Spank U, Next listeners... we're back with another mailbag episode where we take listener's questions and answer them in the best way we can. We've been a bit MIA recently due to life events, so we'll update you on the podcast for the next few months and check in with each other on what the hell has being going on in both of our lives.

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Listen to one of our most successful episodes ever where we talk to a male ProDom who caters to female clients only.

Christian Grey, your time is up! This episode, Anna and Gregor talk to London's most prolific pro Dominant, Master Peter. Hear about the women who pay for a good spanking, and why sex work catered to female pleasure is so rare (the patriarchy!). Treat yourself to titillating tales from the BDSM underground, as Master Peter reflects on moving away from SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) towards RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Because, really, can BDSM ever be safe?

This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms and get inspired to spice up your own sex life.

00:03:27 - Dynamics of submission and domination
00:04:29 - Different preferences in spanking
00:10:26 - Men struggling with feminism in BDSM
00:14:30 - Checking in with body boundaries
00:17:20 - Aftercare in BDSM
00:19:10 - Keep it kinky

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Welcome to the podcaster showdown! Anna and Gregor interview veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast and discuss their 20 years of experience in the BDSM and fetish world. Dan and Dawn share stories of life on the road living in an RV, power exchange, polyamory, and thriving in alternative lifestyles.

Timestamps:

00:01:45 - Dan and Dawn's Polyamorous and Kink Journey
00:02:20 - Open Relationships vs. Polyamory
00:02:47 - The Health of Polyamorous Relationships
00:03:20 - Discussing Polyamory and Power Dynamics
00:03:51 - Misconceptions About Submissiveness
00:04:49 - Dan and Dawn's Introduction and Background
00:05:29 - Celebrating a Collaring Anniversary
00:06:47 - The Need for Polyamory Tools
00:07:16 - How Dan and Dawn Avoid Getting Sick of Each Other
00:10:04 - The Separation of Vanilla Life and Kink Life
00:12:46 - The 24/7 Power Exchange Dynamic
00:14:23 - The Evolution of Kinks and BDSM Interests
00:15:09 - Exploring Hypnosis Kink and Chemical Play
00:16:07 - The Meaning of Polyamory for Dan and Dawn
00:17:53 - Navigating Long-Distance Polyamorous Relationships
00:19:13 - Dealing with Personal Limits and Space
00:20:05 - Kinks That Sparked Interest in BDSM
00:23:37 - The Role of Jealousy in Polyamory
00:25:58 - Misconceptions About Polyamory
00:35:16 - The Role of Honesty in Polyamorous Relationships
00:39:38 - Exploring Celibacy and Spiritual Paths

Listen to Erotic Awakening Podcast on Dan & Dawn's website here. And check out some of their fabulous books here.

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Listen to an old fan favourite about DDLG (daddy Dom/little girl), littlespace, age play, and so much more!

You're invited to explore the much-misunderstood world of age play and DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) with hosts Anna and Gregor. They are joined by Shaun and Sarah, a couple who met on Fetish.com, to talk littlespace, consent, sensual domination, aftercare, and funishment vs. punishment. Get educated on the BDSM community's move towards the gender-inclusive term Caregiver/little, and let them debunk some misconceptions you may have about Daddy Doms and their littles.

In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks!

Timestamps:

00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics
00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism
00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism
00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine"
00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism
00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation
00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism
00:07:25 - Psychiatry and BDSM in History
00:08:11 - Therapy and BDSM Today
00:09:07 - Power Dynamics in Sadism
00:09:38 - Control and Submission in Masochism
00:11:00 - The Sensation of Pain in BDSM
00:12:04 - Differentiating BDSM Pain from Other Pain
00:12:44 - Importance of Consent and Control
00:13:48 - Psychological Aspects of Pain Enjoyment
00:14:53 - Sexual Arousal and Pain
00:15:28 - BDSM Play Without Sexual Context
00:16:09 - Advice for Exploring BDSM
00:17:02 - Choosing the Right Play Partner
00:17:38 - Blood Play and Safety Precautions
00:18:19 - Closing Remarks and Contact Information

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Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here.

Timestamps:

00:04:18 - Mickey's entry into the porn industry
00:06:05 - BDSM community and performance spaces
00:07:01 - Changes in the porn industry and online spaces
00:08:09 - Performer empowerment
00:09:02 - The impact of ranking systems and social media
00:10:02 - Success on OnlyFans
00:11:26 - The Effects of FOSTA/SESTA on sex work
00:13:18 - Collective Corruption
00:14:38 - Stigma and career challenges post-adult industry
00:16:07 - Decriminalization of sex work
00:17:33 - Mickey's work behind the scenes
00:18:40 - Fluidity and labels
00:21:02 - Skills from the adult industry and mainstream rejection
00:22:09 - Shadow banning and its impact
00:24:54 - Ethical content creation
00:27:02 - Consent and power dynamics in BDSM
00:30:05 - Mickey's personal kinks and hard limits
00:33:04 - Consent and misunderstandings in online interactions
00:35:05 - Race play and its complexities
00:37:13 - Exploring power dynamics and submissive roles
00:38:19 - Butt stuff and societal stigmas

Follow Mickey on X (formerly Twitter) at @theMickeyMod. Check out Collective Corruption here.

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Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self.

Timestamps:

0000:00 - Intro
00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga
00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats
00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat
00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra
00:14:53 - Hosts' Background in Kink
00:18:03 - Creating Safe Spaces in Kinky Workshops
00:19:17 - Consent and Boundaries in Workshops
00:20:01 - Introducing Toys in Kinky Yoga
00:23:01 - Demystifying Feminine Sexuality
00:25:29 - Empowerment and Performance in Sexuality
00:26:12 - Kinky Yoga Experience for Newcomers
00:27:48 - Partner Work in Kinky Yoga
00:29:00 - Feedback from Workshop Participants
00:32:06 - Aftercare and Upcoming Workshops
00:33:49 - Inviting Experts to Kinky Workshops
00:34:07 - Hosts' Interest in Attending a Workshop
00:35:00 - Accessibility of Kinky Yoga for Beginners
00:37:42 - Where to Find Kinky Yoga and Contact Info
00:39:32 - Barcelona's Sex-Positive Scene
00:40:03 - Mainstreaming BDSM and Sensual Kink
00:41:16 - Importance of Communication in Sex
00:42:10 - Closing Remarks and Podcast Promotion

Attend their next kinky yoga retreat in Barcelona on 21st January by signing up here. Also, check out their Wholly Whore retreats and Rise Women Rise collective and retreats.

For more info about the founders, visit Alice's website and Pau's website.

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