Money Together

How to find fairness in your relationship and become an unstoppable financial team

By: Douglas Boneparth, Heather Boneparth

Narrated by: Heather Boneparth

"A must-read for every couple navigating one of life’s most sensitive topics."
—Morgan Housel, two-time bestselling author, The Psychology of Money and Same as Ever

Money talks. Are you listening?

Your relationship with money begins long before you find a partner, and it isn’t quick to change just because you love someone. Your money behaviours reflect your identities, values, and deepest feelings. So, you’ll need more than budgets and bank accounts to navigate them together.

In Money Together, Heather and Douglas Boneparth – financial gurus and married couple – help couples in every era of their lives approach money with greater fairness, sustainability, respect, and love. They offer short stories from their own lives, as well as those from other couples whose experiences are as raw and real as they get. With help from leading financial experts, couples therapists, psychologists, and more, they offer a fresh, human perspective on a taboo topic that leaves too much unsaid.

Money Together is more than a money guide – it’s a movement for creating powerful relationships with both partners at the table.

Critic reviews

A must-read for every couple navigating one of life’s most sensitive topics. (Morgan Housel, two-time bestselling author, The Psychology of Money and Same as Ever)

Money Together is a must read for every person who is coupled or thinking of partnering. Heather and Douglas Boneparth are authentic and humorous storytellers who guide you away from unhealthy expectations and assumptions to a life of financial and relationship success defined by shared values and healthy communication. A heartful roadmap to build trust and connection. (Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author, Fair Play)

Heather and Douglas remind us that it’s not just money that compounds—trust does too. Money Together is a rare and authentic portrait of financial partnership: equal parts strategy, sacrifice, and shared belief. This book isn’t just about managing money—it’s about investing in each other and letting that investment grow over a lifetime. (Matt Higgins, Wall Street Journal bestselling author, Burn the Boats, and Guest Shark on ABC’s Shark Tank)

Finances are a major cause of couple conflict and one of the top reasons couples seek therapy. Heather and Douglas Boneparth’s Money Together is a wise and comprehensive guide, helping couples better understand their relationship with money (individually and together) and giving them the tools they need to avoid fiscal fiascos and work together in the name of love. I can’t wait to recommend this book to my clients and students. (Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD, Professor, podcast host of Reimagining Love, and bestselling author, Love Every Day)

Finally! Here is a must-read book that takes a truly deep dive into the complex topic of couples and money. Heather and Douglas Boneparth don't shy away from tough topics—from division of labor to family drama to power dynamics—and how they impact our emotional and financial wellbeing. They've thoughtfully interviewed dozens of couples about their lived experiences, which allows the reader to find themselves and their own stories within the pages of Money Together. The advice is not prescriptive, but it is essential—and I guarantee you'll find yourself going back to Money Together again and again over the course of your relationship(s). (Lindsey Stanberry, Founder of The Purse and author, Refinery29 Money Diaries: Everything You've Ever Wanted to Know About Your Finances...And Everyone Else's)

Practical AND Entertaining!

Money Together’ is both practical and unexpectedly entertaining. Heather and Doug Boneparth bring humor, honesty, and warmth to a topic that can easily feel intimidating. I finished feeling inspired, informed, and ready to apply their lessons in real life. The narration was exceptional—emotive, funny, and wonderfully dynamic.

A different perspective on your relationship with money

This was a different perspective from the money books I have read in the past. I appreciated the focus on how our past experiences and personal relationships shape the way we see money. The authors were very open about their own stories and came across as real and relatable. It was very well written.

Great read!

I really enjoyed this read- from the personal stories, to the interviews and the quotes shared by gurus. Lots of good takeaways for me, someone who has minimal financial knowledge. But, this book showed me how important it is to be getting involved and more invested in my awareness of all the bills, investments etc. we have as a couple. Highly recommend.