Every single boundary in business I ever broke, I could justify. I told myself I was being responsive, being committed, being a good coach... But underneath all of that? I was terrified. Terrified that if I wasn't always available, people would leave. That if I said no, I wasn't valuable. And those people pleasing tendencies didn't start in my business. They started way before that, in a subconscious programme I picked up before I was seven years old.

In today's episode, I'm walking you through my own boundary journey, from answering client messages at ridiculous hours to scaling a business by 70% the year I had my daughter Ivy, all in roughly 24 work hours a week. I'm sharing with you why your subconscious is literally wired to trample your own boundaries, why you keep saying one thing and doing the opposite, and the five types of boundaries with clients and in your life that actually allow you to hold more without burning out.

If you keep stretching and stretching and wondering why something always breaks, this episode is for you! Ready to learn how to set healthy boundaries? Tune in now!

1. Why your people-pleasing tendencies are the real reason your business boundaries keep crumbling
2. What your brain has to do with why you can't hold boundaries in business (and no, it didn't start with your last client)
3. How I went from answering messages at ridiculous times to scaling a business by 70% on less than 24 hours a week
4. Why every boundary in business you break is actually teaching your subconscious that you can't be trusted
5. The five types of boundaries you need if you want to scale without your sanity jumping out the window
6. How to reprogramme your subconscious mind what business boundaries mean to you so holding them stops feeling terrifying
7. Why your clients will actually respect you more when you learn how to set healthy boundaries, not less
8. The one small thing I want you to do today if you're ready to set boundaries for yourself and actually hold them this time

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1. 188. How I’m Using Hypnotherapy to Build a 7-Figure Business
2. 119. Setting Boundaries vs Holding Boundaries

You worked all day. You're knackered. And yet when you look at what actually moved the needle in your business… nothing. Welcome to productive procrastination! The sneakiest self-sabotaging cycle I see amongst women business owners. You've had results. You know the strategy. So why do you procrastinate on the exact things that would grow your business?

In today's episode, I'm walking you through the five signs that you're stuck in productive procrastination, why your subconscious is choosing "busy" over revenue generating activities, and what's really underneath the surface (say hello to fear of visibility and expansion).

But guess what? You don't need another plan, another system overhaul, or more clarity. You need to understand why your subconscious won't let you do the thing you already know works. And once you see it, you can't unsee it. I'm also sharing exactly how to start breaking these patterns and building real momentum in business this week, not next quarter. Ready? Let’s break the patterns!

1. Why does productive procrastination feel like you're winning when you're actually standing still?
2. The 5 signs you're stuck in productive procrastination (and how to spot this self-sabotaging cycle before it costs you another quarter).
3. You had a great month, so why are you suddenly pulling away from revenue-generating activities?
4. "I just need to get organised first," that's how your fear of being seen is quietly running the entire show.
5. You already know the strategy, so why do you still procrastinate? (Hint: it's not a discipline problem, it's a subconscious pattern).
6. The one question to ask yourself the moment you catch the productive procrastination pattern in action.

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1. 255. Why You Can't Get Clear On Your Next Business Move (And How To Finally Decide)
2. 245. Why You Procrastinate (And What Your Subconscious is Really Protecting You From)

You can have it all. A thriving business, a deeply connected relationship, incredible health, time with your family, and actual fun. So why does it feel like the moment one area starts going well, another one falls apart? That's the question that I hear as a mindset coach for women all the time!

In today’s episode, I am diving into the self-sabotage behaviour that so many successful women entrepreneurs experience without even realising it. Your business picks up and suddenly your relationship and business feel like they are in competition. You finally prioritise your health, and the revenue dips. You spend time with your family, but your brain is still mentally plugged into work.

I am walking you through exactly why your subconscious does this, the limiting beliefs driving it, and how to start the subconscious reprogramming that allows you to hold more without one area costing the other. I am sharing my own experiences with this pattern, from motherhood to relationships to health, and giving you powerful journal prompts to start shifting this today.

If you have ever told yourself that something has to give, this one is going to change everything. Because yes, you can have it all!

1. Why your subconscious only lets you win in one area at a time and the self-sabotaging habits keeping that pattern alive.
2. The real reason your relationship and business feel like they cannot coexist and how to balance relationship and work without guilt.
3. How limiting beliefs about success, love, and ambition are running the show behind the scenes.
4. The work-life balance women actually deserve versus the version we have been settling for.
5. Navigating business and motherhood and why you can have it all without becoming a different person.
6. Proof that having it all is not about doing everything at once; it is about holding multiple things without your brain forcing you to sacrifice one.
7. The journal prompts to help you stop asking "why can't I have both?" and start believing you can have it all.

For all journal prompts visit rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/yes-you-can-have-it-all-overcoming-one-of-the-biggest-limiting-beliefs-among-successful-women-entrepreneurs

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1. 140. Breaking the Belief ‘I Can’t Have It All'
2. 100. Hitting 250K, Choosing a Break Up and Moving Back to the Other Side of the World