Hello and welcome to this week’s episode of The Fertility Podcast. I’m Natalie, and this is a slightly different one.

Please note the trigger warning on this episode.

As it is Baby Loss Awareness Week, I want to hold space for anyone who has experienced loss, is grieving, or is navigating uncertainty in their fertility journey. In this episode, I’m resharing a previous conversation hosted by Kate Davis, my former co-host and an independent fertility nurse. Kate spoke with Jade, who bravely shared her story of miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy. This episode comes with a trigger warning as it discusses pregnancy loss in detail. If this is not the right time for you to listen, please take care of yourself and maybe explore other episodes from our ten-year archive.

Before we return to Jade’s episode, I want to briefly share something personal.

Last week, my family and I were caught up in the terrorist attack in Manchester during Yom Kippur, one of the holiest days in the Jewish calendar. We were at our synagogue when the lockdown happened. My husband, who volunteers for our community’s security, was outside in a stab-proof vest, which is a sad reality for British Jews. We spent the day on edge, and in the days since, it has taken a toll emotionally. I want to thank those who reached out with kindness and acknowledgement. If you have Jewish friends or colleagues, please take a moment to check in. A small gesture goes a long way.

Now, back to this important episode.

In this powerful re-shared conversation, Kate speaks with Jade, who opens up about her journey through multiple pregnancy losses, including two ectopic pregnancies. Jade shares her experience navigating diagnosis, advocating for her own care, and the emotional and physical recovery process. She also reflects on the fear of trying again and the trauma of nearly losing her life.

• Jade’s multiple pregnancy losses including miscarriage and two ectopic pregnancies
• How she knew something was wrong even when the symptoms didn’t match textbook examples
• Her experience with methotrexate treatment and emergency surgery after rupture
• The importance of advocating for yourself when seeking medical help
• Emotional trauma and grief following pregnancy loss
• The mixed feelings around tube-saving surgery and IVF as a future path
• Common myths about ectopic pregnancy and how symptoms can differ
• How hospital staff and personal support helped her through it
• The role of the Ectopic Pregnancy Trust and the support she received
• Jade’s message to other people navigating early pregnancy and loss

• Follow me on Instagram: @fertilitypoddy
• Explore the work and support groups from Fertility Action: fertilityaction.org
• Learn more about ectopic pregnancy: Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
• Read about the Baby Loss Certificate scheme: www.gov.uk/request-baby-loss-certificate

If you or someone you know needs support, here are some brilliant charities offering resources, counselling, and community:

• Petals – The Baby Loss Counselling Charity
• Tommy’s
• The...

Welcome to this episode of The Fertility Podcast and joined by Betty Mukherjee, who you may know, if you're a fan of Channel 4's Race Across the World as she was in series 4 with her brother James and spoke about her condition MRKH (Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser) and is now doing amazing advocacy work on the topic and sharing her own experiences as she finds out more regarding her family building options.

Betty opens up about receiving her MRKH diagnosis at 16, how it shattered the future she had imagined, and how sharing her story publicly on national TV changed her life. She reflects on the healing power of vulnerability, the support of her partner Dan, and the importance of balancing self-care, fitness, and mental wellbeing during fertility treatment.

What we talk about:

• The challenges of being a teenager diagnosed with MRKH
• Why conversations with siblings and friends were avoided for years
• The reality of egg freezing, hormone injections, and physical side effects
• The role of mental health support—both professional and personal
• Using YouTube and social media to share raw, vulnerable moments
• Finding comfort in everyday rituals, like lighting candles, cooking, and walking her dog, Maple

Betty’s story is one of resilience, advocacy, and hope—and a reminder that “shame dies when stories are shared in safe spaces.”

• Follow Betty on Instagram
• Watch Betty’s journey on YouTube
• Learn more about MRKH: MRKH Support Resources
• Previous podcast episodes with Julianne Boutileb (psychological advisor mentioned in this episode)
• Andria Trigo shares her story of life with MRKH
• Sign up for support groups and advocacy through Fertility Action
• Explore more about the Fertility Matters at Work initiative and tell your workplace about The F Word at Work Live

Welcome back to another episode of The Fertility Podcast, and if you're listening in real time, it's September, which means it’s PCOS Awareness Month, and that’s exactly what we’re focusing on today.

