    Listeners will gain practical insights into managing jealousy and protecting their relationship from disruptive 'thirds' like alcohol or other relationships. Dr. Tatkin emphasizes the importance of governance and shared vision within a partnership, outlining tools for couples to create a supportive and interdependent two-person system. Whether you're looking to enhance your current relationship or are curious about how to navigate potential conflicts, this episode of "Relationship Renovation" offers valuable guidance and inspiration. Tune in to discover how intimacy and trust can be rebuilt and strengthened, even amidst life's challenges.

    Wired for Love by Dr. Stan Tatkin

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    53 m
  • Parenting and Partnering: Finding Harmony in Love and Family
    Jul 5 2024

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    What happens when you feel disconnected from your partner while juggling parenting and professional responsibilities?

    How can a couple overcome the feeling of being lost in their roles as parents?

    What are the lasting impacts on children when parents neglect their relationship?

    In this insightful episode of *Relationship Renovation*, hosts Tarah and EJ delve deeply into the common struggle of balancing parenthood with a thriving partnership. They unravel the complexities of maintaining self-care, the detrimental effects of neglecting the spousal relationship, and the role of open communication in fostering a stronger bond with your partner. Discover why weekly date nights can be transformative, how past traumas impact parenting and partnership, and practical steps to avoid the pitfalls of resentment and loneliness. Tune in for actionable advice and stories that underscore the importance of prioritizing your relationship for the wel-lbeing of your family. Plus, don’t miss the recommended books and resources in our show notes to further enrich your relationship journey.

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    33 m
  • Healing Through Trauma: Dr. Frank Anderson on Relationship Patterns and Personal Transformation
    Jun 28 2024

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    Have you ever felt trapped in repetitive relationship patterns, struggling to heal from past trauma?

    Are you curious about how to transform your internal struggles into healthier connections with your partner?

    Do you wonder why certain relationships seem to echo the dynamics from your family history?

    In this episode of *Relationship Renovation*, hosts Tarah and EJ dive deep into Dr. Frank Anderson's upcoming memoir "To Be Loved: A Story of Truth, Trauma, Transformation." Dr. Anderson opens up about his personal journey of overcoming trauma, recognizing and breaking toxic relationship cycles, and his unique approach to healing. Through an engaging discussion, the hosts explore vital topics such as using genograms and timelines to understand each other's past, the importance of compassion in trauma responses, and actionable steps for couples facing issues like infidelity. This episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to repair past wounds, foster emotional safety, and cultivate stronger, more resilient relationships.

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    40 m
  • Attachment Series Part 3: Secure Attachment and Differentiation
    Jun 21 2024

    Ever wondered how your childhood environment shapes your relationship patterns?

    Curious about the essential components of secure attachment?

    Struggling to differentiate between emotional reactions from your past and adult choices?

    In this third installment of our attachment series, hosts EJ and Tarah delve into the profound impact of growing up in unhealthy environments on relationships and the importance of secure attachment. Discover the secrets to emotional regulation, healthy boundaries, and effective communication as they provide insight on creating positive change and personal growth. Additionally, they explore differentiation and interdependence, essential for a healthy relationship, and share actionable advice for shedding past burdens and becoming your true self. Bolstered by listener success stories and the benefits of their "Relationship Renovation at Home" program, this episode offers couples and individuals a roadmap to deeper connection and greater relationship satisfaction. Tune in for practical tips, listener feedback, and inspiring conversations aimed at building true emotional closeness. Share your experiences with us, and remember to take care of yourself and your loved ones.


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    29 m
  • Attachment Series Part 2: Building Secure Relationships from Anxious Attachment Styles
    Jun 14 2024

    Ever wondered why you constantly seek validation in your relationships?

    Are you experiencing anxiety and insecurity when your partner isn’t around?

    Do you often prioritize your partner’s needs over your own?

    In this episode of *Relationship Renovation*, hosts EJ and Tarah dive deep into the concept of anxious attachment and its origins in inconsistent childhood caregiving. They explore the myriad ways anxious attachment manifests in adult relationships, including excessive worry, jealousy, and difficulty with emotional regulation. With personal anecdotes and professional insights, the episode also sheds light on other attachment styles such as fearful-avoidant and dismissive-avoidant, providing listeners with practical advice on moving towards more secure, fulfilling connections. Plus, discover how their Relationship Renovation at Home program can help improve your emotional and intimate bonds. Tune in to learn how to take the first steps toward understanding your attachment style and enhancing your relationship journey.

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    40 m
  • Attachment Series Part 1: Foundations of Emotional Bonds in Relationships
    Jun 7 2024

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    What are the different attachment styles, and how do they impact relationships?

    How can understanding your attachment style help improve your relationship?

    What practical steps can couples take to build secure attachment?

    Tarah and EJ embark on the first part of a transformative three-part series focused on attachment theory. This episode dives into understanding your individual attachment style, which may be causing dysfunction in your relationships. Tarah and EJ discuss the origins of attachment theory from John Bowlby's research and break down the four primary attachment types: secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful disorganized. With 50% of the population falling into the secure attachment category, it leaves many wondering about the 50% who don't.

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    27 m