Episodios

  • Episode 292 The Tightrope Act of Keeping The Kids Out of the Middle
    Jul 26 2024

    In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the struggles that come with dealing with a ex that isn't on the same page and exhibits narcissist like behaviors and how to navigate keeping the kids out of the middle of ongoing conflict.

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    54 m
  • Episode 293 High Conflict Co-Parenting Combating Harassment and Abuse An Interview with Talking Parents
    Jul 19 2024

    In this episode Brook Olsen and Kelli Avallone Join the Talking Parents team on their Co-Parenting and Coffee webinar to discuss Parallel Parenting and the use of Co-Parenting Apps. During High Conflict Co-Parenting and dealing with Narcissism and other personality disorders the use of Co-Parenting Apps like Talking Parents can be a useful tool in getting the conflict under control and tracking the conversation between parents. The use of such apps can all so help when going to court to show the level of conflict and who is in may ways causing the conflict to continue. This is a rich conversation that I think will help listeners understand the value in using these tools. Enjoy!!!

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    1 h y 24 m
  • Episode 291 When The Child Is Resistant To The Therapeutic Process
    Jun 28 2024

    In this episode Brook, Jussi and Bryson have a complicated discussion around the reasons and solutions for not only solving the difficulties of children resisting conjoint therapy but the reasons for the resistance. The discussions explore some very uncomfortable topics for parents to explore and own and how the court, attorneys and therapists can be more informed and better help these families. Enjoy!!!

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    1 h y 3 m
  • Episode 289 How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life With Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.D
    Jun 14 2024

    In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Styles, but in this episode Jussi and Bryson lean away from those tables to speak more directly to some of the behaviors that can lead to high conflict. Enjoy !!!

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    51 m
  • Episode 290 How to Choose a Therapist or Conjoint Therapist for Your Children
    May 31 2024

    In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Styles, but in this episode Jussi and Bryson lean away from those tables to speak more directly to some of the behaviors that can lead to high conflict. Enjoy !!!

    Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

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    53 m
  • Episode 288 Blind, Confused and In the Abyss. Now What.
    May 3 2024

    In this episode Brook and his co-host for this week Michelle Mitchell discuss the common state that happens when people enter into and realize the complexity of a High Conflict Divorce or Custody Case with someone with a personality disorder such as Narcissism or Borderline personality disorder. This is not unusual and working one's way through the confusion and darkness does in fact have a way out. Enjoy this episode and contemplate where you are and how you relate to this discussion.

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    49 m
  • Episode 46 Nervous System Activation (What is the Dog Barking About)
    Apr 26 2024

    In this episode Brook and Charley talk about nervous system activation and hypervigilance using the analogy of a barking dog. This episode will help you orient to the activation that comes from the other parent and be able to better manage that by entering into a conscious relationship with that part inside you.

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    37 m
  • Episode 287 Competency vs Capacity
    Apr 19 2024

    In this episode of the High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast Brook and Tony discuss the difference between Capacity and Competency and that building of the container ( Capacity) has to happen first and then from there Competency can build.

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    33 m