Ever wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it has to do with how much you PISS HIM OFF.

Well... kinda.

On today's episode we cover:

• The Love Hormones: Women have oxytocin, the love hormone released during sex and cuddling. Men? They have vasopressin, their “monogamy hormone,” which kicks in when you stress him out!
• Stress Him Out: Discover why a little stress is good for making your man fall for you.
• Triggering Love: Learn about the stress hormones in men and how to activate them to your advantage.
• Stages of Love: Uncover the three stages of how a man falls in love.
• When Men Pull Away: Find out the real reason men disappear when things are going so well and what you can do about it.
• Love Psychology: Dive into the psychology of love with 8 actionable tips to win his heart.

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Tune in and get the scoop on how to master the art of love – scientifically and cheekily! 💘🧬

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Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's time to master the dating game the Violet Benson way!!

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Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal.

In today's episode, we discuss:

• The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work.
• Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Aging: Attaching worth to looks and struggling with the inevitable.
• Perfectionism & OCD: The constant battle for everything to be 'just right.'
• Mummy Issues: Deep dives into childhood wounds
• The Hoffman Process: A therapy treatment that you might want to consider
• Competitiveness with Your Partner: What's missing?
• Relationship Betrayals: Kaitlyn spills never before discussed tea on her past relationship(s), why she felt betrayed, and the fears that linger on.

And so much more. Listen now for a mix of laughs, insights, and 'aha' moments!

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