This episode of based off a recent conversation I had with my wife after watching @Tony Gaskins and @The Table With AO . I agreed with some of things that would being spoken but as thought sometimes we listen to things that don't really apply to our lives. And ultimately, are we listening to those people in our lives.

It happened y'all. The Kween KL and myself got MARRIED!!! It has been quite the journey. Sit and listen as we discuss not only the lead-up to the wedding and subsequent honeymoon, but our deepest fears heading into marriage.

It was a great time with a lot of laughs. We pray that you enjoy. If you do, leave a like, comment, and subscribe to the podcast for more amazing content about relationships and the ups and downs of finding love.

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How late is too late for someone of the opposite sex to call your significant other? Black Velvet addresses the topic and shares an incident that occured in his personal life. Feel free to share your stories and thoughts on this subject.

Reach out on IG/Facebook @blackvelvethd or email @ iamblackvelvethd@gmail.com. I will read your thoughts and comments on the Live in the coming weeks.

It is that time again, and I am joined by not just a regular on the show but in my life, Ms. Karen-Leigh, as we relate our birthing journey.

There will be some graphic details about the trauma and struggle of having a child in the COVID world. You may even get a brief cameo from lil OG, Olivia-Grace.

We thank you as always for the support. Remember to be a part of the contest you have to answer the question at the end of the show.

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Recently, I noticed that a lot people don't like the movie, Love and Basketball, which is a classic love story in the black community. When asked why people didn't like it, many responses found me scratching my head as to what movie they had watch due to disparity between what the movie portrayed and what viewers said they observed.

I wanted to show the parallels between misinterpreting a movie narrative and how easily we can do that same thing in relationships. The signals become so crossed to the point that a couple may find themselves in two separate relationships and not even know it.

I would love to hear your thoughts on the movie? Did you like the movie? Why or why not? Any questions or suggestions are also readily accepted and appreciated.

I am so excited to welcome back the Queen, Ms. Karen-Leigh, to the show as we discuss long distance relationships.

We get personal as ourselves are currently very far apart. Her being in Raleigh, NC and myself in St Louis. Speaking not only on the struggles, but additionally the benefits of the distance, namely the focus on communication. Also, unpacking traumas and baggage from our childhoods and past relationships.

This remains a judgment free zone. So please understand that these are simply our thoughts. We would love to hear what you have to say on the subject.

You can reach me on Facebook or Instagram @blackvelvethd. Emails should be addressed to iamblackvelvet@gmail.com