I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Third Edition
Understanding the Borderline Personality
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The revised and expanded third edition of the best-selling guide to understanding borderline personality disorder - with advice for communicating with and helping the borderline individuals in your life.
After more than three decades as the essential guide to borderline personality disorder (BPD), the third edition of I Hate You - Don’t Leave Me now reflects the most up-to-date research that has opened doors to the neurobiological, genetic, and developmental roots of the disorder, as well as connections between BPD and substance abuse, sexual abuse, post-traumatic stress syndrome, ADHD, and eating disorders.
Both pharmacological and psychotherapeutic advancements point to real hope for success in the treatment and understanding of BPD.
This expanded and revised edition is an invaluable resource for those diagnosed with BPD and their family, friends, and colleagues, as well as professionals and students in the field, and the practical tools and advice are easy to understand and use in your day-to-day interactions with the borderline individuals in your life.
* This audiobook includes a downloadable PDF with a resource guide from the book.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2021 Jerold J. Kreisman (P)2021 Penguin AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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Do you feel like you're stuck in a cycle of intense emotions and impulsive behavior that ruins your relationships and leaves you feeling empty and alone? Are you tired of the angry outbursts, fear of abandonment, and intense relationships that come with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?You are not alone, and there is a way out. This book is the solution you've been searching for.
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Interesting and insightful
- By Anonymous User on 04-07-25
By: Anna Nierling
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Get Me Out of Here
- My Recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder
- By: Rachel Reiland
- Narrated by: Mazhan Marno
- Length: 11 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Borderline Personality Disorder. "What the hell was that?" raged Rachel Reiland when she read the diagnosis written in her medical chart. As the 29-year old accountant, wife, and mother of young children would soon discover, it was the diagnosis that finally explained her explosive anger, manipulative behaviors, and self-destructive episodes- including bouts of anorexia, substance abuse, and sexual promiscuity.
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4 out of 5 stars
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May be worth the pain.
- By SLSoul on 03-26-12
By: Rachel Reiland
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The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide
- Everything You Need to Know About Living with BPD
- By: Alexander L. Chapman PhD, Kim L. Gratz PhD, Perry D. Hoffman PhD - foreword
- Narrated by: Barry Abrams
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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If you or someone you love is struggling with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you need up-to-date, accurate, and accessible information on the problems you're facing and where you can turn for help. But where do you look? Much of the professional literature on BPD is too technical and confusing to be of much help. If you're living with BPD, this compassionate book offers what you really need: an easy-to-follow road map to guide you through this disorder and its treatment.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Great BPD guide! 👍
- By Anonymous User on 07-17-21
By: Alexander L. Chapman PhD, and others
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Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder
- Discover the Different Types of BPD: Effective Skills to Manage Your Daily Battles and Strategies to Help Others Improve Their Relationship with You
- By: Jennifer C. Dove
- Narrated by: Mary Kell
- Length: 4 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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Do you often find yourself happy and excited one minute, then upset and sad the next without even knowing why? Are you having a hard time making romantic relationships work because you’re afraid your partner will leave? Have you physically hurt a loved one–or yourself–out of extreme anger that you failed to control or stop? Or are you related to or concerned about someone with BPD–you don’t understand the disorder and want help? You’re not alone.
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Excellent discussion
- By D. Griffin on 05-29-23
By: Jennifer C. Dove
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Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners
- What to Do When Your Partner Has Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- By: Randi Kreger, Bill Eddy LCSW JD
- Narrated by: Rachel Perry
- Length: 11 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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BPD and NPD expert Randi Kreger provides targeted resources to help you build the confidence you need to navigate your relationship safely and effectively. Packed with in-depth information and proven-effective skills, this guide will help you evaluate your relationship, discover what you truly want and need, and gain the courage needed to make healthy decisions.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Essential if you are in high-conflict relationship
- By lcc on 12-06-24
By: Randi Kreger, and others
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Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder
- How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship
- By: Shari Y. Manning PhD
- Narrated by: Angela Brazil
- Length: 10 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
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People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be intensely caring, warm, smart, and funny, but their behavior often drives away those closest to them. If you're struggling in a tumultuous relationship with someone with BPD, this is the book for you. Dr. Shari Manning helps you understand why your spouse, family member, or friend has such out-of-control emotions and how to change the way you can respond.