In this episode, I’m joined by Ro Huntriss, an award-winning fertility dietitian and founder of Fertility Dietitian UK. Ro breaks down what PCOS is, how nutrition and lifestyle changes can make a real difference, and how to advocate for yourself, especially when you feel dismissed or misunderstood by healthcare professionals.

● Why conversations about fertility nutrition are finally becoming more mainstream

● What PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome) actually means and how it shows up differently for everyone

● The emotional impact of being dismissed by your GP and how to push for answers

● How to identify insulin resistance and support your body through nutrition

● The truth about carbs – why reducing carbohydrate load and choosing low glycaemic index foods helps

● What a balanced, PCOS-friendly breakfast, lunch, and dinner can actually look like

● The role of resistance training, HIIT, sleep, and stress in PCOS management

● Understanding supplements like inositol and when they might help

● How to advocate for yourself with your GP using NHS resources and tracking symptoms

● Misconceptions about fertility and PCOS – and why hope and progress are still possible

● Managing the mental load of trying to conceive while navigating PCOS

● Why support, education, and specialist care can change the journey completely

• Follow Ro on Instagram for practical fertility nutrition advice: @fertility.dietitian.uk
• Learn more about PCOS at Verity and NHS Choices and Fertility Nutrition Centre
• Revisit our previous episode with Ro and with PCOS specialist Kate Davies
• Sign up for support groups and advocacy through Fertility Action
• Explore more about the Fertility Matters at Work initiative and join us for our 5 November event The F Word at Work Live
• Enter your organisation in the Fertility Friendly Employer Awards – deadline extended until Friday 26, September

Welcome to the latest episode of The Fertility Podcast, which is during World Childless Week. If this is your first time listening, welcome. I’m a fertility advocate, a podcaster, and a mum of one. During the last decade of making this podcast, I've shared many stories of people's route to parenthood talking about those who have brought home a baby and also those who haven't as I have always wanted to ensure that whatever you are going through, you can find people who you can relate to. I also have a deep responsibility to include the voices of those who are childless not by choice, as their experiences and the acceptance that comes with revaluating the reproductive story you might have grown up provides such valuable insight.

In this episode, I’m joined by Helen Gallagher, the inspiring voice behind the Happy and Childless podcast. Helen shares her powerful story of navigating grief, identity, and purpose after coming to terms with not having children. We talk about what acceptance really looks like, how the workplace can be more inclusive, and why connection and compassion matter more than ever.

If you’re in this place yourself, or you know someone who is, I hope this conversation helps you feel less alone. And if now is not the right time, that’s okay too. Just remember that when you are ready, there is a whole community out there waiting to welcome you.

• Helen’s experience with involuntary childlessness and why she became an advocate
• How her blog and podcast began as a therapeutic outlet and grew into coaching and workplace support
• The emotional complexity of living in a blended family and grieving a path you never got to walk
• Her journey of self acceptance, healing, and finding purpose after infertility
• The power of community and why connection is vital when you feel isolated
• How workplaces can unintentionally exclude employees who are childless not by choice
• The impact of back to school season and family-focused milestones on the childless community
• The importance of compassion, boundaries, and emotional literacy at work
• What World Childless Week is and why it matters
• Advice for anyone starting to process the idea of stopping fertility treatment
• How Helen now helps others through coaching, podcasting, and advocacy
• You are not alone. One in five women and one in four men do not have children, and most are not by choice.
• Your worth is not defined by parental status.
• Connection, community, and support are everything. There is no shame in seeking help.
• Acceptance takes time. Grief and joy can co-exist.
• Being childless does not mean being joyless. There is purpose and meaning on the other side of loss.

