You hit a great month, maybe your first £10k, £20k, maybe £50k and you're buzzing. Then next month... nothing. You're back to wondering if anyone's going to buy, back to panic mode, back to good old chaos.

Stable success is built in the boring repetition that comes after the peak.

And for high achievers? Boring feels dangerous. You're used to the adrenaline, the rush of a surprise sale, the high of not knowing if it'll work.

But chaos with good outcomes isn't stability.

In today's episode, I'm breaking down what stable success actually looks like when £20k, £30k, £50k months aren't your high, they're your baseline. I'm walking you through the five pillars that allow you to hold consistent revenue: predictability, boring discipline, clean boundaries, emotional neutrality and not panicking. And I'm giving you the subconscious work and action steps to build each one.

If you've been hitting great months but can't seem to sustain them... This one's for you.

Topics covered on Stable Success:

1. Why does predictable revenue feel less exciting than chaotic wins?
2. What does boring discipline actually look like in practice (and why your brain resists it)?
3. How do clean boundaries protect your capacity to scale without burning out?
4. Why does emotional neutrality matter more than celebrating every win?
5. What's the subconscious pattern that triggers panic mode when things feel quiet?
6. How do you track your numbers without getting lost in data?
7. What are the non-negotiables that actually move revenue in your business?
8. How do you teach your subconscious that slow doesn't mean broken?

Connect with Rebecca Haydon:

• Apply to work with me
• The Subconscious Membership
• Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Find the full show notes & more resources at www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/

Mindset blocks don't always look like fear or doubt. Sometimes they look like being the most capable person in the room.

Laurie came to me as a self-described "anti woo-woo" woman who had no interest in the fluffy mindset stuff. She wanted someone to tell her what to do so she could tick it off and move on. But she also knew something was off. The reps weren’t converting. The results weren’t matching the effort. And deep down, she suspected the problem was her.

What did we find? Patterns she’d been running since she was six years old. A need to appear capable at all times. A refusal to accept help that went so deep she’d wrestle with jars alone rather than ask her partner sitting two feet away.

In this client success story, Laurie shares how doing parts work changed her business, her capacity to receive, and, unexpectedly, her entire personal life.

She sold her flat. She met someone. Got a Rottweiler. And she used to be terrified of even the smallest, fluffiest dogs.

But the bit that surprised her most? That’s what we will get into in today’s episode!

1. What happens when you're doing all the right things, but your mindset blocks are silently running the show?
2. Why did a 6-year-old version of Laurie start packing her own bags, and how was that pattern still controlling her business decades later?
3. What does being a "hyper-independent woman" actually cost you in business and relationships?
4. Can parts work actually resonate with someone who doesn't really believe in mindset work?
5. When does ambition stop helping you and start working against you?
6. What does refusing help with small things reveal about how you run your business?
7. How did removing one mindset block lead to selling a flat, a new relationship, and a Rottweiler?

1. Apply to work with me
2. The Subconscious Membership
3. Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

1. Website: www.lauriemacpherson.com
2. LinkedIn: Laurie Macpherson
3. Instagram:

You did the work. You made the identity shifts. So why does becoming your "higher self" feel less like power and more like... boredom? Or grief? Or just plain weird?

Here's what no one tells you about an identity shift: it doesn't always feel good. Sometimes it feels like death. And that space between your old identity and who you're becoming? I call it the void. And it's where I see so many people quit, not because the work isn't working, but because unfamiliar feels unsafe.

In today's episode, I'm getting into what's actually happening beneath the surface when you're in the void. Why your nervous system might be pulling you back to chaos (even when you wanted calm). Why that "bored" feeling might actually be your true self showing up. And I'm walking you through NLP techniques and subconscious reprogramming practices to anchor into your next-level identity when the self sabotage behaviour kicks in.

If you've been doing the deep work and wondering why it feels harder than everyone makes it look... This one's for you!

Topics covered on Identity Shifts:

1. Why does stepping out of your comfort zone feel like something's wrong with you?
2. What is "the void" and why do so many people quit right before their identity shift clicks?
3. Why does your old identity get louder the closer you get to change?
4. Is that "bored" feeling actually your nervous system recalibrating? Or have you lost your spark?
5. How do you stop self sabotaging when your brain keeps pulling you back to old patterns?
6. What does parts work look like when a protective part won't go quietly?
7. Which NLP techniques actually help you anchor a new identity (not just visualise it)?
8. Why has your success been built on panic? And what happens when you finally create safety?

Connect with Rebecca Haydon:

1. Apply to work with me
2. The Subconscious Membership
3. Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Find the full show notes & more resources at rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/your-identity-shift-feels-like-sht-good-keep-going