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fantastic
- By randy on 06-15-16
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Talking to a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder
- Communication Skills to Manage Intense Emotions, Set Boundaries, and Reduce Conflict
- By: Jerold J. Kreisman MD, Randi Kreger - foreword
- Narrated by: Rebecca Roberts
- Length: 5 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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If you have a loved one with BPD, you need real, proven-effective strategies to help you navigate the intense emotions and conflict that can arise in daily interactions and conversations. People with BPD often feel anger, pain, and hurt from a history of invalidation and disappointment, and their difficulty in regulating emotions can lead to moments of lashing out that can confuse and upset those around them. Talking to a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder offers a breakthrough, compassionate approach to communicating with a loved one who has BPD.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Relief!
- By kathryn on 02-22-24
By: Jerold J. Kreisman MD, and others
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Married to Borderline Personality Disorder
- Overcoming 9 False Beliefs to Empower Yourself in Your BPD Relationship
- By: R.C. Leslie
- Narrated by: Whitney Jenkins, Hot Ghost Productions
- Length: 3 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
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Here’s what you need to manage and let go of, so you can finally feel in control of your BPD relationship. Are you starting to feel exhausted from living with your spouse, who suffers from BPD? Do you constantly tiptoe around them to avoid blowups or unnecessary drama? Have you tried to convince them to get treatments, but they refused to get help?
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- By Daniel McClelen Young on 03-31-25
By: R.C. Leslie
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The Buddha and the Borderline
- My Recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder Through Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Buddhism, and Online Dating
- By: Kiera Van Gelder
- Narrated by: Carla Mercer-Meyer
- Length: 10 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
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Kiera Van Gelder's first suicide attempt at the age of 12 marked the onset of her struggles with drug addiction, depression, post-traumatic stress, self-harm, and chaotic romantic relationships - all of which eventually led to doctors' belated diagnosis of borderline personality disorder 20 years later. The Buddha and the Borderline is a window into this mysterious and debilitating condition, an unblinking portrayal of one woman's fight against the emotional devastation of borderline personality disorder.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Clarity for a parent
- By Bob on 10-31-17
By: Kiera Van Gelder
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Sometimes I Act Crazy
- Living with Borderline Personality Disorder
- By: Hal Straus, Jerold J. Kreisman MD
- Narrated by: A.W. Miller
- Length: 8 hrs
- Unabridged
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As a source of hope and practical advice for BPD sufferers and those who love them, this new book by Dr. Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus, best-selling authors of I Hate You, Don't Leave Me, offers proven techniques that help you: manage mood swings, develop lasting relationships, improve your self-esteem, keep negative thoughts at bay, control destructive impulses, understand your treatment options, and find professional help.
By: Hal Straus, and others
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When Your Daughter Has BPD
- Essential Skills to Help Families Manage Borderline Personality Disorder
- By: Daniel S. Lobel PhD
- Narrated by: Terrence Bayes
- Length: 6 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
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If you have a daughter with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you may feel frustration, shame, and your family may be at the breaking point dealing with angry outbursts, threats, and constant emergencies. You may even feel guilty for not enjoying spending time with your child - but how can you when her behavior is abusive toward you and the rest of your family? You need solid skills you can use now to help your daughter and hold your family together.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Most helpful book on the subject yet
- By kscoco on 03-16-21
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Borderline
- The Biography of a Personality Disorder
- By: Alexander Kriss PhD
- Narrated by: Max Newland
- Length: 9 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
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An intimate, compassionate, and expansive portrait of Borderline Personality Disorder that rejects the conventional wisdom that this condition is untreatable, told by a psychologist who specializes in BPD....
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2 out of 5 stars
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Trying to bring back psychoanalysis? Why?!