• Listen to Helen’s podcast: Happy and Childless
• Visit World Childless Week to read stories and join the community
• Check out the work of Jody Day (Gateway Women), Jessica Hepburn, Aisha Balisaria, Yvonne John, and Robin Hadley
• DM me anytime on Instagram: @fertilitypoddy
• For support groups, visit Fertility Action

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Hello and welcome to another episode of The Fertility Podcast. I’m Natalie Silverman, your host, and I’m so glad you’re here. This week’s episode is a bit different as I’m handing the mic over to Katie Rollings, founder of Fertility Action and a familiar voice on the pod.

Katie’s chatting with Sarah, one of the original members of the Fertility Action support groups, about her IVF experience, her partner’s diagnosis, and the ups and downs of navigating treatment. Sarah generously opens up about the emotional and physical toll of fertility treatment, and how support groups, nutrition, acupuncture, and speaking to others have helped her find strength through it all.

What we talk about:

• Sarah’s fertility journey, starting with an unexpected male factor diagnosis just before Christmas
• The impact of delays and lack of communication within the NHS
• Why they went private, and how they made early decisions to pursue IVF and microtese
• The emotional toll of IVF failures, and the support that helped her feel less alone
• Sarah’s experience navigating fertility in the workplace and opening up to colleagues
• The effect of infertility on relationships, and how she and her husband learnt to support each other in different ways
• Discovering the importance of nutrition and thyroid health with a fertility nutritionist
• Switching to mild IVF and learning to advocate for herself at every step
• What she found in the Fertility Action support group: community, routine, understanding
• Talking therapy, nutrition, acupuncture and peer support as part of her toolkit
• Sarah’s brilliant injection tip and her #IVFninja moment
• Male mental health and how her partner processed his diagnosis
• Sarah’s call to action for more fertility education and support in schools and primary care

This conversation is raw, real, and a beautiful reminder of how much power there is in being seen and heard by people who get it. Thank you, Sarah, for sharing your story and showing us that it's okay to find your own way through.

Let’s keep the conversation going

• What do you wish you’d known before starting treatment?
• Who’s helped you feel seen on this journey?
• Have you joined a support group before? What was your experience?
• What’s been the most unexpected part of your fertility experience?
• Have you tried acupuncture or nutrition support? Did it help?

Huge thank you to our sponsor One Day Tests - use the code TFP10 at checkout for a discount

Links and Resources:

• Sarah mentioned the amazing Rosie Tadman who you can find out more about here
• Follow Fertility Action on Instagram: @fertility.action
• Join a support group: details on fertilityaction.org
• Message me on Instagram: @fertilitypoddy
• Thank you to our sponsors One Day Tests - use the code TFP10 at checkout for a discount

We also mention fertility acupuncturist Hannah Pearn

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Hi, it's Natalie here. After a bit of a summer pause (thanks to some tech drama), I’m thrilled to be back with a truly special episode. This one was recorded live at the Green Man Festival, on the Pandemonium Stage in Einstein’s Garden, and it’s a conversation I’ve been dreaming about for a long time. If you've been to a festival over the summer and think this type of conversation would fit, do let me know. Feel free to leave a comment wherever you listen or scroll to the bottom to find out more.

We tackled one of the most common yet complicated questions many of us face:

“So, do you have kids?”

It seems innocent, but for so many, it opens the door to grief, awkwardness, and a whole lot of emotional weight. In this episode, we explore why that question can hurt and what we might ask instead.

I was joined by four incredible guests who generously shared their personal stories and wisdom on stage:

• Mel Johnson, solo parent coach and founder of The Stork and I
• Shema Tariq, academic, writer, baby loss advocate and Tommy’s trustee
• Betty Mukherjee, MRKH campaigner and Race Across the World finalist
• And my husband, Rich Silverman, who opened up publicly for the first time about our journey with male factor infertility and the mental health impact on him

