• Is He Your Soulmate or a Red Flag?🚩
    Apr 24 2024

    In this episode, we tackle the complex topic of soulmates and our tendency to seek comfort in familiar patterns, even when they may not serve us well. Through a recent conversation, we explore how individuals often struggle to accept uncomfortable truths about their actions in relationships. We delve into the idea that our attraction to certain traits in others may stem from childhood patterns and past traumas, rather than a cosmic connection.

    By recognizing and breaking these patterns, we can pave the way for healthier relationships and genuine connections. Join us as we navigate the fine line between destiny and self-discovery in the pursuit of true love.


    Website: nellthepleasurecoach.com

    Instagram: @hardgirlsoftlife

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    47 mins
  • 50. A Sex Coaches Guide to Intentional Dating
    Nov 14 2023

    Nell breaks down her step by step guide on how she landed a high value man who treats her like gold. She couldn't date in the ways most women are approaching the dating scene - she had to get clever with her knowledge of how men fall in love vs women and utilize that to work in her favour, find out whether he had narcissistic tendencies like two of her abusive past relationships, how he cared and provided for her as the healthy masculine energy she wanted and what his values were.

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • 49. The Mindset Shift to Attract a High Value Man
    Nov 7 2023

    Nell takes you through her major mindset shifts that actually worked in attracting her boyfriend after years of settling for wounded men who perpetuated her father wounds. Now she's thriving in a high level relationship but she put a lot of work into doing it the right way so she'd NEVER question her worth again and she's written out each step she took IN DETAIL to help you get out of dating lack lustre men too!

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • 48. The Sabotage of Women: Working and Living like a Man with Tasha Skillin (my coach!)
    Jul 6 2023

    If you're looking for a major motivational story with a strong female lead, then you've got it. Tasha Skillin is here not only to share how she overcame a life-threatening diagnosis but also to show you that you can always re-transform yourself and your life. She went from leading multi-million dollar teams to being bedridden, not able to walk up the stairs, not knowing how long she had to now, years later, just absolutely crushing it in a whole different topic. We're learning about how trauma dysregulates our nervous systems, how our world is set up for men, which in turn sabotages all the unique superpowers women have to offer but are being disguised, how ADHD in women is impacting you and my god, soooo much more. OH, and did I mention that she and her husband, Brandon are my business coaches? Yup - this is a rad episode you don't want to miss out on.

    Tasha and Brandon's Business is called 'Rules and Rebellion'

    Tasha's Podcast Interview with Nell: Are You Missing Pleasure from Your Healing Journey?

    Tashas Podcast: The Boldly Becoming You Podcast

    The documentary Tasha found

    Tasha and Brandon's Website: https://www.rulesandrebellion.com/

    Rules and Rebellion: Instagram

    Nell's Website:

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • 47. How to Date the Elite with Stef Rodden
    Apr 4 2023

    Have you ever found yourself wishing you could land an affluent man but quickly kyboshed the idea because you didn't feel good enough to play at that level? Have you been stuck in a relationship pattern of over-giving, over-extending, over-communicating and feeling like YOU'RE the one carrying the relationship health on your back? Have you wondered what it would be like to lean into the receiving role where plans are taken care of, the initiative is taken, you're pursued, and your time is respected? Well, girl, this episode is all for you. I'm chatting with elite dating coach Stef Rodden who's got all the tools in her Prada purse to help you find your worth and take you from over-run, over-extending, and under-appreciated to understanding your worth as a powerful woman who knows her feminine strengths and uses them to access a life she thrives in!


    Here's Stef's Stuff


    Website

    Instagram


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    54 mins
  • 46. The Power of Pussy and the Understanding of Men
    Mar 23 2023
    Nell is navigating the dating scene and she's taking what she's learned about boundary setting, keeping things mysterious, honouring her values and learning the psychology to get men to do the pursuing and is putting it all in to practice. She shares a situation with a love interest that just didn't sit right, chats about what being a high value and deeply soulful woman entails, the natural instincts of men and how they're set up to pursue along with some deep diving into what the challenges of life are all about.

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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • 45. Rebuild Your Life with Mindset Coach Stacey Vanthuyne
    Feb 8 2023

    Has 2023 made you feel a pressure to transform during a time when you are no where near transforming? Yeah, me too sugar tits! Which is why I saved this interview ESPECIALLY for the beginning of this year. Stacey Vanthuyne is a mindset coach who is here to drop some major truth nuggets about feeling stuck in your life and how to shift out of your shitty, low vibrational mindset and energy. Whether you're hiding from all the pressure to take on a new year, new you mindset or you actually ARE ready to become the person you know you can be.... this is a fabulous episode, sure to make you feel seen.



    Check out Stacey's Stuff!

    Here's her website

    Here's her Intagram


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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • 44. The Date that went Horribly Wrong
    Nov 29 2022
    Nell's been getting back into the dating game after a break up and she thought that maybe it was time to go for someone the complete opposite of her ex. Unfortunately, the opposite didn't go too well. Please prepare yourself for cringey, long, heart chakra hugs, greasy head rubs that impacted her face ph balance, obsessivness around little containers, uncomortable- two city block silences and bone broth hugs. Yes, go grab your sage and smudge your aura after this because Nell's opening up her world with you and you may honestly experience some nautiousness.

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    1 hr and 6 mins