Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)

A Guide for Your Journey Through the Transformational Fires of Love & Intimacy

By: Bryan Reeves

Narrated by: Bryan Reeves

Most men are clueless around how to do intimate relationships well. Most women don’t know much better.

That was Bryan’s story for decades. At 36, in the midst of yet another agonizing breakup, Bryan had a painful epiphany: he had no idea what women wanted from him and no idea what he actually wanted from a woman, either. Despite earning a Masters Degree in Human Relations and succeeding professionally as a Captain in the U.S. Air Force, no one had ever taught him the essential skills for creating fulfilling intimacy that endures.

Bryan vowed to stop sucking at love, and thus began his transformative growth journey through the realms of love, sex, and relationship. What started as a personal exploration exploded into a viral blog that sparked a movement, attracting millions of readers worldwide.

Now, Bryan invites both men and women to join him on an empowering adventure through this anthology of teaching stories, revelatory insights, and simple practical tools for creating thriving relationships. Bryan’s wisdom garnered from both personal experience and thousands of hours coaching men, women, and couples for over a decade unveils for you the very secrets (that should never be secrets!) to flourishing in love and connection.

"Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)" is not just a book; it's a universal guide for anyone seeking to enhance their intimate relationship skills and cultivate deeper connection with a partner.

Whether you’re a man or a woman, Bryan's words will resonate deeply.

©2021 Brayn Reeves (P)2022 Bryan Reeves

I wish every man would LIVE this understanding

Bryan really seems to understand so much that alludes most men about women (at least women like me) and the frustrations, miscommunication, and tragically missed opportunity that can be the result of lacking such an understanding. Reading this felt incredibly validating, but also with virtually every chapter made me realize I really cannot settle for anything less than a man who is willing and eager to do this “work” and live these truths. I also gained some valuable insights that I hope will make me a better partner, both in my masculine and feminine aspects. Thank you.

Best book EVER

Thank you, Bryan, for sharing your journey of souls. As a woman of 50 reading this, it made my heart sing to know you were courageous enough to speak your piece. Aho

Clear, clean advice that every man needs to hear

I fully recommend this this book for any couples having relationship issues. It provide the clearest explanation of the masculine needs and fear, I have ever encountered. The author provides a toolbox of words and phases to promote a healthy connection and relationships.

This book sussed out all that lay within me.

Let me begin by saying I consider myself a man who is in tune with his emotions and has been on quite the journey. I am not the man I was ten yrs ago, I’m not even the same man I was two years ago.

I’ll dive right in and say I had quite the expressed relationship with the author. At first, I was good reading along and enjoying the ride. Then once I got to the middle of the book, when he began talking about responsibility and the ego, ohhh my body didn’t like that. I laughed at some stories, shed some tears over similarities, especially the late bloomer title. I yelled into my pillow a few times, releasing energy I kept inside of me, the one that kept shaming and judging me for missing the mark and losing touch of my own personal responsibility as a man. I felt agonizing gut pain, heart breaking memories I got to reconcile.

I recommend this book to those who desire remember our responsibility as men, or those who desire deeper connection and understanding the ins/outs of relationships. Thank you, Bryan.

transformative

Loved ALL of it! Currently in hopeful anticipation that the mindset and application of what I've listened to will yield its fruit in due time!

Amazing

For any man, wishing to have a blueprint to a thriving flourishing powerful, and above all long, lasting relationship an absolute must treat.

Deeply fascinating

Every word drips truth. Thank you for your insight. I wish that every man had the willingness to take heart. All our relationships would be so much stronger.

Great insight to the struggles that men (& women) face in a relationship.

This book gives terrific examples of how relationships can be eroded by the often well-intended impact of masculine and feminine energy. It provides a reminder of the importance of a sharing a common understanding of the purpose of the relationship, having and respecting boundaries, and seeking connection through suspending your own “shoulds” or “stories” to truly hear each other. A most helpful read!

Hard to connect with

Was hoping for more of a how to or what to do. Instead was instead was lots of pontification. I’m sure there are some great pearls but wasn’t able to get past all the new age CA inserted.

Condescending

Condescending. Throughout the book from start to finish, the author, has some nerve saying some of the things that he said.