• Why the question “Do you have kids?” can be so deeply painful when you’re navigating infertility, baby loss, or childlessness not by choice
• Mel’s journey to solo motherhood and the way people still make assumptions about women who choose that path
• Shema’s IVF experience using donor eggs, the heart breaking loss of her baby at 21 weeks, and how her cultural background shaped her experience
• Betty’s diagnosis of MRKH at 16 and how she opened up about it during her time on national TV
• Rich’s journey with male factor infertility and how counselling helped him move forward, plus why more men need space to share too
• The words we use around fertility and family, and how language can uplift or hurt
• Talking to children about solo parenting and donor conception, and why openness matters
• The trauma of fertility treatment, especially for people of colour, and the inequalities that still exist
• How to truly show up for loved ones going through these journeys, and why "I'm here if you ever want to talk" is sometimes not enough

If you're ever unsure of what to say instead of “Do you have kids?”, here are a few suggestions we shared:

• “What’s been bringing you joy lately?”
• “What’s been going on in your world?”
• “What are you passionate about these days?”

And most importantly: ask twice. Sometimes people need that second invitation to feel safe opening up.

Have a listen to my chat with Shema previously - way back in 2022

What do I need to think about when going abroad for donor treatment? • The Fertility Podcast

• Connect with me on Instagram: @fertilitypoddy
• Shema's Insta: @drshematariq
• Mel's Insta: @the_stork_and_i
• Betty's Insta: @bettymuk_
• Rich's Insta:

Just a note to say, we'll be back very soon (hopefully 3rd September 2025) continuing sharing stories and expert opinion after a break.. caused by tech issues! We'll have some different voices coming up Please do make sure you subscribe in your favourite podcast app, and also get in touch.

I mentioned World Childless Week and you can find out more here and don't forget we are the official podcast for Fertility Action so you can stay up to date with the amazing work they are doing from the links below x

Links & Resources:

• DM Natalie: @fertilitypoddy
• Email: natalie@thefertilitypodcast.com
• Subscribe to the podcast on your app of choice
• Follow Fertility Action: @fertility.action
• Explore Fertility Action’s support groups and advocacy work: fertilityaction.org

Welcome to this episode of The Fertility Podcast, the official podcast of Fertility Action. In this conversation, Natalie is joined by long-time friend of the show and Fertility Action trustee Dr. James Nicopoullos, consultant gynaecologist and medical director at The Lister. They dive into the often frustrating diagnosis of unexplained infertility - what it actually means, how it impacts your treatment options, and what you can do when you feel like you're hitting a wall.

This episode also covers highlights from Fertility Action’s recent campaign in Parliament, new shifts in male fertility awareness, and why conversations around fertility at work still have a long way to go.

What we discuss:

• Parliament updates and raising awareness about cuts to NHS fertility funding
• The Fertility Show and how to handle the overwhelm as a new patient
• James' role as a Fertility Action trustee and why he believes in Katie’s mission
• What unexplained infertility really means (and why it's so common)
• The emotional toll of having no clear answers, especially for people used to being in control
• Questions to ask your doctor when faced with unexplained or subfertility
• What to rule out: hormones, anatomy, sperm DNA, and more
• The reality of add-ons and how to weigh evidence-based versus emerging options
• When it makes sense to seek a second opinion and how clinics typically respond
• The evolving conversation around male infertility and the importance of male involvement
• Fertility in the workplace, what patients are still dealing with, and how employers can do better
• Why infertility still isn’t fully recognized as a legitimate health condition in some policies
• How education, advocacy, and testing are slowly shifting public perception

Quote to remember:

“You should be using your annual leave for a holiday, not to do fertility treatment.”

Listen if you’re:

Dealing with a diagnosis of unexplained infertility, feeling stuck after multiple cycles, or needing a reminder that there are still questions worth asking and answers worth pursuing.

Links & Resources

• Follow Fertility Action: @fertility.action
• DM Natalie: @fertilitypoddy
• Email: natalie@thefertilitypodcast.com
• Subscribe to the podcast on your app of choice
• Learn more about Dr. James Nicopoullos: Lister Fertility Clinic
• Explore Fertility Action’s support groups and advocacy work: fertilityaction.org