Where do I start? What does a divorced or divorcing gay man over 40 have in common with a divorced or divorcing straight man? After interviewing Karl Dunn - quite a bit. Karl comes to us to discuss the plight of gay men's divorce - with quite a bit of similarities and few differences. His ability to form a special bond with some of his new-found friends at work is unique. Both sets of men basically have some of the same issues and complexities that encompass divorce.

This episode includes discussions of living in an artist collective, self-love, the elusive pot of gold, and Marian’s Law. We have to get Karl back for part two, for I think we only scratched the surface. Thanks, Karl.

Topics of;

• Regret

• Forgive yourself

• Master your aloneness

• Divorce law is written for men, women and children

• There is no protocol

• Divorce reform as a mental health issue

• Carvana Tower commercial

• The marriage didn’t make him. His divorce did

• Beating yourself

• Repeating the same patterns

• The elephant in the room

• Communication vs Respect

• Anger is not required

• I am enough being alone

• Expecting and rehearsing things that happen in your life

• Rainbow divorce

ALL THINGS KARL

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Welcome Jonathan Steele to the show. Being a divorce attorney, he has seen the whole gambit of the same old and the new old in his career. Discussions of narcissism and gaslighting, divorce law misconceptions, parenting time, not leaving the home, being organized, and not bad-mouthing your ex. But, what intrigued me the most was his cybersecurity element of divorce. It was so fascinating. This is not just your ordinary lawyer vs. divorce recovery podcast.

Also Topics on:

The power imbalance in the couple

Lawyers cost more than a therapist

Fight for parenting time

Frequent flyer

Welcoming good lawyers

Mediation

Concentrate on being the best father you can be

Two happy homes are better than one unhappy one

Get petty with pets

Parenting time with pets

Full disclosure

Children may want to blame themselves for the divorce

Parenting comes with experience

Never stay for the kids

Beermann Law Office Website

Steele Fortress - Cybersecurity

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Not too often do we have an actual wellness advocate on the show. I do enjoy my professionals, but Jonathan lends a new direction and flow to the mic. Through his life’s journey, he has compiled an experience quotient that relates to anyone who is going through a trying time. From discussing body image, voids in mental health, being a small circle guy, old guy hockey, addiction, balancing work and life, and ever day is a gift - Jonathan hits all the major cylinders of the engine of getting through some sh*t! I appreciate him taking the time to drop some of his life’s knowledge on us. Thanks, Jonathan.

Topics of:

Thinking about others

Be indifferent to those who present negativity in your life

Karma is a real thing

Avoiding feeling your feelings

The importance of therapy

Snack of the Month Club

Self-care

Friends vs. acquaintances

Keep moving forward

Share the benefit of fitness with others

Lead with grace

Fostering connections

Jonathan Niziol Website

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