In this episode of the "Father and Joe" podcast, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked aspect of human relationships: the power of asking for help.

Asking for help can be daunting, perceived as a sign of weakness or failure, and it's something many people struggle with. Joe and Father Boniface discuss why this vital skill is crucial for our development and spiritual growth. They emphasize that "learning how to ask for help because it's a relational skill and it's vital in relationships, and this is really what we're made in the context of and made for."

Father Boniface reflects on the vulnerability involved in seeking assistance: "Asking for help is admitting that I don't know. It's admitting weakness. It's admitting that I have something to learn. And it's really putting the other person in a position of power." He shares wisdom from Georges Bernanos' "Diary of a Country Priest" to illustrate the challenges and rewards of seeking guidance from others.

The discussion also touches on the fears and pride that can hinder us from reaching out. Joe and Father Boniface explore the dynamics between the asker and the helper, and how this interaction can sometimes lead to unexpected outcomes. They remind us that "healthy relationships ask for help. There's always a mutuality in that. And we don't grow in relationship unless we can ask for help and receive the help that's offered, imperfect as it might be."

Joe highlights the practical implications of asking for help in everyday scenarios, from hiring someone for a job to relying on family for support. He points out that "getting someone who knows something and at least is capable at it is better than trying to do everything yourself."

Father Boniface shares a poignant message from Pope Benedict XVI: "Save us from the prideful presumption of self-sufficiency." This call to humility encourages us to look beyond our own capabilities and embrace the support of others.

The episode concludes with a thought-provoking reflection: "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." Joe and Father Boniface urge listeners to consider the benefits of collaboration and community, both in practical and spiritual terms.

Join us as we explore the profound impact of asking for help and how it can strengthen our relationships with others and with God. Whether you're seeking personal growth, spiritual wisdom, or just a better understanding of human connection, this episode offers valuable insights.

Key Quotes:

"The necessity of asking for help is vital for our human development."
"Asking for help is admitting that I don't know. It's admitting weakness."
"Healthy relationships ask for help. There's always a mutuality in that."
"Save us from the prideful presumption of self-sufficiency." - Pope Benedict XVI
"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
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Welcome to another episode of Father and Joe. I'm Joe Rockey, here with Father Boniface Hicks. Last week, we delved into the importance of identifying your value hierarchy and understanding what you care most about. This week, we’re diving deeper into how we can put our spiritual priorities into practice and truly live a more loving life.

Father Boniface beautifully explains that, "We need to know what we're aiming at. We're aiming ultimately at love of the Trinity, which is love within itself is what the Trinity is." He emphasizes the necessity of regular course correction to ensure we're on the right path. But how do we translate this into concrete actions, especially in our relationships?

One profound insight Father Boniface shares is, "Have I been as loving as possible towards this person in my life?" This question should be asked in a peaceful, reflective state, perhaps during prayer. He suggests setting aside a dedicated time, whether in the morning, during a lunch break, or at the end of the day, to examine our actions and seek ways to be more loving.

Father Boniface also highlights the importance of integrating God into every aspect of our lives. He challenges us to ask, "Is God really the top of your value hierarchy in every part of your life?" This includes business relationships, customer service interactions, and even how we drive and shop.

For those already on the path of embracing Christianity, Father Boniface offers a gentle reminder to allow God to pervade all areas of life. He states, "God can be and should be, and then is He really in every part of your life?"

To further enrich our spiritual journey, Father Boniface recommends engaging with resources like Father Mike Schmitz's Bible in a Year podcast, reading the Bible, and exploring the lives of the saints. "The lives of the saints are the most authentic interpretation of the gospel," he explains, providing us with practical examples of how to live a life rooted in love and faith.

We also discuss the importance of persistence and resilience in our spiritual journey. Father Boniface encourages us to not give up, even when things don't go as planned. "Not to quit the workout plan, not to quit the lifestyle just because I found myself with a gallon of ice cream," he analogizes, reminding us that setbacks are part of the process.

Join us in this episode as we put the rubber on the road and explore practical steps to live a more loving, spiritually fulfilling life. Whether it's improving your marriage, deepening friendships, or enhancing your overall spiritual well-being, these insights from Father Boniface Hicks are sure to inspire and guide you.

Thank you for listening, and we hope this episode helps you on your journey. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always a way forward in love. We'll be with you again next week. God bless!

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Welcome to another enlightening episode of Father and Joe! I'm Joe Rockey, joined by Father Boniface Hicks, as we delve into the profound impact of truly embracing and living out one's faith. In this episode, we explore the complexities and transformative power of committing fully to a virtuous and holy life, drawing insightful analogies to help understand the journey of faith.

"Over the last week or so, I've really been thinking about our conversation regarding the numerous variables that can create problems, particularly when discussing social media's net negative impact. We can't isolate variables easily when it involves people in long-term situations," Joe reflects, setting the stage for a deeper discussion on the importance of a steadfast commitment to faith.

Father Boniface emphasizes the challenge of living out the faith authentically, comparing it to the dedication required in physical fitness routines: "Those who are all in and truly committed to living a virtuous life end up in a situation that is undeniably better than those who lead a sinful, selfish existence."

In our discussion, we touch upon the importance of having a clear value hierarchy, as articulated by Jordan Peterson: "We all have a God that we worship. Our whole humanity is ordered to that. What difference does it make if I worship one thing as opposed to another? Over decades, it's going to make a significant difference."

Father Boniface addresses how this value hierarchy should be centered around the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and how this alignment impacts every aspect of our lives: "It's not just about going to mass; it's about ordering your entire life according to a value hierarchy where the Trinity is at the top."

We also discuss practical steps to deepen one's faith, such as attending mass regularly, daily prayer, and engaging with the Bible: "Do I dedicate a little bit of time every day to learn more about this God that I am worshiping? Am I actually living out what I learn? When I fall short, do I repent and turn back?"

This episode provides a roadmap for anyone seeking to enrich their spiritual journey, emphasizing the need for continuous effort and alignment with divine principles. As Joe aptly puts it, "It's a long-term process of how we should act to realize incremental gains and understand that there is growth happening."

Join us as we explore these themes and offer guidance on how to integrate faith more deeply into your daily life, leading to a more fulfilling and holy existence. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more inspiring discussions on living a life of faith.

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