Tongue Tied

Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships

By: Stella Harris

Narrated by: Reagan West

Sex is still a touchy subject despite recent sex-positive advances. We live in a culture that vilifies people who are sexually adventurous and frames our kinks as shame-inducing perversions. Many people have never been able to talk openly about sex with their partner(s). But, you can get what you want out of the bedroom - if you ask for it. Why should anyone settle for mediocre sex?!

Whether addressing sexual frustration with your partner, trying out new fantasies, or negotiating the terms of a BDSM scene, Stella Harris believes that communication skills are vital to sexual fulfillment. Tongue Tied gives listeners straightforward advice on how to conquer their fears, identify their needs, and feel positively empowered. Harris charmingly takes listeners through all aspects of communication, from basic interpersonal skills to negotiation advice for expert-level kink play. Learn how to have fun, embrace silly moments, support your loved ones, and take personal responsibility for your desires.

An incredible guide full of exercises, tools, and personal examples, Tongue Tied is a must-listen for people of every experience level and relationship status.

Contains mature themes.

©2018 Stella Harris (P)2021 Tantor

Solid sexual communication book

I think the main audience is younger people but there’s something for everyone. Fantastic section on communicating when adding specific kinks. It really streamlines potential issues and explains how to talk it out.

For sexual communication books to the married crowd, I highly recommend Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin. I found it way more helpful than her good YouTube channel.

Fantastic

The content was packed with good information and was low on fluff. Narrator was excellent and easy to listen to.