- By Natalie on 01-08-25
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Complex Borderline Personality Disorder
- How Coexisting Conditions Affect Your BPD and How You Can Gain Emotional Balance
- By: Daniel J. Fox PhD
- Narrated by: Terrence Bayes
- Length: 9 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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If you've been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD), or suspect that you might have it, you should know that not everyone experiences the condition in the same way. BPD actually manifests on a spectrum, and while some people may encounter extreme symptoms and consequences on one end, others may be less affected on the other.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Gave me hope
- By katie on 09-24-24
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Mindfulness for Borderline Personality Disorder
- Relieve Your Suffering Using the Core Skill of Dialectical Behavior Therapy
- By: Blaise Aguirre MD, Gillian Galen PsyD
- Narrated by: Laura Copland
- Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
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If you are like many others living with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you know what it's like to be overwhelmed by intense and fluctuating emotions; to have difficulty with relationships; and to constantly struggle with troubling thoughts and behaviors. BPD can be especially difficult to treat, though there are ways to gain control over your symptoms and live a happier, healthier life.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Recommend
- By Carol & Mark Williams on 06-16-17
By: Blaise Aguirre MD, and others
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Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist
- How to End the Drama and Get On with Life
- By: Margalis Fjelstad
- Narrated by: Senn Annis
- Length: 8 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders are master manipulators; Caretakers fall for them every time. This book helps Caretakers break the cycle and puts them on a new path of personal freedom, discovery, and self-awareness, through the use of real stories and practical suggestions from a seasoned therapist.
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5 out of 5 stars
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life changing
- By Anonymous User on 01-08-23
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Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents
- How to Help Your Child (of Any Age) with Borderline Personality Disorder Without Losing Yourself
- By: Randi Kreger, Christine Adamec MBA, Daniel S. Lobel PhD
- Narrated by: Rachel Perry
- Length: 9 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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If you have a child with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you are all-too-aware of the behavioral and emotional issues that are linked to this disorder-including rages, self-harm, sexual acting out, substance abuse, suicidal behaviors, physical and emotional attacks, and more. Traditional parenting strategies that work on other kids just don't work with a borderline child. But you shouldn't lose hope. The good news is that there are parenting strategies that do work.
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5 out of 5 stars
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an absolute lifesaver!
- By Robin D Cogswell on 01-31-23
By: Randi Kreger, and others
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Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide for You and Your Relationship
- Manage, Treat and Recover BPD Through the Power of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
- By: Julie Griffiths
- Narrated by: Whitney Ann Jenkins
- Length: 4 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
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Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide for You and Your Relationship educates you on the causes and conditions of BPD while providing a variety of powerful strategies and new techniques you or your loved one can put to use to start feeling better immediately. Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) has a 77 percent success rate in the first year, eliminating the behaviors that classify BPD.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Helpful/Insightful
- By Christine on 01-19-21
By: Julie Griffiths
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- John S.
- 06-11-23
Very relatable
Recommend to me by my therapist in learning to deal with being with someone who has BPD. Very informative and relatable to how it was being in a relationship with someone with BPD.
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- treebear
- 01-21-25
Best Review and Approach to BPD
Both from the lay person view and clinical application, this is a must read to understand the world according to the BPD sufferer. It is written in a manner that encompasses the definition, identification, approach, and clinical application. If you are suffering from BPD, some parts may be triggering
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- Sarai Ingram
- 09-05-23
It really helped me figure some things out.
It was amazing and very informative. Definitely a re-read. I learned so much and I needed the information.
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- Amazon Customer
- 12-06-22
Excellent information
This is a great book to read if you're looking to have a deeper understanding of BPD.
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- Micah Howery
- 01-28-22
So thankful for this!
A little dry in the beginning but definitely picks up and will be incredibly helpful learning how to work with my daughter and her diagnosis.
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- Michael McAfee
- 06-15-22
Critical info on BPD for helping professionals!!
Critical info on BPD for helping professionals!! I was captivated and felt the information characterized - not demonized - individuals suffering from BPD. Highly recommend it to anyone curious about the disorder, recently diagnosed with BPD, or the friends and family seeking information.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-21-23
Great psychological examination and understanding of BPD
I was married to a borderliner for 20 years and this book has been scary how spot on it has explained much of the erratic behavior I had experienced in those 20 years.
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- Sunny
- 12-22-23
Immensely helpful!
As a partner to a person with BPD, this book has been an eye opener and helps me understand what my partner is going through and how for me to be a better support to her journey.
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- AngelMJKA
- 06-13-22
well done
updated version excellent. Narrator very good. easy to understand. pace, volume and diction excellent.
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- Leigh Servigon
- 03-16-22
Excellent resource
Clear descriptions and helpful examples. Useful resource for clinicians and parents. The appendix was esp useful for differentiating between BPD and similar mental health issues. Also full of hope. BPD as a set of behaviors that can be modified (and minimized to the point of perhaps no longer meeting criteria for the disorder) through therapy and skill work.
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