Ever wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it has to do with how much you PISS HIM OFF.

Well... kinda.

On today's episode we cover:

• The Love Hormones: Women have oxytocin, the love hormone released during sex and cuddling. Men? They have vasopressin, their “monogamy hormone,” which kicks in when you stress him out!
• Stress Him Out: Discover why a little stress is good for making your man fall for you.
• Triggering Love: Learn about the stress hormones in men and how to activate them to your advantage.
• Stages of Love: Uncover the three stages of how a man falls in love.
• When Men Pull Away: Find out the real reason men disappear when things are going so well and what you can do about it.
• Love Psychology: Dive into the psychology of love with 8 actionable tips to win his heart.

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Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's time to master the dating game the Violet Benson way!!

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Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal.

In today's episode, we discuss:

• The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work.
• Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Aging: Attaching worth to looks and struggling with the inevitable.
• Perfectionism & OCD: The constant battle for everything to be 'just right.'
• Mummy Issues: Deep dives into childhood wounds
• The Hoffman Process: A therapy treatment that you might want to consider
• Competitiveness with Your Partner: What's missing?
• Relationship Betrayals: Kaitlyn spills never before discussed tea on her past relationship(s), why she felt betrayed, and the fears that linger on.

And so much more. Listen now for a mix of laughs, insights, and 'aha' moments!

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In this episode, Violetta gives you the "dummy'' guide to emotional intelligence by sharing some insight from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think. Get ready for some tough love and practical wisdom to boost your emotional intelligence.

What You'll Learn:

• Embrace Pain: Why avoiding pain is holding you back and how to let it flow through and pass.
• Pain’s Role in Happiness: Discover why pain is necessary for true happiness and personal growth.
• Emotional Health Hacks: The ten things emotionally healthy people do that you can start doing today.
• Feelings vs. Thoughts: The difference between how you feel and how you think you feel.
• Pain and Happiness Connection: Understand why you need to accept pain to achieve happiness.
• Hedonistic Treadmill: Why constantly trying to change your life doesn’t always make you happier and how to deal with it.

This episode is packed with insights that will help you understand and manage your emotions better, leading to a happier, more fulfilling life. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode and start your journey to emotional health and happiness.

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Hey Besties! Today, we’re diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches!

Ever wondered if there was any truth to men knowing right off the bat if they want to date you or just sleep with you? well guess what, there is! Today we uncover all the truths men DON'T want you to know, including the two categories men put women into and how you can navigate these to not only snag your dream man but also transform into that irresistible dream girl.

In this episode, we break down:

• The two categories of women in men's minds
• Key attraction principles you need to know
• How to become his dream girl and get your dream man
• What men don’t want women to know
• Two things women does to make a man madly in love with her
• How long should you wait before having s*x
• how to snag your dream man
• Sometimes A Man Deliberately Won’t Call Just To See How You Respond
• Act Like a Price and You’ll Turn Him Into a Believer
• and so much more!!!

Tune in and transform your love life!

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Hey besties! Ready to attract the love of your life? In this juicy episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta is spilling the tea about her personal life and then diving into the manifesting secrets behind Project 369: The Key to the Universe - Final Edition. This isn’t just woo-woo talk; it’s a step-by-step guide to manifesting your soulmate and living your best life.

Episode Highlights:

• Vibe High: Get on the right vibration level to attract your soulmate.
• Self-Love Magic: Learn why loving yourself is the key to manifesting.
• Visualize & Feel: Picture your dream love and feel like it’s already yours.
• Daily Rituals: Simple meditation and micro habits to supercharge your manifesting game.
• Power Words: Harness the power of “I AM” to create your reality.
• Call to Action: Practical, fun exercises to bring your desires to life.

Don't miss this episode—it’s your ultimate love manifesting cheat sheet! Tune in and let’s get you manifesting the love and life you deserve. ✨💕

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In today's episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta Benson dives deep into Chapter 8 of John Gray's Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of miscommunication? Well, it's time to uncover the juicy truths about the different emotional needs between men and women. Violetta dishes on:

• The #1 reason couples break up 💔
• Why you're failing at dating 😬
• why you're turning each other off
• The six primary emotional needs that are required for a healthy relationship that will make or break it 😲
• How to SAVE your relationship
• How to get what you want out of your relationship while making your partner feel truly loved

Tune in for another educational episode and create a love that lasts. Don't forget to download today's episode and subscribe so you never miss an episode again!

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Ever wondered about the real difference between THC and CBD? Tune into this electrifying episode of Almost Adulting as Violetta Benson spills the beans on her unforgettable game night, featuring a magical mix of CBD and chocolate shrooms that made for the best night of her life.

Violet sits down with Ellese Symons, the powerhouse VP of Marketing at CBDistillery, to uncover her inspiring journey from battling chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia to finding renewed vitality with CBD. They also dive into groundbreaking sleep research, revealing the critical effects of sleep deprivation and how CBD can help you catch those essential Z's. Discover how these plant-powered wonders are transforming lives, one drop at a time.

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