Nathan Hammerle is a sexual wellness educator and novelty specialist from central Ohio where the older kids faked them out and gave all the younger kids anxiety about the sex ed videos they had to watch about puberty.

Some things we said...

"Sex is messy and weird and we're gonna fuck up and just like, keep going."

"Safety is the foundation of any successful kink scene."

"How can we get more creative in bed?"

"I loved doing...that's how I sort of transitioned from history teaching into sexual wellness."

"There's room for everyone, but there's a responsibility...that everybody does their homework in this space."

"Electro play is fun...it's not all about pain."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

LA Sensual Movement Soundbath with Arielle & Sacred Sounds by Devon on 5/22: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/soundbath

Where to find Nathan:

Intsta: @theshadesofnate

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok & @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeee

Raye Schiller is a comedian, screenwriter and professional yenta originally from Queens, NY where they were raised as an Orthodox Jew. Yes, that means we are two Jews from New York which is obviously why this is the sexy yenta episode!

Some things we said...

"We're Jews. We have our own traumas."

"The gender thing was the reason I left. I couldn't exist in that world where I was a second class citizen."

"Relenting is not consenting. Just remember that. If you learn anything today, learn that relenting is not consenting."

"When you're in a subspace, you are, you're present, but you're like shut down, not shut. I don't want to use the language shut down, but you're so, you're like in a trance."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

Where to find Raye:

• Intsta: @rayeschiller
• TikTok: @rayeschiller
• https://www.rayeschiller.com/

Where to find Arielle:

• Insta: @ariellezadok
• Freebie!
• https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/
• Be my Daddy

K, love you, byeeeee

Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA’s top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero.

In this episode we talk about:

• 02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer
• 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel
• 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship
• 05:55 Open Communication and Supportive Parenting
• 09:16 The Role of Parents in Sex Education
• 13:24 The Power of Self-Disclosure in Therapy
• 21:32 Disarming Clients and Normalizing Experiences
• 23:00 Spoiler… Therapists Hav Biases!
• 26:23 Harm Reduction!!
• 31:23 Lack of Sex Education in Therapy Programs
• 39:39 Defining Boundaries and Scope of Practice
• 41:33 You Gotta Like Your Therapist!
• 44:15 Sex and Politics - They’re unfortunately intertwined!
• 45:37 Religion's Impact on Sexuality
• 47:59 The Cruelty of Sex Education
• 51:36 The Importance of Embracing Childhood Curiosity
• 59:40 Find Your Community and Get Support

You can find Dr. Alix on Instagram at @dralixagar and her website https://dralixagar.com/

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

LOS ANGELES: Join me on Wednesday May 15th for a Couples Intimacy Workshop at Zula Den where we'll be exploring arousal, gaining practical sexy communication tools and embaring on a journey of sensory exploration designed to ignite passion and deepen connection. Learn more at: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeeee