Episodios

  • From Misattunement to Marmee: Contact Nutrition in the Wild
    Jul 5 2024
    This season focuses on the 2019 film “Little Women” How does “Contact Nutrition” build secure attachment? What is liberation if not people in up-power positions being in solidarity with those in down-power? Specifically, how can we, as parents, teachers, and adults, respect kids when they are occupied and meet them where they are rather than demanding they operate on our schedule? And also, some “Friedrich fan fic” for an important invitation to liberation that was not explicitly told in the film. Kristyn with a Why dives deeper into secure attachment- through “contact nutrition” and moments of attunement and misattunement. Put differently, “what to do (and not do) when you are in a position of power, rank, and privilege over someone else in order to earn secure attachment with them?” Specifically analyzing Sallie’s ignorance over Meg’s financial status, Aunt March’s power over Amy, Friedrich’s patriarchal conditioning that kept him unaware of Jo’s emotional risk in exposing her work to him, and diving into some deep stuff around rage, repair, and death in relation to Amy burning Jo’s book and falling through the ice. (See time stamps and links to the scenes mentioned in the podcast below.) Intro 0-3:00 Overview of Contact Nutrition and (mis)attunement: 3:00-6:00 Jo & Teddy and Jo and Friedrich Meeting-Contact Nutrition as Hollywood’s way to show that “bonding has happened”: 6:00-8:40 Misattunement with kids- Aunt March and Amy: 8:40-14:40 Sally in the Silk Shop: 14:40-18:12 What could Friedrich have done differently? 18:20-26:50 Friedrich Fan Fic: 26:55-32:30 Book Burning/Falling in the Ice: 32:40-40:18 Marmee!! 40:20-52:55 Outro/Gratitude: 53-end Scene Links—------------------------ Jo meets Teddy and Friedrich and Jo Meet Cute Aunt march and Amy Meg: Silk shop with Sally, Silk Conflict with John, Wedding Day wish to be with John, Choosing John again. Friedrich’s feedback Jo burning Amy’s book Amy falling through the ice **Cannot find scene about rage with Jo and Marmee** :( Marmee bringing Jo food (1:20-1:28) —--------------------------------------------- Grateful for all the learning and inspiration alluded to in today’s episode: My teacher Carmen Spagnola for her courses on Secure attachment and Contact Nutrition on The Numinous Network Virginia Sole Smith’s substack: Attuning with kids: Dinners are a meeting we call and set the agenda, bedtime is a meeting the kids are calling us to that we want to attend. You’re Only as good as your last goodbye- “Alex” by Punch Brothers Rev. angel Kyodo williams As always:---------------------------------- Thankful for the musical inspiration for the theme song: Hadestown by Anais Mitchell, specifically “Our Lady of the Underground” and Orpheus’ Song “Hedwig’s Theme” by John Williams Shout out for the artistic assistance of: Matt Schubbe (Logo) Kevin Carlow (Music and sound editing) —--------------------------------------------- Free Palestine! There are many ways to support the Palestinian people right now. Join a student encampment near you, call or email your congressperson via the JVP’s daily calls or email them here. 94 members of Congress have called for a ceasefire, can you help to add yours to the list? ​ Spread the word on social media, or check out Operation Olive Branch, a mutual aid organization that has compiled a list of GoFundMe’s for those in urgent need. —---------------------------------------------
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  • Secure Attachment and the Male Gaze in Little Women
    Jun 20 2024

    This season focuses on the 2019 film “Little Women”

    What is Secure Attachment? How can period pieces be a useful tool for locating ourselves in our current moment? How “process>product” yields creative practices that help us cultivate secure attachment within ourselves. And Happy Pride Month to Jo!

    Kristyn with a Why explores the question “is it possible to earn secure attachment across lines of power, rank, and privilege?” by specifically looking at four men in Jo’s life (Mr Dashwood, her Father, Laurie, and Friedrich), how she relates to them, how they influence her attachment, and their impact on her creative trajectory.

    (See time stamps and links to the scenes mentioned in the podcast below.)

    Intro 0-4:00

    Overview of the Season: 4-9:00

    Secure Attachment: 9-14:00

    Male Gaze/Jo’s Queer Self: 14-17:30

    Father: 17:35-20:20

    Dashwood: 20:20-23:29

    Friedrich: 23:29-29:50

    Laurie 29:50-35:30

    Men lose community in patriarchy: 35:30

    Jo’s Gaze: 38:25-41:55

    Outro 41:55-end

    Scene Links—------------------------

    Father’s note and breakfast to Hummels

    Dashwood office

    Friedrich’s feedback

    Laurie’s Proposal

    Men on outside before Marmee leaves (at 1:40)

    Jo lamenting to Marmee: Used to be enough but it isn’t anymore

    Beth wanting Jo to write

    Amy “writing about it will make it important”

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    Grateful for all the learning and inspiration alluded to in today’s episode:

    My teacher Carmen Spagnola for her courses on Secure attachment and Contact Nutrition on The Numinous Network

    Rev. angel Kyodo williams

    As always:----------------------------------

    Thankful for the musical inspiration for the theme song:

    Hadestown by Anais Mitchell, specifically “Our Lady of the Underground” and Orpheus’ Song

    “Hedwig’s Theme” by John Williams

    Shout out for the artistic assistance of:

    Matt Schubbe (Logo)

    Kevin Carlow (Music and sound editing)

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    Free Palestine! There are many ways to support the Palestinian people right now. Join a student encampment near you, call or email your congressperson via the JVP’s daily calls or email them here. 94 members of Congress have called for a ceasefire, can you help to add yours to the list? ​

    Spread the word on social media, or check out Operation Olive Branch, a mutual aid organization that has compiled a list of GoFundMe’s for those in urgent need.

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    43 m
  • Episode 0: "What's in a Name?"
    Jun 16 2024

    What are the questions Stoner Story Witch invites us to ask? Is Stoner Story Witch a set of instructions? In what ways is Stoner Story Witch an archetypal energy? What exactly defines a poem, anyway? How does sourdough relate to any of this??

    Kristyn with a Why discusses the title of “Stoner Story Witch” and shares a little bit of backstory to the three-year journey leading up to the release of the podcast in this decidedly un-pilot episode.

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    Free Palestine! There are many ways to support the Palestinian people right now. Join a student encampment near you, call or email your congressperson via the JVP’s daily calls or email them here. 94 members of Congress have called for a ceasefire, can you help to add yours to the list? ​

    Spread the word on social media, or check out Operation Olive Branch, a mutual aid organization that has compiled a list of GoFundMe’s for those in urgent need.

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    Grateful for all the learning and inspiration alluded to in today’s episode:

    Robin Wall Kimmerer’s Braiding Sweetgrass

    Hospicing Modernity by Vanessa Machado de Oliveira

    The Numinous Network and Quest teachings with Carmen Spagnola

    Rev. angel Kyodo williams

    Here is a link to the blog post I mentioned.


    As always:----------------------------------

    Stoner Story Witch weaves together the works of: healing from and unlearning the colonial mind*, liberation roadmap and embodied social justice**, and the responsibility of white wealth***, through an animistic worldview, attachment focus, and collapse-aware lens****.

    *Dra Rocio Rosales Mesa

    **rev. angel Kyodo williams

    ***Toi Smith

    ****Carmen Spagnola


    Thankful for the musical inspiration for the theme song:

    Hadestown by Anais Mitchell, specifically “Our Lady of the Underground” and Orpheus’ Song

    “Hedwig’s Theme” by John Williams


    Shout out for the artistic assistance of:

    Matt Schubbe (Logo)
    Kevin Carlow (Music and sound editing)

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    35 m