You are the queen of your home. Your energy is the main energy your home will carry and when you are constantly living in the energy of ‘I don’t matter’ because you’re worried about taking care of everyone else, I’ve got something for you.

I’ll admit, it has taken me many years of marriage to get to the point that I’m at with my hubs + I am so happy we were willing to do the work to get here.

There’s nothing that fires me up more than when a husband tells his wife no and she just says, ‘Ok’ like that’s the end of it.

I spend too many years doing this and here’s where it leads.

RESENTMENT. In a big way!

Your relationship is a partnership and you get to figure things out together. The example I use here is one where a client wanted to hire a baby-sitter to help with the kids a little bit each week and her husband didn’t agree with the place that she was thinking of…. He put a boundary in place.

Now the communication has opened up and she has the opportunity to say, ‘Ok, where would you rather me take them instead?”

They get to have the conversation, she gets her needs met (her boundary… I need childcare), and his boundary is adhered to.

Everyone feels good!

Whatever your situation is and whatever you need help with, you deserve to have the support. But you also need to be willing to speak it.

You both brought your kids into the world + chose to be together, so how can you create a life and relationship that feels damn good to you?

I’m teaching you a few steps on this week’s episode.

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You create the rules in mom life, do you get that?

I’ve been thinking about this for a while now and I’ve come to realize that most of the time, we tuck ourselves in boxes of ways that we think we ‘should’ be.

And it’s time to shift.

Our lives are only created by chance when we allow what comes to come and don’t stand in our power to choose.

Your current reality was created by you through the choices you made and the actions you took.

And the most amazing thing is, because you created the reality you currently live in, you can also create the next reality you desire.

It’s only your beliefs that created the reality you are in and those can always be changed.

It’s YOUR TIME to create your life in a way that feels good for you.

It’s your time to get out of the box of ‘shoulds’ and start being intentional about the things you do.

It’s time for you to choose to take different action, maybe even one that feels a little uncomfy because that’s where the most growth happens → on the other side of discomfort.

And if your brain is asking you how I want you to think about this question…

If I was a woman + mom living the life I desired with EVERYTHING I’ve ever wanted, how would I show up today?

How would I think about life?

If there were no rules, what would I choose to do?

It’s time to bring that vision you have for your life into your life.

This is what I love helping women do and you are NO exception to any rule because you get to CHOOSE your own!

This week’s Pep Talk is so dang good so go listen + please drop a review and let me know what you think!

The empowered mom knows who she wants to be and she decides how she shows up.

She lives her life with intention.

She shows up in motherhood with intention.

She knows that there’s work to do and things to work through when it comes to raising her kids.

She knows that our kids are here to teach us the parts that need to be healed the most within.

She has big dreams AND desires to show up big for her kids too.

She chooses how she shows up.

She chooses how life works for her.

She lets go of judgment that it all has to look a certain way.

The vibe is: YOUR life YOUR way. Every area of it from motherhood, partnership, making money, the support... it's all done as you choose.

In this episode I talk about showing up as a mom. Where I’ve fallen short + made changes so that you can too.

The thing is… Motherhood gets to look no different than the way we choose it to be and this is what I’m here to help you create.

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