Meet Ebonie Allard and 'The Adulting with Ebonie' Podcast!

In this first episode Ebonie explains why she is doing this podcast. Why she almost didn't do it at all, and why she's put it off for so long. You'll learn what you can expect from Ebonie and the podcast over the coming weeks.

Welcome to the 'Adulting with Ebonie' journey!

Thais is a motivational speaker, author, women’s leadership coach and intersectional feminist on a heart-led mission to support the seekers, the visionaries, and the "why the heck do I feel so stuck” of the world reclaim their sense of belonging by learning how to explore, trust and express themselves unapologetically.

Based on her own healing journey and decades of research and mentoring women worldwide, she has developed a comprehensive model that explores and offers tools/skills to heal the pervasive sense of unworthiness within women, what she calls the worthiness wound. She received a prestigious first-class degree in Management and has studied spiritual psychology, yoga, and leadership for over 10 years. Washingtonian Magazine named her as one of the top “8 bloggers to know.” The Huffington Post calls her “an inspirational woman” and she was nominated for Forbes Magazine 30 under 30 award.

You can learn more about Thais at IamThaisSky.com and just about everywhere on social media, because #millennial at @IamThaisSky.

Fav quotes from this episode:

“Who you are in the world matters”

“We bring our ego’s wherever we go!”

In this episode we talk about:

• We talk about what really important ‘adulting skill’ having siblings teaches you, and what happens if you don’t have siblings to learn this from.
• What being a good human is really about.
• Which C word is actually a superpower when it comes to radical responsibility.
• Where the spiritual community has got it wrong.
• How our biology is running the show.
• The truth about what happen when you dive into your wounds and look at what’s not working.
• Why saying “I don’t see colour” is causing more separation rather than less.
• What LOVE really is.
• The difference between Truth and truth or truths and beliefs.

Plus, hear Thais’ and I give you our “I am an adult but…” confessions.

Kelly won a competition to get a free mini coaching session with Ebonie, she’s a mum, she’s been working in education as a teacher for 15 years and having recently left her full time job, she now has a new business idea, but hasn’t moved forward with it yet. She wanted to speak to Ebonie about her next steps. Kelly and Ebonie have never spoken before, but in this short session they dive in and discover what has really been holding Kelly back. Listen to discover what actions she must take to learn if her business idea will fly or not.

“I recognise that I’ve put their needs before my own, and even though I want to win new business, there are certain things I shouldn’t compromise on.”

“The first hurdle here is not marketing, and it’s not branding, and its not telling the parents about it, and its not you tube videos. Its actually just these two things. ”

• The biggest challenges that she has identified which are holding her back from moving forward with her business idea with confidence
• The big truth about the thing that is actually holding her back
• How assumptions about the mindset of her target market have been affecting her
• Her confessions about what she’s already said yes to that she shouldn’t have.
• The surprising question that Kelly needs to ask her friends.
• The challenging truth that I invited Kelly to address in her friendships.
• The one step forward I think is more important than any of the rest of it.