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Ok guys, if you're on Fetlife and not having much luck with the ladies… How much effort have you really put into your profile? Be honest! In this episode, I'm joined by my Dom and long-term partner, Slade, as we dive into men's profiles. Slade himself is guilty of not keeping his profile updated, and like many men, has a lot more to offer than his current profile showcases. Together, we go through his profile piece by piece, incorporating valuable input from female Fetlife users about the red and green flags they look for when connecting with men on Fetlife.

Tune in for practical tips and insights that will help you revamp your profile and increase your chances of finding meaningful connections.

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• DaemonDanes (Fetlife profile)

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If you are interested in rope bondage, you need to listen to this episode! Ravel is an experienced rigger from Brisbane Australia, who understands that rope is so much more than just technical skill. With a background in theatre, dance and performing arts, Ravel talks about bringing intention to your rope scenes - that is, knowing what kind of experience and emotions you are wanting to cultivate, before you even touch a rope. Throughout the episode, Ravel offers loads of practical tips and ideas, as well as talks about the subtlety of non-verbal communication during a rope scene. I am so excited to share some of Ravel’s wisdom and experience on my show. Do not miss this one!

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• Follow Ravel on Instagram (@ravel_shibari)
• Episode #53 - about my experience tying with Ravel
• Lucero - rigger
• Red Rigger - Brisbane Bondage and Wax Play Specialists
• Anne Bogart - The Viewpoints Book PDF (free download)
• Miss Gen (Evil Girls HQ rope school in Brisbane)
• Somatics for Rope Bottoms by Natasha Nawataeko (book)
• A Director Prepares - by Anne Bogart (book)
• And Then You Act - by Anne Bogart (book)

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I know this is an experience on a lot of people’s ‘Fuckit lists’ so I thought I’d share some details that might help you in organising a similar experience... 🌶 In this episode I start by talking about the planning process, recognising agency, and some key factors that helped me transition into the right headspace for kinky play. I also share about what it’s like to include a CNC / free use type of role-play, as well as suggest using props to indulge all your senses. Lastly, I have a chat about what it’s like to be in an open relationship, the frustration I feel about the lack of acceptance when it comes to non-monogamy, and and the joy of “compersion.”

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